Girls on girls - You have questions...we may have answers

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

it really doesn't matter if the thread stays on topic or not.

Then lets talk about blowjobs

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Originally posted by Demodad68

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Then lets talk about blowjobs

Ok...you start.

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

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Ok...you start.

Ok, wanna gimme one

Ummm...you said TALK about blowjobs.

Blowjobs are cool. I remember my first one. There was this motorcycle gang ahead of me going too slow.

I yelled at them to get the fuckouttamyway...

Now THIS is what I call a spam thread!

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

Ummm...you said TALK about blowjobs.

I am talking, and in the spirit of this thread, I was asking a question

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Originally posted by Demodad68

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I am talking, and in the spirit of this thread, I was asking a question

Oh....ok. I didn't realize it was that easy.


No.

I've a question: What the hell? Asking a lesbian to give you one? I'm gonna stay out of this one. Don't get beaten with a stick, demo.

I have a friend who I am pretty positive is a lesbian. She's the biggest .....trollop that ever ...trolloped? I mean, dicks run through her like crazy town. I get the impression that she tries to hide the fact she is super obviously a lesbian by having lots, and lots (and omg, this is a site with nude chicks, but srsly, omg by porn star measure) of dongs up in her bits.

Have you ever heard of a lesbian who hasn't come to terms with her lesbianness...and just, tried to suck madd dicks until the uneasy feeling went away?

God that chick would fuck anything, I mean...Demo and Notech might even have a chance.

Could it be? No, I'm sure you don't know my second ex-wife. (seems they will do a Notech)

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

Boys.

Since you can't read my lips, read my type.

This thread WAS ALWAYS intended to give advice to guys about their relationships. For some reason though it turned into "ask a lesbian".

Gonna take a shot and say its because the title is "girls on girls"
And you started like, "I'm a lesbian and my lover is bi..."

Pretty sure few guys were gonna get past those two thoughts even if they read everything else.

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Originally posted by Honda_X

I have a friend who I am pretty positive is a lesbian. She's the biggest .....trollop that ever ...trolloped? I mean, dicks run through her like crazy town. I get the impression that she tries to hide the fact she is super obviously a lesbian by having lots, and lots (and omg, this is a site with nude chicks, but srsly, omg by porn star measure) of dongs up in her bits.

Have you ever heard of a lesbian who hasn't come to terms with her lesbianness...and just, tried to suck madd dicks until the uneasy feeling went away?

God that chick would fuck anything, I mean...Demo and Notech might even have a chance.

She hawt?

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Originally posted by Honda_X

I have a friend who I am pretty positive is a lesbian. She's the biggest .....trollop that ever ...trolloped? I mean, dicks run through her like crazy town. I get the impression that she tries to hide the fact she is super obviously a lesbian by having lots, and lots (and omg, this is a site with nude chicks, but srsly, omg by porn star measure) of dongs up in her bits.

Have you ever heard of a lesbian who hasn't come to terms with her lesbianness...and just, tried to suck madd dicks until the uneasy feeling went away?

God that chick would fuck anything, I mean...Demo and Notech might even have a chance.

In addition to the thousand or so dicks your friend has had, as far as you know has she ever played doctor with a girl?

I mean, it's not entirely uncommon for anyone questioning their sexuality to use sex to try and figure things out. I know I slept with guys even after I was like 95% sure I was gay. It was a combination of being scared to finally make what I was feeling inside match my outside actions, and also the perceived pressure around me to be "normal".

So I guess what I'm saying is that it's possible your friend is lesbian, but it also sounds like she could just really enjoy the wenis.

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Originally posted by Bangledesh

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Gonna take a shot and say its because the title is "girls on girls"
And you started like, "I'm a lesbian and my lover is bi..."

Pretty sure few guys were gonna get past those two thoughts even if they read everything else.

We thought the title was clever. Last time I do that on WBW.

"girls on girls" refers to girls giving advice on girls...while still being a little tongue in cheek because we actually do like girls.

Get it now boys?

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

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We thought the title was clever. Last time I do that on WBW.

"girls on girls" refers to girls giving advice on girls...while still being a little tongue in cheek because we actually do like girls.

Get it now boys?

Yeah, no. it's crazy clever. But these guys are well... You've seen this thread.

LADIES

Need your advice... I just recently confirmed a longstanding suspicion of mine: my wife is into girls as well. he other night, after having a very long week at work where I wasnt home very much, I came home and logged into netflix. If you're a netflix user, you know that it shows you the last few movies you watched in your instant queue. Lo and behold, at the top of the list was a softcore flick in which a married woman has an affair with another woman. Now I know I wasn't the one who watched it (not that I WOULDN'T, but I sure would have remembered if I had) so I asked her if she had watched it. She said yes and that it was a terrible movie. Boring as hell. I half-jokingly asked her if she was home masturbating to lesbian porn while I was at work and she said as a matter of fact she had. I of course loved the idea and a short time later, when the opportunity presented itself, I pulled up some lesbian porn (thanks again WBW!) to see if she reacted. I'll leave out the details (unless you want em haha) but suffice it to say that she was very into. She finished VERY quickly while watching these two girls go at it.

You're probably wondering where my question is in all this ... well, I just want to know how I should approach this. I want to be supportive (duh) but I dont want to behave like a pervy lunatic by bringing it up all the time. Have you, or any other bi-girls out there, had any experience or heard of a situation like this?

I'd love to hear your thoughts!

Thanks in advance

Sure, but some more information required.


Has she had a any kind of girl girl sexual relationship previously ?

Are both of you happy with your sexual relationship ?

Are you open to an "open" sexual relationship for her ?

What are your assumptions on the relationship ? ( Do you see it as a threesome ? Does she ?)

Yes. Heard/known of this before and it is risky to your marriage. So the both of you need to think it through and figure out what is best for your marriage. Opening it to exploration with others may be worthwhile, but the real value is in discussing something as exotic as this. That will test your trust and your communication skills. If you have a strong marriage it might be a good ( shared ???) experience.

Good luck, F.

hey there thanks for the response.

I dont THINK she's had any sexual relationship with a girl before, although she's only recently started opening up about this side of her so who knows. I havent asked a lot of questions...figure she'll open up when and if she's ready.

I'm very happy with our sexual relationship and as far as I can tell so is she. We've been together for almost 10 years (married for two) and the sex is still great. As far as us having an open relationship (for her at least), just being honest here, I dont know if I'd be ok with it outside of a threesome situation. Meaning, I dont know how I'd feel about her having a girlfriend separate from our relationship. Who knows though, maybe I'd be ok with it.

This of course could all be moot until I find out how far, if at all, she wants to pursue her feelings.

THoughts?

And thanks for your well considered response.

If you have been together for ten years your communication channels should be wide open by now, so maybe this is an opportunity to talk together on a deeper emotional level than you are used to. Be positive about it, and get her to express her feelings in this attraction to women. It shouldn't be that hard to do since she has admitted it to you. It should be interesting to see what her interest in your feelings is.

Be patient, non threatening, and direct when you talk with her about her attraction to women. This is a relationship and communication issue that is important to the two of you.

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Originally posted by cyberia2501

hey there thanks for the response.

I dont THINK she's had any sexual relationship with a girl before, although she's only recently started opening up about this side of her so who knows. I havent asked a lot of questions...figure she'll open up when and if she's ready.

I'm very happy with our sexual relationship and as far as I can tell so is she. We've been together for almost 10 years (married for two) and the sex is still great. As far as us having an open relationship (for her at least), just being honest here, I dont know if I'd be ok with it outside of a threesome situation. Meaning, I dont know how I'd feel about her having a girlfriend separate from our relationship. Who knows though, maybe I'd be ok with it.

This of course could all be moot until I find out how far, if at all, she wants to pursue her feelings.

THoughts?

I was going to answer this one, but honestly, I don't think there is anything that I can add that F hasn't already said.