This girl makes me lose my fucking mind..

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Originally posted by sunkist1

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back it was ment to be.

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Originally posted by CamelKnight

what strikes me as odd is that I don't see any attempt from you trying to contact her physically. Perhaps you live in different parts of the country?

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Originally posted by CamelKnight

Eventhough there *might* be a reasonable explanation for her not calling or texting you, it's far more obvious that she doesn't want you in her life anymore, for whatever reason.
The only way you are going to find out what reason that is, is to get in contact with her. So get on your bike/car/train/bus/shovel and go to her. Talk to her, ask her why she doesn't return your calls and stuff.
It might be tough, but it's the only way to get it clear. If you're unsure you can take the pain she might put you through when you talk to her, then postpone it a few months. Closure is important, even for us men. You can move on and always wonder, or get the answers you seek and feel really crap for a while, but move on in a better state of mind.

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Originally posted by CamelKnight

my own experience. got dumped by a girl aswell but never understood why. I had a MAJOR crush on her. I actually felt love for the first time...
I couldn't bare the thought of hearing/seeing why she didn't want me so I postponed it myself aswell. a year later I asked. I still got hurt but I can live with it now

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Originally posted by CamelKnight

if she's 500km away from you then know this: your relationship with her is over.
it's harsh, but it's true.

500km is too far. you could fly there (driving costs at least 5 hours) but that's too expensive to be doing constantly. long distance relationships just don't work out. the fact that she hasn't returned your calls says the same.

going over there to confront her will make it a bit more difficult. especially when you're gonna hear bad news.

I sincerely doubt you will ever get a true answer to your questions but I hope you will m8.

CK

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Originally posted by CamelKnight

what strikes me as odd is that I don't see any attempt from you trying to contact her physically. Perhaps you live in different parts of the country?
If not, go and see her! confront her with the person that is you and see her reaction, rather then hear (phone) or read (SMS/email) it. 80% of communication happens with body language. Seeing her will tell you far better how she feels about you then reading what she's trying to say, if she sends anything at all.

Eventhough there *might* be a reasonable explanation for her not calling or texting you, it's far more obvious that she doesn't want you in her life anymore, for whatever reason.
The only way you are going to find out what reason that is, is to get in contact with her. So get on your bike/car/train/bus/shovel and go to her. Talk to her, ask her why she doesn't return your calls and stuff.
It might be tough, but it's the only way to get it clear. If you're unsure you can take the pain she might put you through when you talk to her, then postpone it a few months. Closure is important, even for us men. You can move on and always wonder, or get the answers you seek and feel really crap for a while, but move on in a better state of mind.

CK

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Originally posted by sic6sic

gutted bro so you havnt had contact with her since she went to the hospital? ummmm....

500 km thats not too bad, when i was with my ex and i gapped it away to "study" i had to take a two hour bus ride, a four hour ferry trip and another 2 hour bus ride to see her at least once a month. Anyway my point is go see her end it find out why, you might even get break up sex.

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Originally posted by pigeontamertoo

My wife Susa wanted to see a pic of you and her so she could evaluate you both from a purely shallow persepective. She thinks she can tell things about people by just looking at them. Plus I would bet she was curious.

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Originally posted by Samsonite

Do you have any nude pictures of her?

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Originally posted by lokithemadtitan

[reply=Samsonite]
Do you have any nude pictures of her?

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Originally posted by lokithemadtitan

[reply=Samsonite]
Do you have any nude pictures of her?

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Originally posted by akdizzle

[reply=CamelKnight]
what strikes me as odd is that I don't see any attempt from you trying to contact her physically. Perhaps you live in different parts of the country?
If not, go and see her! confront her with the person that is you and see her reaction, rather then hear (phone) or read (SMS/email) it. 80% of communication happens with body language. Seeing her will tell you far better how she feels about you then reading what she's trying to say, if she sends anything at all.

Eventhough there *might* be a reasonable explanation for her not calling or texting you, it's far more obvious that she doesn't want you in her life anymore, for whatever reason.
The only way you are going to find out what reason that is, is to get in contact with her. So get on your bike/car/train/bus/shovel and go to her. Talk to her, ask her why she doesn't return your calls and stuff.
It might be tough, but it's the only way to get it clear. If you're unsure you can take the pain she might put you through when you talk to her, then postpone it a few months. Closure is important, even for us men. You can move on and always wonder, or get the answers you seek and feel really crap for a while, but move on in a better state of mind.

CK

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Originally posted by BadderThanEver

[reply=WhatsInAName?]
I'm only gonna say it once. If you feel you need to go see her before you move on than do it. I'm not into playin womens games but its better to have closure than to feel bitter no mater what anyone else thinks. Take a weekend find where she is sit her down and tell her the hell you been through. If anything you'll learn what to do and what not to do the next time a girl does this too you.

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Originally posted by The girl in question

No, I certainly haven't cut my hands off.
Yes, I have gastrithis but I'm not feeling well besides that either.
I don't feel like talking to anybody at the moment and I don't want to either.
You're not the only one complaining about me not getting in touch.

But I just don't care atm, I don't feel well.

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Originally posted by 2112pooh

No, you've been very clear on that point.
I'm not demanding that we sit down and talk about how you feel or that we sit down and talk at all. Don't you think its strange of you to just disappear like that?

WTF am I to think!?

When I left you in Egypt, I was worried since you weren't feeling well already. I know you're hard to talk to and that you don't usually talk about feelings and stuff. But when I knew that you were due in sweden and I didn't get the least sign that you'd arrived ok I came to the conclusion that you didn't want any contact with me.

I understand that you probably think I've been an ass sending you texts and mails, but what was I supposed to do?

I feel like a dumb ass that hasn't realized he's missed the train. Since I know you pretty well (at least I think so), I know that you never tell people off if you don't want anything to do with them. That makes me even more sure that you didn't want anything to do with me.

If you've felt that I've been a pain in the ass, all you had to do was to tell me and I would've stopped instead of just disappearing. You would've saved yourself the effort of reading my texts and you'd saved me from having troubles sleeping and whatnot.

No, YOU might not care, but I care about YOU and it's been fucking frustrating to not hear from you.

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Originally posted by BadderThanEver

Could CK come back and explain how this kid is going to travel by shovel

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Originally posted by WhatsInAName?

[reply=akdizzle]
[reply=CamelKnight]
what strikes me as odd is that I don't see any attempt from you trying to contact her physically. Perhaps you live in different parts of the country?
If not, go and see her! confront her with the person that is you and see her reaction, rather then hear (phone) or read (SMS/email) it. 80% of communication happens with body language. Seeing her will tell you far better how she feels about you then reading what she's trying to say, if she sends anything at all.

Eventhough there *might* be a reasonable explanation for her not calling or texting you, it's far more obvious that she doesn't want you in her life anymore, for whatever reason.
The only way you are going to find out what reason that is, is to get in contact with her. So get on your bike/car/train/bus/shovel and go to her. Talk to her, ask her why she doesn't return your calls and stuff.
It might be tough, but it's the only way to get it clear. If you're unsure you can take the pain she might put you through when you talk to her, then postpone it a few months. Closure is important, even for us men. You can move on and always wonder, or get the answers you seek and feel really crap for a while, but move on in a better state of mind.

CK

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Originally posted by BadderThanEver

[reply=WhatsInAName?]
I'm only gonna say it once. If you feel you need to go see her before you move on than do it. I'm not into playin womens games but its better to have closure than to feel bitter no mater what anyone else thinks. Take a weekend find where she is sit her down and tell her the hell you been through. If anything you'll learn what to do and what not to do the next time a girl does this too you.