boyfriend wants anal.what to do to change his mind

Natasa: You said that all your boyfriends have asked for ANAL, but have you ever fullfilled the request and given them anal?

you can't really understand how many things a girl has to do to be accepted by guys

I think that i am a quite cute 18y.o girl with a nice body(perhaps too thin),but still this is not enough for most of you.

Do you think that i like giving head?Most guys' hygiene is terrible and smell awful.And then they put their hand in your head and fuck your face.D you think i like that?or having spirm in my mouth?But you cannot say 'no'.There are many things that guys take it for granted,but for the girl are not a pleasant experience

Hazmat you can read the begining of the thread

You cannot change the world but you can change who you surround yourself with in this world. If you want a strong relationship I highly recommend you tell him the truth. I myself have had anal sex with 3 women. All 3 of those women have done it before and it didn't bother me at all. If he can't handle that then why are you so afraid to lose him? I wouldn't call him a bad guy just because he's pressuring you but I would if you tell him the truth and he still pressures you or if he gets pissed about it.

@ Hazmat35 Did you even read her first post? Yes she tried it multiple times and she hated it. She bled, it hurt and she even shit herself afterwards.

girl you should try it again but go super slow! you start with a finger while doing it doggystyle then go up from there after about 2 months youll be ready for his cock but again slowly if you do it that way youll totally love it i bet and youll cum really hard!

You can say no to anything you want. You think most guys smell, you hate giving head and you hate sperm. Are you sure you're not a lesbian? I'm not trying to be mean but I could never even attempt to be with a woman like you. I like girls who enjoy giving pleasure. If you don't enjoy any of that, maybe you should try being with another girl and see how you like that. They don't smell as bad, there's no blowjobs involved and they don't shoot cum everywhere. They're also more understanding about your feelings.

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Originally posted by ashleeeller17

girl you should try it again but go super slow! you start with a finger while doing it doggystyle then go up from there after about 2 months youll be ready for his cock but again slowly if you do it that way youll totally love it i bet and youll cum really hard!

You do realize not everyone's the same right? Just because you're a girl who likes it doesn't mean every girl likes it. If you do decide to try it again though, go with an anal plug after the finger. It's still pretty hard to fit a dick inside your ass after losening it up with a tiny little finger.

guys expect to many things from girls for their own sake

When i was back in highschool,my first boyfriend when he had stripped me,he was surprised,because i had hair down there.I later found out that half the boys in the class had learnt that i had hair down there.Then i started shaving in all my relationship tht followed.Shaving makes itchy and you want to scratch yourself even in public(the others will think yhat you masturate).

Recently,i decided to grow a full bush,since i prefer myself like that.Neither shave nor tream.i do NOT like hair in my body.I hate it in my legs,arms,underarms.But i like it in my head,my eyebrows and between my legs.I will not change this for anyone,whatever they say.But you cannot say too many nos

Thamuz,many girls feel like me,but we simply dont show it to our partners!!Haven't you ever imagined that?Many friends of me have told me so

Sounds to me like you're saying all the wrong nos. You're not afraid to tell a guy you won't shave when all that does it make yourself a little itchy but you're willing to put yourself through miserable pain and agony just so that he can tell his friends he fucked a girl in the ass. Honestly when you're as young as yourself that's all it comes down to with guys.

Thamuz i love my bush,it is not just about itchiness.Butt plug?Quite funny it sounds!

Yeah I can imagine that. That's how most gay women feel. There's nothing wrong with that and I'm not trying to insult you but if you don't like something then don't do it. If I hated eating pussy and thought most women were dirty then I'd think I might be gay to.

If you know you're not gay then find yourself a nice guy who understands women a little better. Trust me, they're out there. I went through high school without ever pressuring a girl into having sex and never going around telling my friends about it when I did have sex and I'm not too bad looking either.

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Originally posted by Natasa

Thamuz i love my bush,it is not just about itchiness.Butt plug?Quite funny it sounds!

I take it you love your ass just as much, right? So have the same pride in your ass that you have for your bush and tell him hell no in a firm manner. If he doesn't like it then he's not such a great guy and no need to keep him around. Yeah butt plugs are very real. They're made to help you with anal sex. Check out a sex shop sometime.

Please thamuz,dont tell me that i am gay. know that i like men

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Originally posted by Natasa

[...] My current boyfriend insists on trying anal sex. [...] I don't want to tell my current boyfriend that i have already been fucked there and i do not want to loose him. [...]

Eat cake and still have it ... choose by yourself.

I had anal sex with four women, and three of them found it very pleasant even having bad experiences already.

Alright I apologize.

Apology accepted thamuz!!

What about methods to make it more pleasant?They have told me about lubricants.What can i use as a lubricant?Will the boyfriend accept it?

Natasa I wanna ask you if your ex has the same age like you...I ask because usually a young guy in your age doesn't have the experience to make it pleasant and probably thats why it was painful for you...in my opinion the anal sex doesn't have to be hard=pleasure as it happenes on the natural way the most of the time...but also depends on the mood of the girl..if you see that she is possitive in making it harder you can speed up or if you ignore what she likes..you just cause pain...

p.s. an theleis mporeis se proswpiko minima na me rwtiseis oti ma oti theleis kai na sou pw ti gnwmi mou an fisika gnwrizw

We were classmates.he was a year older

So you don't like anal? Tell him. I've never had anal sex personally, never my thing really. My ex have had anal sex in the past, she was pretty indiffrent to it.

There's a lot of lube you can buy in tubes for people that needs the lubrication a regular condom would provide but doesn't want the protection it offers. Don't really know where you can get it since I use condoms but I'm guessing any sex shop sells lots of it.

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Originally posted by Natasa

What about methods to make it more pleasant?They have told me about lubricants.What can i use as a lubricant?Will the boyfriend accept it?

Natasa, lube is what anal is all about. If you say you have tried anal and not used lube than I can understand why you hate it so much. If you do decide to try it again He should Lube your ass and play with it to open it up, then you lube him up, then he inserts a little and just stops there. You need to get over the reflex contraction of the anus. Once you start to relax he pulls out and squirts MORE LUBE inside you then proceeds. LUBE LUBE LUBE And make him wear a condom!
You have to be more in control