Here is my take. I live in California, and I voted Yes on 8.
In my opinion, if that's your lifestyle. Fine. In this day and age, what you do behind closed doors is your own business. You want to get married, its not hurting me. So its not the end of the world to me. In fact, I really could care less. And yes, I think its fucked up your community was granted marriage to have it stripped away.
My problem is with our kids potentially being taught about homosexuality when, well, when they are still little kids! As a parent myself, I'm sorry, I don't want elementary school kids being taught about gay marriage.
Lets face reality folks, in the US, anyone can sue for anything. And its not just someone gay suing a local district because they are being discriminated against by the LACK of instruction on gay marriage that I am concerned with, but its these stupid politicians and judges that will ORDER instruction on this topic, or just allow instruction to occur when parents object. No, in Massachusetts, some dumbass read a book about two princes marrying to second grade kids. That's fucking bullshit. Some sick fuck decides "I'm going to introduce a book with homosexual themes to second graders." And when 2 parents sued, the judged denied their claim, stating there is nothing wrong with materials "reasonably related to the goals of preparing students to become engaged and productive citizens in our democracy."
WTF? Are you serious? Second graders? And in Massachusetts? Here in California, where liberals grow on trees, its only a matter of time before teachers here and there, start reading King and King or whatever the fuck that book was called.
I'm sorry, I'm drawing the line on this issue before some book is being read to my kids.
The majority of people in this state passed the measure. Will it be respected? No. I doubt it. Everyone and their mother is suing over this trying to get prop 8 tossed. Its amazing to me, when the majority of people enact legislative change by vote, it can be thrown out later. THEN WHY THE FUCK DID WE VOTE ON IT?
Anyways, that's my take. Hopefully you can respect my values for my own kids, I know a lot of people voted for prop 8 just because they don't like gays, or felt marriage is strictly between men & women, but that wasn't me. I know what the next response will be... "They weren't being taught gay curriculum, just a simple book." My response to that is yeah, that's today... What about tomorrow? When some teacher feels he/she has to take it upon themselves to start their own curriculum?
And Kanzen, sorry man. I have to call you out on one point. Nothing I saw or read stated what you did about people lying to us saying gay instruction would be "mandatory." Here's the official CA voter guide arguments:
http://www.voterguide.sos.ca.gov/pdf-guide/Props/arguments-rebuttals/prop8-arguments-pg56-57.pdf Nothing in there written by the supporters of prop 8 lied to us about gay education being forced on us.
I will say, people will lie about propositions, but let's face facts. It happens on BOTH sides. The pro arguement in prop 8 about the churches, yeah that's probably right. But the con arguement against prop 8 about it having nothing to do with kids, well not directly, but allowing gay marriage, particularly in a liberal state, will allow education about it to get into the schools. It already happened in Massachusetts. Only a matter of time...
Again, I'm not saying kids would have been taught any differently the day after the election had prop 8 failed, but it leaves my kids at risk of some teacher deciding to do this, or some gay activist, or the ACLU, deciding to sue and force same sex marriage to be taught in districts where they are taught man/woman marriage.
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