DNA test # 1 priority.
Shes' an alcholic? Can she be a decent parent with two kids much less one? At this time in your life you can't be, financially at least and to a point not much otherwise with your school needing attention also.
Adoption would be excellent if she will sign the papers to agree to it,big "if"! Otherwise you will be paying for the kid until it is 18-19 and most of the time she doesn't have to let you have much time with the kid or she Can be a beeatch and make it very unhandy and expensive for you see the kid and or have time with it providing you don't marry her. Then the fun and games of wondering if your funds are actually going to the health and well being of the child!
I myself, am all for abortion but not as a birthcontrol measure. There are how many people on this earth with no homes or parents,jobs,life,just leaching off society or other under the law ways to survive and there seems to be a never ending supply of them coming around year after year.Many have no choice what life has dealt them,many do have a choice and don't want to change it. It's a deep chasm of never ending conflict to try to agree with what I have said and there will most likely never be a solution to the prob either. Maybe global sterilzation for couple years or so would ease the pain on the nature resources and the ever dreaded ozone. Mind you I am not a bunny hugger nor do I want to send all my checks to save the whale,but there are honestly too dammed many people on this planet and I feel sorry for someone to have to,or want to bring a child up in the wonderful,calm,honest world we have today!
This wasn't entrapment was it per chance? Also I hear Canada is nice this time of the year!
Sorry if I upset any viewers with my two cents worth but that why they call it free speech and every reply is due a reply!
By the way,I got fixed in the eighties as I didn't want to be in this guys shoes and why would the world want another me anyway?
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