I´m so fucked up and could need some advice

Here´s what happened:

I have a girlfriend for about 10 years now. our relationship is still great, we live together and we want to marry later this year. so far so good.

but now i met this other girl at a fair. we went out together after work, we talked and had some fun. never before i talked with a girl for about 10 hours non-stop. it was just perfect. we then went to my hotel and it was fantastic. we fucked until the morning, till i had to leave to the airport and take the plane home.

since then we phoned a few times, wrote messages and chatted. last week i met her again. and again it was one of the best days ever. when we are together we are just so happy and it feels like something special.

so here is the million dollar question: WTF am i gonna do???????????????
i still love my GF and think i could live together with her for the rest of my life. but on the other hand, the other girl could be the one big love you only meet once in a lifetime.

i´m so fucked up, i have no idea what to do. i could start crying...whatever my choice will be, i will hurt a person i love.
life sucks.

what do you think?

damn! thats tough... maybe you should just wait a while and see what time brings. often life brings the solutions to problems when you just dont expect it at all.
or you should start meditating, it might help you figure out what you want.

which one is the prettiest?

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Originally posted by vk^^

which one is the prettiest?

they are both quite goodlooking. similar type of girl, both big tits, cute face, both blonde.
only difference: the girl i just met is far better in bed. the two times we met, we didn´t sleep at all.
but who knows how this will be after some years...

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Originally posted by Pophai

i´m so fucked up, i have no idea what to do. i could start crying...whatever my choice will be, i will hurt a person i love.
life sucks.

you couldnt have said it better yourself...doesnt matter what you do, outcome will be the same.



i feel for ya man..

The answer to this question is simple: Spray and neuter your pet

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Originally posted by Latino

i feel for ya man..

thanks.
never before in my life i felt so bad.

i just had to tell someone.

mate.
i am worried the same will happen to me.

i would rather my girl do that to me, than me have to pull it on her

To be honest the girl thats gona get hurt the most is the girl you have been with for 10 years. If she hasnt cheated like you have then she is gona be so torn up. Your first decision really should be whether you wanna salvage your relationship, cos it could not have been that good if you cheated.

I dont feel sorry for you, I feel sorry for your current gf.

Sorry to hear that mate.

You still have many year exprience with your current girlfriend, and you know each other better than you know this new girl. Is it just fascination about new partner, or can you seriously think relationship with her?

I don't know, it's your choice bro, choose wisely.

If you are together for 10 years then why haven't you married yet? Maybe she isn't the One? Although if you are sure that you love her then you should stay with her, you've spent 1/3 of your life with that girl.

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Originally posted by Pophai

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which one is the prettiest?

they are both quite goodlooking. similar type of girl, both big tits, cute face, both blonde.
only difference: the girl i just met is far better in bed. the two times we met, we didn´t sleep at all.
but who knows how this will be after some years...
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i think u said it yourself right there... u been with ur gf for 10 years and still find life good... u think in 10 years the sex with the other girl will be as good? the flame will still be on? that a tough call to make

darn stuck between a rock nd a hard place,

how would you gf take the cheating on her ??

maybe the best thing is to go with the new love, instead of making the relationship with the old one too complicated, wich in my opinion must be hampering else you wouldn't be attracted to the new girl that much,

as the aussie bear said, either way it sucks, just dont ponder too long and lose em both

did u film it!!!!

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Originally posted by richiiiiii

did u film it!!!!

That was a wise comment.

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Originally posted by Ascaris

I don't know, it's your choice bro, choose wisely.

I second that !

Ok Dude, I was in the same situation. The question is why did you cheat? Did you cheat because the first relationship is not fullfilling or just being stupid and wanting some SP (strange pussy)? I was with my current wife for 10yrs before I did something stupid, but that only woke me up to all of the stuff I would be giving up out of that relationship. But if you plan on staying with your gf of 10yrs you better make the commitment now (decide not to be sleeping around). I have not cheated on my wife and I never will. Eventhough sometimes I really want to.

Hope this gives some perspective.

Good luck!

Hmm. So you're saying you have TWO good looking blondes with big tits.

Sorry, but I really can't see the problem.

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Originally posted by ÜberPervert™

Hmm. So you're saying you have TWO good looking blondes with big tits.

Sorry, but I really can't see the problem.

Kind of goes right past me too!!

It's easy for me to say but: you should have thought about this before you stuck your dick in the other girl.

Now you are justly suffering.
But not to be the jackass I am I'll give you my advice:

Go to your GF and talk with her. Explain the situation. Watch out though she will be more mad at you for talking to that other girl for 10h than about the fucking.
When you tell her everything just listen to YOUR heart but don't break hers as well. How old is she?

I really hope she (and you as well) will be fine.