Engaged friend comes to visit tomorrow....

Well thats good that you decided against it. Even though according to you, you totally could have.

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Originally posted by Jeff613

Okay so here's what happened: overall we had a good visit any way you cut it. She's a long time friend so of ocurse it was good to see her. We wnt to dinner, did some hanging out, went out for a few drinks, had lunch the next day, stuff like that which she probably won't be doing with male friends in other cities after she's officially hitched. There was a lot of physicality....hand holding and the like but we didn't cross that line at any real petting or kissing. Not sure I wanted to do that either. It's okay if I changed my mind about going for that.

She was going to stay at a hotel but was really tired when she dropped back in at my pad for an after-drinking snack and a movie, so she ended up crashing on the bed, as did I. Didn't lay a hand on her. In the morning I gave her one of my intense trademark back rubs which brought her to an orgasm. Seriously, I didn't touch anything but her back while doing this. So that was kind of a consolation prize. She went to say hi to some other friends who live locally then we got together for some coffee. I sensed everything was just fine. I assured her anything that happened physically was not at all unusual even if she was engaged.

You know what this is probably about? Coveting. That's what it's about. One of the most difficult sins to deal with. I wish I was with someone but I just don't have the energy to go out and play that fucking ridiculous game anymore. If everything I've done so far *still* shows me being single, there is now way in hell I have whatever it takes to actually find someone. I'm already tapped and still single. I give the fuck up. I guess you just got to know when I hang something up in the end. I'll die alone in some fucking horror of a charity hospital and be throw into a pauper's grave, that's the bottom line. May as well live for today and learnto like what there is about singleness. It's been this way since junior high, so it ain't gonna change now.

Mann...dont hit urself so bad......in some moment u will find "her"....
and for what u didnt do...congratulations...u got my respect, u got values.....u will see later the reward of that.....with her...or with other girl

What a fucking tool

Values and struggling to be a good person count for nothing and won't get you anywhere with anyone in this world. Believe me, I know. Girls don't give a shit about that. She went back to her fiancee and a happy life ahead of her, I went back to my apartment to fuck my fist. As that was my last identifiable chance with any woman, I should have just done everything I could to fuck her. But I was so lame I even blew that. The end.

I'm 37 and haven't been on a date or had any interest expressed in me by any girl for the last 6 years at the very least. I've tried everything including not trying. Well, there was that one girl, but see above. People far far worse off than me who have some really vile personality traits get laid, married and otherwise hooked up all the time. Not even dumb luck is on my side. So that really was The End. The last girl who was ever going to think I was attractive is getting married. My destiny is to die alone in some fucking horror of a charity hospital and be then pitched into a mass pauper's grave. There is nothing that says that isn't going to happen. Nothing. Maybe if I had been on a date two or three years ago it would be different. Now excuse me while I crawl into a bottle for the rest of my life because I need something to ease the agony. I've held off until now but I'm not made of stone.

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Originally posted by Jeff613

My destiny is to die alone in some fucking horror of a charity hospital and be then pitched into a mass pauper's grave.

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Now excuse me while I crawl into a bottle for the rest of my life because I need something to ease the agony. I've held off until now but I'm not made of stone.

you should just kill yourself and be done with it already :P





no really though. i think youre over thinking the situation. have you considered strong medication such as xanex or something? :P

dude, your stories are so contridicting its not even funny... keep making up imaginary girl friends but please don't start stalking people

jeff, dude, you should put your energy into something more meaningful or something.

being single is not the end of the world.

where's this pity me party at? wow

h a backrub that brought her to orgasm lmaoo

I gave a girl a headlock and she had a multiple orgasm!

Get a life IDIOT go fuck someone else,oh sorry not bieng laid in "HOW LONG", bottomline get your own fuck partner and leave someone else's alone

Well, youre 37 but its just the beginning of youre life!
Nothings over and all ways are opened for you, need only to find and take one.
I know its hard to beeing a longer time single,
but there are so many girls who are not even like bitches...
You first need to find yourself again, and with enough self-confidence
it will work! You are not ugly, poor or having other crazy problems, arent you?
There are so much other people who have much more troubles then you,
so see the world is not bad :-)
Let the time come with the right woman.
Youre last step, was the first step to find a real love,
you dont need to be a macho! It was a right decision you made
not to sleep with the girl whos going to marry,
this story alone will take you further.

Greetings from Germany,
Jester

Holy shit you are sad. You should have to turn your penis into the nearest National Organization for Women. You don't even deserve a ticket to reclaim your cock. I am not downing you because you are clearly bipolar or depressed (see FeFe's suggestion above), but rather because you have exactly zero confidence. Dude, people who are fugly and orca fat get laid on a daily basis; it is your confidence that is killing you.

You live in Austin, which is a great city for meeting women. Okay, you might be past 6th St seeing as how you are 37 but downtown bars cater to people just like you. There are gorgeous women crawling all over that town. You should have to beat them back with a stick but instead you are punching yourself in the groin and coming to a fucking porn site when you should be seeing a shrink.

If you have been offered a job where you make more money without breaking the law fucking do it. You have paid into the system, you work with people that the average person would not. It is time for the system to start paying your ass back.

Don't buy into that "nice guys finish last" bullshit either. I out-punted my coverage by a ton with my girl. She is way out of my league. Before you all ask, we will see about pictures. I always ask myself what she sees in me but I come up with an answer; that is the difference between me and you. The answer is that I go everywhere in life with my chin up and my head held high. I wouldn't let anyone talk to me the way you talk to yourself. You say that shit to me and I will thump your ass in the head. If you can whip my ass, so be it, but tomorrow I will come to your house and thump your fucking ass in the head again. I guarantee you I will win in the end because I am confident and persistent.

Do things that will help your confidence. Work out or start jogging. Hell you live in one of the most beautiful cities in our country, get out and enjoy it. Pull up your skirt, grab your nuts, and jump your ass head first into life.

Yeah I am a noob and all that shit, no I don't post and I haven't contributed. Take it for whatever it is worth.

Stop the emasculation of Jeff613, you are the only one with the power to do it.
Back to lurking.

^^^^^This guys like Silent Bob or something

But seriously man, boost your moral or get some help.

10 pages of people telling Jeff what a pathetic retard he is, and not once did he lash out at me for no reason.

I have to say I'm pretty shocked.

There were some very funny things in here though. A++ thread (for the wrong reasons)

Jeff so you failed 'Changed my mind....*cough* BULLSHIT*'

I take other guys girls all the time, its fun, its part of the game and im sure occasiaonally other guys do it to me (when i haven't calibrated the relationship just right) no hard feelings no tears just move on.

Life is a game, you play the game within it and you only lose when you die.

Jebus dude...Could she give you more of a hint that she wanted to fuck?

Mostly, your lame for all the DRAMA you bring. Sound familiar?? I bet it does.

You could have at least whacked off with her lying next to you or maybe get a handjob from her, dry hump, and so on...

Therapy is a good thing...seriously.

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Originally posted by Jeff613

The only women who flirt with me are drunk ones who never do anything in the end.

This one line says it all....Keep in in you pants. If you are that hard up to get laid, go to the corner and pay your $50 and leave someone elses woman alone.

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Originally posted by Jeff613

Then how come she calls me when she wants to talk about shit you would think she could discuss with him?

Sounds to me like she thinks of you more like you are her girlfriend, not her idea of a person to hook up with.

Well, let's try this for a change. While I don't think cheating is right I also don't think someone can screw another man's wife without her permission (unless, of course it's rape). In this case he's talking about putting the moves on his friend before she gets married. If she's happily marrying this other guy no amount of moves from Jeff613 is going to let him into her pants. If on the ohter hand, she's ambivalent then he stands a chance with her. Remember if the store's not open then nothing is for sale.

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Originally posted by Pophai

I really can´t stand these double morale standards. Many of the guys here pretend they are angels

Says the two timing cheater who has no respect for his girlfriends...

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Originally posted by Red-X

Well thats good that you decided against it. Even though according to you, you totally could have.

Whoa, you're alive!