Ladies-
I have been surfin' this site on and off for a little over two years now. I was a little surpised at
first to notice that there were quite a few women members. Later, I also noticed that they (women)were some of the most active and involved contributers as well as sight admins (lilrinka rocks). The question
I have is;
"What do the female members of WBW get from the site?"
Now this is not some wierd chick bashing question, okay? I am genuinely curious. Of course ,I know what I get from the site and I have a pretty good idea what the other guys are here for as well.
I could speculate about the answer for the women but I have a feeling that I might be dead wrong on at least a few points.
The reason I ask is really two fold.... first, I am an older man (41) and when I first started dating there was a social dance that we went through that involved an understanding that while women liked sex and sexualality as much or more than men, they could never really admit it directly or risk the age old stigmata of "slut". As we have progressed as a society ,these conventions have loosened quite a bit...
really to the point that a woman can be as crass as any man dared back in the day ( I was a male stripper for a while and you would not believe how mean and nasty those ladies can be). So for this part of it I would just like some insight on what your desires are from this kind of stuff and how it has changed from what maybe your older sisters or mothers told you to expect. I have tried to understand women better all my life...and while this new openess has made it easier to talk about sex and to get down to business quicker, I really don't understand women all that much more than when I was a teenager.
The second part is much simpler. With one very notable exception, every women I have dated ( even the younger more progressive women of today) has eventually had some issue with my love of pornography, almost as if somehow that by looking at pictures and videos of other women I will want to cheat on them (in some cases seeing it as cheating). So whats up with that? Any advice or insights on that point would also be appreciated.
Z
I have been surfin' this site on and off for a little over two years now. I was a little surpised at
first to notice that there were quite a few women members. Later, I also noticed that they (women)were some of the most active and involved contributers as well as sight admins (lilrinka rocks). The question
I have is;
"What do the female members of WBW get from the site?"
Now this is not some wierd chick bashing question, okay? I am genuinely curious. Of course ,I know what I get from the site and I have a pretty good idea what the other guys are here for as well.
I could speculate about the answer for the women but I have a feeling that I might be dead wrong on at least a few points.
The reason I ask is really two fold.... first, I am an older man (41) and when I first started dating there was a social dance that we went through that involved an understanding that while women liked sex and sexualality as much or more than men, they could never really admit it directly or risk the age old stigmata of "slut". As we have progressed as a society ,these conventions have loosened quite a bit...
really to the point that a woman can be as crass as any man dared back in the day ( I was a male stripper for a while and you would not believe how mean and nasty those ladies can be). So for this part of it I would just like some insight on what your desires are from this kind of stuff and how it has changed from what maybe your older sisters or mothers told you to expect. I have tried to understand women better all my life...and while this new openess has made it easier to talk about sex and to get down to business quicker, I really don't understand women all that much more than when I was a teenager.
The second part is much simpler. With one very notable exception, every women I have dated ( even the younger more progressive women of today) has eventually had some issue with my love of pornography, almost as if somehow that by looking at pictures and videos of other women I will want to cheat on them (in some cases seeing it as cheating). So whats up with that? Any advice or insights on that point would also be appreciated.
Z
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