Opinion boys...can it work again? Thanks everyone for the advice!

Let her go, move on, find a real woman, and give her (the new one) the best of yourself. Learn from this and grow. Best of luck to you.

It sounds to me like she wants to go have fun with this other guy and keep you hanging on until she's done having her fun. Then she'll come home and expect you to take her back. My advice is to move on. This girl sounds immature and is trying to use you. Don't let her waste any more years of your life. She may grow up and then again she may not. In any case do you really want a girl who is so fickle in her feelings for you that she would treat you this way? Move on and find a woman who respects and loves you.

fuck her, there are thousands of single women in the world that don't cheat. Go find you one.

pick yourself up,brush yourself down,pat yourself on the back and then go and fill ya boots.go have some fun and then see how you feel.

I agree with all of you, I intend to get out and meet people again absolutely and soon. I'm not wating for anyone, so don't worry. The trust has been lost and that's that. This has been a really tough time as it changed the direction my life was heading, I thought I had that bit of my life sorted and it got turned on it's head. I intend to do better and find a great girl, I'm not in a rush. Thanks again all, this post has really helped.

Isn't it funny when you aren't in touch with someone for a little bit, when it is usually you who makes contact, how all of a sudden they are wondering how you are. Are you going out?, with who? etc (back in the day I hated when she'd ask that, as she knew she had no reason to worry, but kept pushing for info), I don't give details, just keep the conversation light and happy and talk about basic things, that's how I intend to keep it. When someone stops getting attention, even for a week, they wonder why etc, I just think it's funny.