guy opinion needed.

anyway. thanks guys. i got the gist of it.

You should stop puttjng yourself down like you are!! Sounds like the guy is a jerk,he was going to let her suck him off right? That is still cheating,just ask Hillary. Really though,kick him aside and move on.

- he lied to you (about staying away from her)
- he told her she could suck his dick
- you don't want to look at his emails etc because you think you will find stuff that will hurt you
- he doesn't see you Thur-Sun

Emotions taken out of the equation, why exactly are you even with this guy? You've broken up before (going by your last post in here) but then got back together. Now all this is happening. I would suggest that if you are pregnant, perhaps he isn't the sort of guy you would want your child growing up around and you should split before the birth.

Now I don't know you, or what you look like, but as others have said in here, there are plenty of guys in the world who treat women in the right way, and ones that you could probably trust.

Anyway, that's just my opinion...

i don't know WHY i'm with him. this is a guy i'd never usually even give the time of day. in the beginning of our relationship he kissed my ass my crazy. like everything, to me, was perfect. he was wrapped around my finger. he's not even a guy i'd turn around to even look at. i don't KNOW. that's why it hurts so bad, i have no clue. i'm just lonely, i think. we would break up all the time in the beginning and i didnt give a flying fuck, i would just talk to other guys and then i started getting farther along and he started dropping me slowly and hanging out with his friends and left me hanging. and if i try to break up with him he doesn't fucking take it for an answer. he just walks back into my life and acts like i never tried to leave him, and i'm sorry, when you've lost ALL your social life for the past 9 months, you'll take anything you can get.

this is the first guy who hasn't acted like i'm something special. and the first guy i've been with, that doesn't even come CLOSE to deserving me.

but when he acts like he doesn't give a fuck, it makes me want him more because it's something i can't have. and he knows that so he thinks he's invincible while i'm pregnant cause i can't fucking do anything he's out doing.

i feel like i'm only taking this so hard is because i can't keep myself busy, and he's the only person really around other than family.
other than that, i can't even tell myself why i'm with him.

There will never be any trust in this relationship....you just need to end it and be final with it ...then you can start rebuilding your own life and have a chance to be as happy as you should be. It will only get worse once there is a child involved....he is certainly not father material!!

So you're lonely - would that not be better than being a doormat? Being lonely can change fairly quickly, and you'll enjoy a better life when it does. Or carry on being a doormat, but your life won't improve. I know which option I'd take.

(I'm aware it's not always as easy as that, but this is essentially the gist of it).

its just hard leaving.

Ya it's hard to leave him but can you see yourself with this waster for the rest of your life???? Don't waste any more time on him. Dump him ASAP and get on with living your life. If you have family around you, you will get through this regardless of how hard it is. Doesnt matter how pretty this girl he cheated on you is she is no better than him.

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its just hard leaving.

it will get harder if you stay.

There are major trust issues that will never ever go away. If you do stay you will not 100% trust him. A life of absolute hell.

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this is the first guy who hasn't acted like i'm something special. and the first guy i've been with, that doesn't even come CLOSE to deserving me.

You should learn the difference between a guy who considers you like his equal (and not like a fucking princess as you seem to believe) and a guy who is just acting like a jerk (i.e. not giving news during half of the week).

Anyway you are fucked since he will probably stick around for the child.

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Originally posted by eclipseo

...You should learn the difference between a guy who considers you like his equal (and not like a fucking princess as you seem to believe) and a guy who is just acting like a jerk (i.e. not giving news during half of the week).

Anyway you are fucked since he will probably stick around for the child.

a fucking princess as i seem to believe?

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...a fucking princess as i seem to believe?

C.f.

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doesn't even come CLOSE to deserving me

it's the truth. do you know him? his baggage? anything? hmm. let me think... nope, didn't think so.

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it's the truth. do you know him? his baggage? anything? hmm. let me think... nope, didn't think so.

That's not about him, that's about narcissism. But you're forgiven, that's a common illness nowadays, I was merely ranting about it out loud.

you just sound so stupid. grow the fuck up.

don't talk shit when you don't have your facts straight.

I always turn to the people on the Internet for serious advice to my personal problems.

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I always turn to the people on the Internet for serious advice to my personal problems.

if you haven't read, i'm kinda loser with no friends.

only people i have are my porn forum friends.

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I always turn to the people on the Internet for serious advice to my personal problems.

Why are people on the internet different than people in real life?

Sure, they don't know as much about you personally, but on the flip side they're more likely to be completely honest. Or at least some of them are.

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...if you haven't read, i'm kinda loser with no friends.

only people i have are my porn forum friends.