Question for guys only...cuz I know girls are gonna trash the question!

Okay, let's say you've been checking out porn online for awhile. One day, you find a hard core amateur site about a girl that lives in your town. While tending bar at a prominent bar in town, she bellies up and you get to know one another and become friends..so much so that you confide to her that you know her "secret" and have seen her site and pics all over the web. Still, she remains friends. Years later, she confides in you that she has wanted to get it on with you since the day she met you...and basically gives the green light for the "no-strings-attached" scenario. Do you? Normally, that would be a no-brainer. What if you were going to get married to someone you've been seeing for 5 years and are in the process of starting a family? What if your friend was okay with it and would keep it a secret? And what if you really enjoyed her friendship?

Don't trash the thread guys. Let's hear what you've got to say.

Do it mate!! Whats the web address!!

Lol

Hmmmm...leaning there...web address is looooong gone....

yea, what he said! lol

it depends what she did in the amature porn site, if it was girl girl or solo lesbo stuff no big deal, if she took 10 loads of cum to her face from a bunch of strange men that would give me pause..I need more info..and a picture

i would

i would

Personally, I'd say no. If you're going to get married to someone, you must love them, and cheating on the is the opposite of that. If you love the person you're going to get married to, then don't do it. That would be the worst way to start a marriage and life together.

so good, had to say it twice!

Stone-cold...lets say it was a swinger site so make that what you will...and say she's exceptionally hot...

Vagina-king...I know, I know. The dilemma lies here. Think about it: If you had a chance with Jenna Jameson...once in a lifetime, even...and no one would know (this wouldn't even be for bragging rights...just your own skeleton you cut tuck neatly in the corner of your closet), wouldn't you?

swinger site..did she use a condom?b

Often, stone cold...and no pics, man...you probably have plenty on your hard drive.

My opinion is guys need to get fucking chicks out of their system before they get married or they will want to fuck other chicks the rest of their life.So if the guy still wants to fuck other chicks then yeah fuck her,do stuff to her that you're girlfriend wouldn't let you do to her.but if he's content don't do it.other wise its not worth it.

Getting married to a girl you dated for 5 years and going to start a family?


Sorry dude, but if you are serious in this question, your girl deserves someone a lot better than you.


(you asked. thats my opinion)

Would guilty feelings haunt you? What about std's? Sounds like you may not be ready for commitment to the 5 year relationship.Pearsonally I wouldn't go after it.

You're entitled, bust...and maybe you're right...

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Originally posted by oxygenetic

Vagina-king...I know, I know. The dilemma lies here. Think about it: If you had a chance with Jenna Jameson...once in a lifetime, even...and no one would know (this wouldn't even be for bragging rights...just your own skeleton you cut tuck neatly in the corner of your closet), wouldn't you?

Jenna....no, but I see what you're getting at.

It would be a hard decision, but if it were me, I think(and hope) I would hold back.

With the 5 year GF, have you ever noticed any bisexual tendencies? Would it be possible at some point to suggest a 3-some?

Oxygenetic - all of the answers that you get here will be of good advice..but this is a decision that you will have to make. If you, then you will have to life with the possible guilt the rest of your life. If you don't, then you will always ask the question, "what if?"

Your Choice

I know, This was for guys only, but you know that shit don't stay secret.She has one and only one person she can tell everything to and she will. The problem is that person has one too! Everyone does. Wait until you're married, then try to bring up the threesome or swinging. It sound like the web site girl would be into it, half the work is done

Ohhh, I just went back an read through some that were posted right before me.

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Originally posted by horsepuss

My opinion is guys need to get fucking chicks out of their system before they get married or they will want to fuck other chicks the rest of their life.So if the guy still wants to fuck other chicks then yeah fuck her,

This is a very good point. If you do infact decide to do it, do it before you two are married.

It's not good to cheat on her as your girlfriend, but
it's horrible to cheat on her as your wife.