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Why is it If a guy wants a FFM threesome, its cool, but if a girl wants a MFM threesome, she's a ****?

Starter: daynaxxx Posted: 13 years ago Views: 20.1K
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#4432245
Lvl 59
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Originally posted by Carrie_J

Oops... I answered you, Eric - before I noticed who you quoted.


Well, I didn't quote it at first, but then by the time i posted it you had slipped in a reply, so then it looked like I was replying to you, and that wouldn't have made sense, so I looked dumb, so I went back and edited in the post that I was actually replying to.
#4432246
Lvl 7
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Originally posted by SydneySinbad

Ok, enough said, ty EL and CJ, both points noted and accepted. Let's just get on with the Thread? Like my Inbox is full, the 'haters' and 'wasters' Ok, we each have our own feelings. Enough said...let's continue the Thread, and ty both for the valued comments.


Umm... Sure. Where do we go from here?
#4432247
Lvl 9
Dayna, don't sweat the load hon.

I voted no but I like mine FFF.
#4432248
Lvl 14
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Originally posted by brownell

Crossing streams could trigger total protonic reversal. ie. all life as you know it stopping instantaneously and every molecule in your body exploding at the speed of light. Isn't that enough?


The best reply yet.
#4432249
Lvl 4
Ok here is my thoughts. To me it is a questions of achievement. Any woman can go out and get laid easy. For a guy it takes some work. For a guy to be able to be with two women at a time that is an accomplishment. For a woman to have two men, no big deal. Don't get me wrong the guy is a sl*t too but he is a S*** that achieved something many others haven’t. The girl on the other hand didn't really do any thing that other girls can't, therefor she is just a Sl*t. BTW there is nothing wrong with being a sl*t.
#4432250
Lvl 4
Or more to the point, Why do you care what others think?
#4432251
Lvl 4
I dislike that society has tought us that sexualy active people are bad. I think we should turn it on them and wear the title of Sl*t or Wh**e as a badge of honor. Fu bu them.
#4432252
Lvl 6
voted NO.. Me and my buddy had a threesome with his girlfriend and it was great! Now if it was my girl would i would possibly do it in the right situation but would have to never see the person or what not after it happened
#4432253
Lvl 27
I agree that this does NOT make a girl a s***! Voted NO!
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#4432254
Lvl 13
I have more fun watching a guy rail my girl.
#4432255
I can't speak for everyone, but I'll give my first hand (giggity) example of this...Two friends of mine (married couple) asked me to get involved with them once, and I accepted. We had fun. It's not like they go around asking just any aquaintance if he'd like to pull his pecker out and fuck his wife...I was only asked being a good friend of the two of them for 10+ years, and they told me in confidence that I'm the only person they'd ever consider asking. And I believe them.

I think there's a lot of porn out there that really stereotypes the F in the MFM genre, but I think the reality of it is situations more like the one I was fortunate enough to experience. We're all three still really good friends, and we just added an extra benefit for an occasional boring day. Is she a [expletive removed]? Absolutely not. Is she open to sexual experimentation? Yes, but no more so than her husband.

Just my two cents.

I'll add that he set ground rules, too, which I was more than happy to oblige. For instance, I had to wear a condom, and if she put her mouth on my lips, cock, or spunk, she had to rinse it with coke or mouthwash before having at him again, and of course by no means were we ever to touch each other's junk. Some guys may or may not be like that, and some may be more open to who they share her with. But then I believe most guys would be open to almost anything and it's ultimately the woman's decision. I think in some way that is why society labels women as 'bad people' when they choose to do that - because she has the final decision and she is violating the "sanctity of monogamy" - but then society has always hated sex on the surface (while they stroke it under the table constantly).
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#4432256
Lvl 12
Depends ... if she's running around every other weekend looking for two dongs to penetrate her she's a **** ... no ifs, ands or buts. If it's a once or twice experimental thing, then that's fine. Same thing with a dude, if he's looking for constant ffm's, he's a man*****. If he's looking for a lot of MFM's, watch your backside if you're the other M in the equation.

**Two words edited because we dont allow them on this site**
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#4432257
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Originally posted by webbie1

Dayna, don't sweat the load hon.

I voted no but I like mine FFF.


A girl after my own heart.
#4432258
Lvl 4
Why is it that if you differ from the "Christian morality" any you are automaticaly a freak?
#4432259
Lvl 59
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Originally posted by ShadowChameleon

Why is it that if you differ from the "Christian morality" any you are automaticaly a freak?


It's not just Christianity. Lots of religions like to dictate what's appropriate in terms of sexuality and whatnot.
#4432260
Lvl 12


This is totally normal.

If I came home and found my wife in this situation. I'd be like ... "Hun, when you finish up, let me know what we're having for supper, I'll be in the living room winding down."
#4432261
Lvl 26
OK, this thread really should be in "Famous Babes" as these pictures are Pro...However, as this thread is gaining interest i am happy to leave it here in "Nude Public Babes".

But....and this the BIG BUT ! the word "Slut" is not permitted as it is a derogatory remark towards women and let's not use the word again please.
#4432262
Lvl 7
It depends on the belief of the people who know about it. I personally don't believe in having sex with lots of people, but that is me personally. That said, I also spend a lot of time on this site... My vote is no, because if that's something she wants, then okay. I once saw a video of a girl who wanted to have 1000 facials (no, I'm totally serious... this video is out there), and then get married with her face covered. Her fiance was one of the men, and he was all about it.

However, I also deeply believe in monogamy improving a relationship as long as both people recognize human nature. It's okay to look, just don't be flirty and definitely not touchy. A person who cheats on someone when they are happy with the relationship is a **** in my opinion, regardless of gender - that shit's unacceptable.

My world view is different from most others, and I always say that it's best to agree to disagree, forget what other people's opinions are (more so during election season).
#4432263
Lvl 32
Its all about how people think and act.... some others some others some others
Different people with different opinions and thoughts.. so what....act as YOU DESIRE!
#4432264
Lvl 20
This was the subject of a recent blogpost : http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2010/11/on-threesomes-and-fairness.html
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There’s a hell of a conversation on Reddit: Sex right now over a request for advice from a woman who is in a boy-girl couple, and is faced with the all-too-common quandary of threesome and sexual fantasy fairness. He wants a girl-girl-boy threesome, and she’s okay with that because she’s bisexual. She wants a boy-boy-girl threesome, and he’s not okay with it — at all.

Is this fair?

She asks,

as the title says: my boyfriend and I are down for having a threesome… but it has to be another girl. (which I’m bisexual so that’s cool) but I also wanted to experience a threesome with another man. I feel that since it’s ok for my boyfriend to fuck another chick, he should be ok for me to fuck another man. but it isn’t. only one dick per fantasy.
He feels that since he is straight and isn’t going to do anything sexual with another man, that it’s ok to bar that experience and get very emotional when I mention attraction to another man while I’m sitting here while he flirts with another woman.
I feel that I am in the wrong here seeing as he is right that he isn’t going to be fucking another girl without me being included. but I still feel a little gypped that he’s allowed to show attraction to other women while I’m not allowed to show attraction to other men.

I was riveted to the responses. This is when advice from crowdsourcing about your relationship can be helpful and open you up to new ideas, and give you answers that can help you put together an answer that is right for you and your situation: I never think there can be a one-size-fits-all answer to relationship questions like this. Still, it’s a common issue that begs for a solution. On the other hand, I don’t recommend crowds for sex ed questions, when you need to know you’re getting accurate sex information about STDs, STIs, birth control, physiology, response, etc.

It gets pretty heated. One guy says she needs to deal with it because as a guy, he explains, it’s perfectly reasonable behavior because “biology makes guys this way.” Others call bullshit on the biology excuse. Another says that while boundaries are boundaries, the guy is being unfair and immature. Some people just plain said it’s unfair, and he’s being a douchebag — albeit a very common flavor of douche. Others are saying outright that the couple is simply not sexually compatible, period.

I keep coming across this issue, more frequently of late, and it seems that fairness ends up in a horrible three-way collision between logic and feeling. Is there a way for this to work? What do you think?
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