The Forbidden Spam.

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Originally posted by Bangledesh

Sfilllhighe? Hdgw he.

Big hifh, olid.

...O'm Done

This.

Sooo...seeing as I'm the only one on...and no one to mock me atm....I kinda has a question.

I'm assuming that everyone at some time has cyber or sexted or had dirty phone calls with someone at some point. I'm not alone in this...but it has been YEARS since I have, and it was always lamesause...like...not even close to erotic.

My question is...is everyones experice like this? Or was I alone in feeling this?

The reason I ask, is I recently did it with a woman that I've known for a little while...and someone who I'm attracted to. The thing that was different though is that she really wanted me to dominate and humiliate her. Now, if you know me...that is so far out of my normal character that its not even funny. However, I decided to try it, it was awkward as hell, and I was constantly afraid of saying something that would offend her, but I started to get into it. And after awhile..not only I was in into it...but god fucking damn it was hot! So have I just been missing something all these years, did it with the wrong people, or was it just because I didn't have some sort of connection with the previous people?

This hapened on Friday, and I seriously haven't been able to get it out of my mind.

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

Sooo...seeing as I'm the only one on...and no one to mock me atm....I kinda has a question.

I'm assuming that everyone at some time has cyber or sexted or had dirty phone calls with someone at some point. I'm not alone in this...but it has been YEARS since I have, and it was always lamesause...like...not even close to erotic.

My question is...is everyones experice like this? Or was I alone in feeling this?

The reason I ask, is I recently did it with a woman that I've known for a little while...and someone who I'm attracted to. The thing that was different though is that she really wanted me to dominate and humiliate her. Now, if you know me...that is so far out of my normal character that its not even funny. However, I decided to try it, it was awkward as hell, and I was constantly afraid of saying something that would offend her, but I started to get into it. And after awhile..not only I was in into it...but god fucking damn it was hot! So have I just been missing something all these years, did it with the wrong people, or was it just because I didn't have some sort of connection with the previous people?

This hapened on Friday, and I seriously haven't been able to get it out of my mind.

^^^That's good shit right there...

It takes a connection to the right person to be able to make it work

And ya gotta be able to loosen up and know it's all about the fantasy and you're not for real trying to humiliate someone...

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

Sooo...seeing as I'm the only one on...and no one to mock me atm....I kinda has a question.

I'm assuming that everyone at some time has cyber or sexted or had dirty phone calls with someone at some point. I'm not alone in this...but it has been YEARS since I have, and it was always lamesause...like...not even close to erotic.

My question is...is everyones experice like this? Or was I alone in feeling this?

The reason I ask, is I recently did it with a woman that I've known for a little while...and someone who I'm attracted to. The thing that was different though is that she really wanted me to dominate and humiliate her. Now, if you know me...that is so far out of my normal character that its not even funny. However, I decided to try it, it was awkward as hell, and I was constantly afraid of saying something that would offend her, but I started to get into it. And after awhile..not only I was in into it...but god fucking damn it was hot! So have I just been missing something all these years, did it with the wrong people, or was it just because I didn't have some sort of connection with the previous people?

This hapened on Friday, and I seriously haven't been able to get it out of my mind.

Yes Mistress Catwoman, you're not alone.
I've tried this on chat when I was 18 or so (without your agreement, I'm sorry Mistress, punish me later) and it was pretty lame (It's only good with you Mistress).
Since then, I haven't sexted. But I occasionally have some fantasy fun with my gf witch can be sometimes harder than in text to let go completely because you're face to face and really doing it
As Demo said, it's mainly the ability to really let go and be into the fantasy that make it work.

Now bite me !

I would have to admit that cyber sex is virgin territory for mwah.

I can be a big flirt back n forth, but cyber sex....

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Originally posted by bustMall

I would have to admit that cyber sex is virgin territory for mwah.

I can be a big flirt back n forth, but cyber sex....

Come on, don't be shy and drop your cyber pants

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Originally posted by omuh

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Yes Mistress Catwoman, you're not alone.
I've tried this on chat when I was 18 or so (without your agreement, I'm sorry Mistress, punish me later) and it was pretty lame (It's only good with you Mistress).
Since then, I haven't sexted. But I occasionally have some fantasy fun with my gf witch can be sometimes harder than in text to let go completely because you're face to face and really doing it
As Demo said, it's mainly the ability to really let go and be into the fantasy that make it work.

Now bite me !

And see for me, I think it would be easier to do in text than face to face. Like I said, it is so far from my normal everyday persona that I felt like a different person...and idk if that person could ever exist in real life. I was so worried that I'd really offend her in chat, that I'd never be able to look her in the eye in real life.

**edit**

I misread your post. Yeah, I would completely agree with you, I can't imagine really doing it.

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

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And see for me, I think it would be easier to do in text than face to face. Like I said, it is so far from my normal everyday persona that I felt like a different person...and idk if that person could ever exist in real life. I was so worried that I'd really offend her in chat, that I'd never be able to look her in the eye in real life.

**edit**

I misread your post. Yeah, I would completely agree with you, I can't imagine really doing it.

You just have to remember you're just playing a role with the only purpose to have fun. If you enjoyed doing that in chat it doesn't mean you became a dominant person forever but maybe it's a part of you that you'd like to discover and play with (If you weren't even a little bit attracted to that, you wouldn't have liked it. There is fantasies I wouldn't be able to do or enjoy because it's really not in my nature but others even if a bit strange at the beginning, can become fun).

It's easier with text because even if you're not 100% confident, you can still take your time while face to face, it's live and your reactions or hesitations are noticeable. But in exchange, that's way more fun when both enjoy the game

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Originally posted by omuh

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You just have to remember you're just playing a role with the only purpose to have fun. If you enjoyed doing that in chat it doesn't mean you became a dominant person forever but maybe it's a part of you that you'd like to discover and play with (If you weren't even a little bit attracted to that, you wouldn't have liked it. There is fantasies I wouldn't be able to do or enjoy because it's really not in my nature but others even if a bit strange at the beginning, can become fun).

It's easier with text because even if you're not 100% confident, you can still take your time while face to face, it's live and your reactions or hesitations are noticeable. But in exchange, that's way more fun when both enjoy the game

Thank You Dr Phillipe

Ask Dr. omuh...

Sounds like a good thread idea

I don't even have glasses

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

Sooo...seeing as I'm the only one on...and no one to mock me atm....I kinda has a question.

I'm assuming that everyone at some time has cyber or sexted or had dirty phone calls with someone at some point. I'm not alone in this...but it has been YEARS since I have, and it was always lamesause...like...not even close to erotic.

My question is...is everyones experice like this? Or was I alone in feeling this?

The reason I ask, is I recently did it with a woman that I've known for a little while...and someone who I'm attracted to. The thing that was different though is that she really wanted me to dominate and humiliate her. Now, if you know me...that is so far out of my normal character that its not even funny. However, I decided to try it, it was awkward as hell, and I was constantly afraid of saying something that would offend her, but I started to get into it. And after awhile..not only I was in into it...but god fucking damn it was hot! So have I just been missing something all these years, did it with the wrong people, or was it just because I didn't have some sort of connection with the previous people?

This hapened on Friday, and I seriously haven't been able to get it out of my mind.

Maybe uhh..next time like......................you know, live blog that shit?



I don't do it often, but I do it sometimes. Mainly because girls find it easier to express themselves not face-face and that way you get a better feel for what they're into when you're into them.

Hot though...*highfive*

Yes. Live blog the sexy lady friend texts!


Which reminds me, havfta go hit up the DadBoner thread.

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Originally posted by FeFeHumHum

Godiva coffee....... mmmmmm....

Weirdest thing about that is how her eyes roll around all willynilly.

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Originally posted by Bangledesh

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I;m gonna decypher in rte moening.

Yeah, I got nothing.

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

Sooo...seeing as I'm the only one on...and no one to mock me atm....I kinda has a question.

I'm assuming that everyone at some time has cyber or sexted or had dirty phone calls with someone at some point. I'm not alone in this...but it has been YEARS since I have, and it was always lamesause...like...not even close to erotic.

My question is...is everyones experice like this? Or was I alone in feeling this?

The reason I ask, is I recently did it with a woman that I've known for a little while...and someone who I'm attracted to. The thing that was different though is that she really wanted me to dominate and humiliate her. Now, if you know me...that is so far out of my normal character that its not even funny. However, I decided to try it, it was awkward as hell, and I was constantly afraid of saying something that would offend her, but I started to get into it. And after awhile..not only I was in into it...but god fucking damn it was hot! So have I just been missing something all these years, did it with the wrong people, or was it just because I didn't have some sort of connection with the previous people?

This hapened on Friday, and I seriously haven't been able to get it out of my mind.

Go on.

*Crazy Ambien and headache pill posts sneakily deleted*

All ninja-like.

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Originally posted by EricLindros

Yes. Live blog the sexy lady friend texts!

You can't handle the sexy.








Hell...I could barely handle the sexy.

Go on....




Also, that awkward moment when you accidentally light your bro's hair on fire: