I´m so fucked up and could need some advice

If u lived 10 years with her, it has to be cuz of some reason....if u didnt married,is maybe cuz u didnt feelt it to do it....but without married u love her and still together.......my advice is.....so sorry for the other girl, but 10 years r 10 years and i wouldnt destroy my "marriage" with the girl fo my life, for just some sex...Good luck man

cheating... jackass

Thats a toughy bro. Its never easy to let someone go that you've been with for a long time, especially for the unknown girl.

Hard situation, and no offence, I'm glad your dealing with it and not me, cause I have zero sense of whee to go from there. Sorry dude.

this doesn't sound too hard... what you had was a fling. time is the true test of a relationship. and you've been with your g/f for 10 yrs and you still love her enough to marry her.

you've been with yoru current g/f long enough to know you love her. you haven't been with this other girl nearly as long. 16 year old boys talk to their crushes for hours on the phone and think they are in love, but after a few months (or whatever) its gone.

hope this helps

Never fuck up a good realtionship with a stab in the dark. Look in the mirror, slap yourself, kick your own ass and tell yourself that you will never do that to your wife to be -much less your wife- again!!!

Then forgive yourself and the other girl, and move on bro!!!

humans aren't necessarily "supposed" to be monogamous; no one can force their morals on you if you want a mistress. If you want a fulfilling relationship with both women, then you're gonna need to be ready for the consequences. But if you aren't happy with a situation with your long time girl, u probably owe her a chance to fix it. Otherwise; us men tend to think with the penis...so use it well and try to pick the girl that won't piss u off too much. -JG

so you've been driving around in a 'citroen 2cv' for the last 10 yrs, loved every minute of it and then you took a 10hr 'test-drive' in the latest 'BMW.' it's human nature to want something else...

i'm with the majority on this: your a fool for fooling around when you had a good thing going with your girl.

Man we're still beating this dead horse? When's his next "episode" due anyway? Any bets on when he will come forward with another story with teh same plot, different characters?