If you're going to do it, why are you seeking the counsel of others? I'm not going to even get into whether it's morally, socially, or psychologically acceptable.
Sounds to me like you feel a bit guilty with your predetermined course of action, and are hoping someone, somewhere will approve of your choice so that you don't feel so guilty about it.
Forget what you see in movies...she doesn't want intimate (read: sexual) interaction with you because she chose to stay at your place; and while some wine and a nice back rub might get her to open up about some hidden fears about getting married...ignorance of her commitment to marriage is a surefire way to sever the relationship you have with her (even if you do get her pants off).
Your dick might be telling you that fucking this girl because "it's owed to you" is worth any possible consequences. My suggestion...go get a tattoo and bang some bitch you meet at a bar.
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