Virginity - is this worth waiting? (and how much :-)

Fuck em both if you can. I was about your age when I lost my cherry. Get as much pussy as you can. You get no extra credit for holding out for longer. Life's too short, and the window of opportunity for shagging is very brief. Your first time is most likley going to be a let down anyway so don't make such a big deal of it. Don't assume it will be with either of these two anyway, keep your options open, there's a whole world of fanny waiting....

Oh,and another word of advice, stay away from pornography if you can. Porno is for the spirit what smoking is for the lungs.

sounds like you aren't surrounding yourself with enough options, maybe talk with the experienced one and find out that she has many friends, dating doesn't have to start with monogomy, once you find a suitable girl, try and resist the urges for as long as possible, eventually u'll have the sex and it will be just as enjoyable and have no bad effects as long as the relationship isn't centered around the physical aspect. give it a try.

Are you serious?
Fuck the older one. The young one? Thats messed up. Of course you have something in common. You get to control the conversation. Your the 'older guy' and shes looking up to you. telling you what ever you want to hear. the young lady obviously has issues. But if shes naked standing in front of you......
And your first time inst all that. Your probably gonna loose it in your shorts anyhow. If not, its not gonna last that long.
But remember, when the big day comes, all girls secretly LOVE anal. They may tell you they dont, but they do!! Try it. Before anything else.

Lol, yes that's true also, try the Tony Danza technique, the girls go crazy for it.

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Originally posted by bestman

I think some of You didn't understand me properly... I don't mean "fuck 15 yo RIGHT NOW" I mean "fuck 15 yo LETER (1-3 years). And situation "fuck N 2, wait for N 1" isn't accepted - I'm monogamist :-)

I assure you, if you wait 3 years to sleep with the 15 year old, she will have sex before you. If you wait 1 year, then you're still a pedo. This is literally the best advice anyone could give you right now, take it: break off contact with the 15 year old. If things go your way, you'll fuck her up. If things don't go your way, you'll be miserable and even MORE pathetic.

ya kno i lost mine because i loved the guy but now we aren't together and you know why? because i felt cheated that i didn't get to experiance it with more than one person. now that i have i realize that sex is just sex. it really has nothing to do with love. and the first time isn't all that great anyway... i thought the first time would be great and special but in all actuallity it sucked....go for the experianced girl...maybe she can teach ya a few things....

take both of them and have fun...oh yeah and by the way, start drinking, I don't trust a person that doesn't drink

don't forget to take pictures and post them on WBW!

get it done with girl number two.

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Originally posted by Jackster

Stay away from the 15 year old. This is not just for legal reasons. I think a guy who is 20 and lusting over a 15 year old girl has a bit of a problem. While it's only a five year difference, at that age and her lack of any experience, the difference is greater than you realize (even though you are both virgins) and you will be using her for your own, selfish needs.

Go out with the second girl. Please note, I am not saying you need to sleep with her, that is an entirely separate decision, but I think you could learn something about dating and life in general from the second girl.

I'm with Jackster mate.

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If I were in your shoes.. I'd probably go get some nicer shoes; the shoes you're wearing don't seem to attract the ladies.

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Originally posted by bestman

I think about it a lot every day since the last weekend... From one side I have girl which loves me, we have very good relationship and posibly this may be the love for the rest of my life... I just need to wait a little... From other side there's LUST! Terrible lust - I guess every guy on this world understands me :-) - WBW babes and long evenings in front of the computer isn't enough no more - I want "something real"... 2-3 years ago I wasn't interested about sex, because I wasn't feeling attractive, but now I grow up, I'm not skinny 15 yo boy no more :-) and I want to use this a little... But I'm still thinking about this virginity - one or two years of waiting may be worth this... This may be the last chance in my whole life to have sex with a virgin...

dude, if you're talking about the 15 year old, there is a damn good chance that she doesnt love you mate. the fact that an older guy likes her, and the fact that she is 15 (emotionally, etc) is going to make the situation very weird for her. and its just weird. even if you wait, like you said you would, its still weird, and while you wait, she'll find someone close and her age

she should be off limits mate. no matter how much you "love" her, and she "loves" you.

as for girl-2, dunno.

edit: added that "wait 2 years" thing

You're actually planning sex for 1-3 years ahead? That's not really healthy. Not for you and certainly not for her. I mean, she is not cosulted in this matter. What does she want? I think you should go with what feels good for the moment. If you are not sure you want to be with girl No 2, DON'T! Don't do anything until it feels right. If you want to wait for girl No 1 to grow up, fine, but don't plan and rely on she wanting to be with you when that time comes.

Plus, you might meet someone you find a liking for during that time and if you are counting so hard on girl No 1 you might miss that girl.


Just my thoughts...

here's the best advice... Never Ever pass up a chance to get laid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
fuck every girl you possibly can.......remember when you get old sitting in your nursing home....youll have something to look back on

Simple-get some money together.
Take about 2 days to find a 'fairly nice' hoe! ( I know thats a task in itself)
Tell her its your 1st time...she'll be cool with that. Taking ur virginity, to her, will be special too. She gotta rep 2 hold up, thats if you find the right one for you
Then with your experience...go for N2 fuck her like you know!
As for N1....Wait until she's older, a lot of 'bus tickets' but hey! If you like her, fuck the value of your pocket.
Thats my humble opinion.....Whatever choice you choose, make it memorable man.

it's not worth waiting!!! it's too much fun!

Well, you know the first time is not going to mean something special to you at all if you screw someone just because they are available. I waited until I was 21, and it was nothing great. The two big things to think about are (1) just how much of a relationship do you have with the younger girl? Have you two actually talked about waiting until legal/emotional maturity point? and (2) is super-horny girl just looking for a quick fix herself? Losing virginity quickly is not something to be either proud or ashamed of, it should come at your own pace and not be something you feel you have to do. Some people may say things like "The clock is ticking" or something. Remember, we are humans, not animals, and more goes into it than just the biological urge to procreate. Personally, I have never been satisfied being with someone I did not love. It's like porn, a cheap thrill that doesn't really fill you up inside. If you are serious about number 1, have you considered moving closer? There's nothing at all wrong with waiting a few years, if it's the right person. Make sure you know her views, too, though, make sure she is someone who would be happy in a monogamous relationship as well.

Its not a shame dude... AT ALL SERIOUSLY. LET THE SITUATION BE HANDLED BY TIME AND NOT BY YOU.

i like to read all the stuff which was said here and as you see of your own everyone has different opinions i will tell you something from me , i lose my virginity two months before i was 16 ... for it wasnt anything special and really i dint like it , the girl "i laid " went to US she came back this summer She is always saying that she loves me , i really dont know why cauz i didnt do anything to make her love me .... Well as i think is better never pass up a chance to get laid . we had sex again and the only thing i can say is that it was awesome was surely my greatest experience so i dont think that the first time its neccesarily to be special this is what i think ... do what you wana do

take no 2 and let her guide you by the experience she probably has. man, i know how you feel, it took me a while to get it started, too. but when you have done it you´ll be like "huh... thats it? why the fuck did i make up my mind all the time instead of just doing it???". and you will have enough time for monogamy when you made your experience. otherwise you might get in the situation to be with the perfect woman and still have a constant feeling of having missed something, which is not healthy for any relationship...

You will remember the first time regardless how it goes. It's like anything else it's not a good idea to have two rookies in the same bed. Other than that you will have to weigh the risks/benefits for yourself each time.