Girls on girls - You have questions...we may have answers

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Originally posted by littl3

the "butch" thing is a small percentage of lesbians (from my experience) and is pretty much bolstered by guys that feel better about gurls not needing a guy if one of the gurls is like a guy...

a lot of gurls really jst dont need a guy or anything like a guy...

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Originally posted by littl3

is pretty much bolstered by guys that feel better about gurls not needing a guy if one of the gurls is like a guy...

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Originally posted by Arsenal

big shocker you post celebrities, I guess I should just say I havnt personally seen good looking ladies kissing or walking down the street holdings hands or w/e apparently my neck of the woods has all the butch and pig lesbians.

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Originally posted by EricLindros

Question for the lesbians:

Isn't a lesbian fingering someone a sign of affection?

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Originally posted by F1098

Depends on the number of fingers they use.
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Originally posted by FamilyGuy

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Any truth to the rumor that one is good, two is best and 3 or more is too many?

Recognizing that not all fingers are the same size but asking for general preferences...

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Originally posted by EricLindros

Personally, while I don't really like to have anything up there, I would still buy The Rascal. Not for sexual purposes, but just because it's so damn funny. I could put it on the dining room table as a centerpiece.

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

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For instance, some like fingers and toys, some like [ Link ] and others don't like to have anything up there.

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Originally posted by FamilyGuy

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Wow, that is hilarious! Either that thing is pretty bendy or that must be the XXL version because it looks like there is a lot of space between the two hands compared to the relative proximity of the average woman's kidshitter (totally gripping that term from EL) to chilli ring.

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Originally posted by FeFeHumHum

yeah i was just wondering if you're available this weekend to help me locate my g-spot. i'm convinced i don't have one.

i've tried to find it, ive phoned a friend and had them try to find it... ive printed mapquest directions and still couldnt find it.



pls help,

FeFe.




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Originally posted by Anonymous author on Craigs List

Dear Men of Craigslist,

Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to
understand, much less please. In a post-feminist society, you never know exactly
what you should be doing. Women are bloody picky, I know we are. It can be
scary, too, when women freak out about what appear to be benign issues. And men
who do their best to be respectful, female-positive humans, I salute you, I do.

But please, please just fuck me already. Honestly, I appreciate your
thoughtfulness. I like that you want to take things slow. I can totally get
behind the idea of emotional connection, but dearjesusinheaven, FUCK ME. We've
done dinner and drinks. We've gone dancing. We've cuddled and watched a movie.
I'm wearing a low cut shirt and you've been staring at my breasts all night.
Goodgodalmighty, get to it and fuck me.

When we get hot and heavy, please take charge. Please, please fuck me. Trust me,
I'm not going to just lie still - I'll get involved. But don't make me force
your hand into my panties. That makes me feel like a rapist. We've been kissing
for a half hour and your hand keeps grazing my ass. That's nice, but it's time
to move forward. Get on top of me. Don't make me get on top right out of the
gate and start bobbing up and down on your cock like I'm practicing some crazy
new aerobic yoga because YOU won't go down on me. Roll on top and start dry
humping like a good boy should. Don't gently suck my nipples and then pull back
when I moan with pleasure. You being coy is totally not what I want. It's not
what WE want.

OK, I know it's scary. There are lots of women out there who make fucking really
difficult. So, I have compiled some handy tips. Don't think of this as
complaining, or as schadenfreude for the Andrea Dworkins of the world. Just some
simple tips, for timid men who have forgotten what it means to fuck like men:

1. Taking charge is not bad. Oh, there will be some women who feel that you are
pushy. If you are making out with a woman, and she starts to push back, ask
nicely if things are moving too fast. If she says yes, say something like "I'm
sorry - you just look so fucking delicious. I'll go slower." Otherwise,
skillfully move forward. If you start kissing a woman, and she responds well,
and before long, you're both on the floor with her skirt pushed up, and you on
top of her, it's not the time to roll onto your back and start awkwardly
stroking the top of her head. Seriously, grow a goddamn pair. YOU'RE the man.
Act like one.

2. Ohmyfuckinggod, please learn to respect the clit. It's different for every
woman, so ask what she likes. Do not, I repeat, do not just wiggle your fingers
around her pussy like you're trying to tickle her. Do not drum your fingertips
against her vulva like you are impatiently waiting at the Sears Tire Center for
your receipt. Do not push the clit like it is a doorbell at some house that you
need to get inside of. Start by using all four fingers with firm yet gentle
pressure against the outside of her pussy. Do not charge in with a single finger
and start jabbing at things. And if you really don't know what to do, ask her.
Just ask. "How do you like it?". It's a simple question, and most women will
answer straight out. If she's being all coy, ask "Do you like pressure? Is it
sensitive?" The clitoris is a varied item, indeed. Treat each one as though you
have never encountered one before. Forget everything that your last partner
liked.

3. Most women like to be fucked, and fucked well. Yes, there are women out there
who want to "make love" every time - sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of
eye contact and loving kisses. Those women are not the majority. The majority
like to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled. The majority
like a good, solid jackhammering. When a woman is bucking wildly against you,
it's not because she wants you to pull back and slowly swirl your cock around
her vagina like you're mixing a cake batter up there. It's because she wants you
to hold down her arms, or grab her hips, or push her legs above her head, and
fuck her harder. Don't be too afraid of what this means as far as gender
equality goes - I am a raging feminist bitch, but I still want to be penetrated
like you are planning on fucking my throat from the inside out.

4. A little roughness is nice. Do not pretend that you had no idea that some
women like their hair pulled. Do not act shocked if she wants you to spank her
("Really? Spanking? Won't it hurt?" - yes, it does. That's the fucking point).
We know you've read Stuff and Maxim, and that's all those laddie mags talk about
in their "How to Please Her" sections. Start with light, full handed smacks to
the area of her ass that she sits on. Judge her response and continue on from
there. You don't have to bend her over one knee and tell her she's a naughty
girl and that Daddy's going to punish her; save that for the fifth date. Women
are less delicate than you think, so don't worry about breaking her hip.

5. It's OK for you to make noise. Otherwise, we feel like we are fucking a
ninja. Unless you actually are a ninja, and have sneaked into our rooms with
vibrating nanuchaku and zippered black pajamas, please, please make some noise.
If you're banging a woman, and she's crying out and saying your name and
moaning, and you can't even manage a grunt, she's going to feel like an idiot.
You don't have to make the sounds she is making, but do SOMETHING. You know how
when you are watching porn, and the girl does something great to the guy and the
guy kind of goes "Ah!", half grunt, half yell? That's HOT. Do that. Whisper our
name (assuming you know it) gruffly. Groan against her neck when you're in
missionary position. You don't have to grunt like a mountain gorilla, but if you
are totally mute, she's going to get worried.

6. Most women like dirty talk, in addition to the grunting. If you'd like to get
some dirty talk going, ask her if she likes the way you fuck her. If she
responds well, continue with something like, "I love fucking you. God, you look
so fucking hot." Is she still moaning in response? "Your tits are so beautiful."
Does that work? If she doesn't respond well to the term "tits", you might have
to stop there. If she keep moaning or responding, pass Go and collect $200. Try
the following:

"Oh, god. Your pussy is SO tight."
"You're so wet - are you wet because you like the feel of my cock ramming you?"
"I think I'm going to come inside you. I'm going to fill up your little cunt."
It doesn't matter that you're wearing a condom; we LOVE hearing this.

If all of those work, you can then progress to things like "sexy little bitch"
and "dirty whore". Tread carefully, but please, tread. Do not tiptoe. Do not sit
down. Charge.

6. You're not obligated to eat a woman out. In return, she's not obligated to
choke on your dick. Don't skip one and expect the other. If you do eat a woman
out, the only comment you should make about her pussy is how nice it is. The
length of her labia minora, the color of her interior, her waxing job or full
bush - you are not John Madden. No time for color commentary.

7. Do not bitch about condoms. Oh, we hate them. Trust us. They hurt us more
than they hurt you. But we don't want to be preggers, and you don't want to
catch anything, right? Don't whine about condom sex. Do not explain that you
can't come with one on. LEARN to come with one on, or if not, help us figure out
what to do with you once we're satisfied and it's time for you to let loose your
load.

8. We really like it when you come. It's called a money shot for a reason.
Watching semen shoot out of you is one of the most gratifying things EVER.
However, do not assume that she wants you to jack it off onto her face. She
might, but don't assume. Seeing and/or feeling you come is rewarding for us, so
there's no need to deprive us of it, but please do consult us before unleashing.
"I think I'm going to come - how do you like it?" is a fair question that
shouldn't rob you of your testicles.

In recent memory, I've been fucked by a very aggressive, manly guy, and I've
been... well, fucked is the wrong term here. I've been penetrated by a total and
utter wuss. Who am I going to run back to when I'm ready for my fill? Manly
McHardon, that's who. ----------------------------------------------------

*New point of clarification - some people have brought up some really great
issues in response to this post, so let me say this: I don't mean to imply that
all women like to be treated like whores. I do mean to say that most women I
know have told me that they like sex rougher than most men give it to them.
Rough does NOT equal chains and bondage. And this applies to the bedroom only,
and does not mean that she wants you to choose her dinner for her, or treat her
like less of a person. **Some women have said that they don't like it rough and
what the hell am I thinking? Well, girls, you're in the minority. HOWEVER, all
women need to remember that, in addition to be straight forward about your
sexual desires, you need to be straight forward about your sexual limits. Don't
be afraid to ask for more, but when something feels wrong, say so. Don't ever do
something you don't want to do in silence and then blame the guy. Silence is
dangerous.

Location: Seattle
it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial
interests

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Originally posted by EricLindros

So, is she saying that it IS ok to contact her with services or other commercial interests?