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I gotta say that I agree with SPO on this one. If she is nervous about the fact that she may be bi or bi curious, there is no way in hell that she'd want pictures to document it. She may not even want you in the same room. The first time I was with another woman it was single handedly the most nerve wracking thing I have ever done....period.

So this brings you to a major dilemma...if she wants to be with a girl to see what its like, but doesn't want you to be there...are you ok with it? It may evolve into you and her sharing a girl, or maybe just you watching, but I suspect that will never happen the first time.

OK, everyone knows a woman is just a life-support system for a pussy.
I mean, like I'm a jenious, I know all about their wicked ways.

Why can't I establish a long term relationship with the broads?

Who knows?

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Why can't I establish a long term relationship with the broads?

Perhaps because of this?

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everyone knows a woman is just a life-support system for a pussy.

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So this brings you to a major dilemma...if she wants to be with a girl to see what its like, but doesn't want you to be there...are you ok with it? It may evolve into you and her sharing a girl, or maybe just you watching, but I suspect that will never happen the first time.

Danger, Will Robinson!

Seriously, a lotta dudes can't handle this. To be completely honest, I'm not fully cool with it, even thought I thought I would be going into it. It wasn't a deal breaker or anything, but it's a weird thought knowing your girl is out hooking up with someone else, even though it is a girl.

I mean, an emotional relationship with another person is still an emotional relationship with another person, regardless of whether or not that other person has a penis.

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Danger, Will Robinson!

Seriously, a lotta dudes can't handle this. To be completely honest, I'm not fully cool with it, even thought I thought I would be going into it. It wasn't a deal breaker or anything, but it's a weird thought knowing your girl is out hooking up with someone else, even though it is a girl.

I mean, an emotional relationship with another person is still an emotional relationship with another person, regardless of whether or not that other person has a penis.

Wow, I gotta agree with this, from just a bit of personal experience in which I won't go into now...But thems some wise words...

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As for getting the ball rolling - I have made that suggestion and she is quite clear that she would be way to jealous to watch me with another woman. That being said I have told her I am quite fine with just watching, perhaps taking some pictures and offering some very firm vocal encouragment. As of yet...no dice...

Just be careful--don't pressure her too much or it'll never happen.

Act like you've forgotten about it (even if you jack off to the idea every hour, like I do). She may surprise you on night after drinking a bit too much.

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I'm a jenious

I very seriously hope that was intentional.

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Seriously, a lotta dudes can't handle this.

Wow, that seems very insecure.

I trust my wife. I'd give my left nut for her to hook up with another woman. My only request? That she describe it to me, in detail while whispering in my ear, the next night during hot, sweaty monkey-love.

I trust that, in time, she'll include me and we'll be happy having sweaty monkey-love with another woman.

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Wow, that seems very insecure.

I trust my wife. I'd give my left nut for her to hook up with another woman. My only request? That she describe it to me, in detail while whispering in my ear, the next night during hot, sweaty monkey-love.

Would you give your left nut for her to date another guy?

If no, why not?

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Would you give your left nut for her to date another guy?

If no, why not?

The question is moot. She has no interest in "another dick" (her words). She "wants pussy" (again, her words). So she wouldn't go out on a date with another guy.

But my wife is not your woman, and I'm not you.

(Taking it a step further, she does chill with dudes--and no, I have no fear or hesitation to watch her walk out the door.)

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Wow, that seems very insecure.

I trust my wife.

I trust that, in time, she'll include me and we'll be happy having sweaty monkey-love with another woman.

And then she leaves you....

(but then that's my story) carry on.

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And then she leaves you....

I suppose that's always a risk when it comes to trusting your partner.

Then again, alimony's a bitch--and she makes more money than me!

Yes to be sure that is a good argument, but, what will it do to your self esteem?

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Yes to be sure that is a good argument, but, what will it do to your self esteem?

It hurts. I've had a woman leave me for another man. Kills your soul and rips out your heart and leaves you bleeding, alone, in icy darkness.

Now that I've felt that pain, it'll never touch me again.

If my wife left me to be with another woman/man just because of one (a few?) sexual encounter(s)...I'd know she wasn't a very stable person and be happy she was gone.

(Thankfully, we have a solid relationship.)

Ogre,

Words of wisdom.
I agree sex is sex. The relationship between two people can tear a body mind apart.

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If my wife left me to be with another woman/man just because of one (a few?) sexual encounter(s)...I'd know she wasn't a very stable person and be happy she was gone.

...or I'd run around shrieking and crying like a little bitch.

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...or I'd run around shrieking and crying like a little bitch.

That's why this ain't my advise thread.

@ Ogre, call me when the dust settles!

Are we not supposed to ask intelligent questions in this thread? What has happened to this topic!

We've gotten a little derailed, but its all good.