Ok here is my thoughts. To me it is a questions of achievement. Any woman can go out and get laid easy. For a guy it takes some work. For a guy to be able to be with two women at a time that is an accomplishment. For a woman to have two men, no big deal. Don't get me wrong the guy is a sl*t too but he is a S*** that achieved something many others haven’t. The girl on the other hand didn't really do any thing that other girls can't, therefor she is just a Sl*t. BTW there is nothing wrong with being a sl*t.
Or more to the point, Why do you care what others think?
I dislike that society has tought us that sexualy active people are bad. I think we should turn it on them and wear the title of Sl*t or Wh**e as a badge of honor. Fu bu them.
I have more fun watching a guy rail my girl.
Why is it that if you differ from the "Christian morality" any you are automaticaly a freak?
It depends on the belief of the people who know about it. I personally don't believe in having sex with lots of people, but that is me personally. That said, I also spend a lot of time on this site... My vote is no, because if that's something she wants, then okay. I once saw a video of a girl who wanted to have 1000 facials (no, I'm totally serious... this video is out there), and then get married with her face covered. Her fiance was one of the men, and he was all about it.
However, I also deeply believe in monogamy improving a relationship as long as both people recognize human nature. It's okay to look, just don't be flirty and definitely not touchy. A person who cheats on someone when they are happy with the relationship is a **** in my opinion, regardless of gender - that shit's unacceptable.
My world view is different from most others, and I always say that it's best to agree to disagree, forget what other people's opinions are (more so during election season).