Prostate massages?

just wondering peoples thoughts on it? would you or have you let your girlfriend/wife give you a prostate massage? if you have did you enjoy it?

I've spoken with my girlfriend about it and I think I'd enjoy it but im your typical dominant guy and just cant get feel that relaxed about doing it

I'm also quite dominant guy, but I have to say that I enjoyed it. It feels really great when it's combined with sucking

I've never had a guy ask me to do it, i'm not really sure how i would have reacted if i had been.


I might be down for it if there had been some drinking going on, and if i cared a lot about the guy (otherwise, probably not), and also i probably wouldn't be up for it if it was like some serious business discussion... it would probably have to be one of those Brokeback Mountain situations where it just kind of "happened" and all thoughts/comments of gayness would be strongly denied.



To be completely honest though, i have no idea what i'd say. :P

I understand that it probably feels good etc, however I just don't think I could let anyone stick anything up my hole.

Although my pal has used butt plugs on himself during sex with his girl, and he says it's fantastic....

IMO, be it fingers or foreign objects... dude that is gay. Nothing wrong with being homosexual, just own it bro.

Jesus christ people, its just sex...its just about feeling good. Homosexuality has ZERO to do with it.

Trailblazing.

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Jesus christ people, its just sex...its just about feeling good. Homosexuality has ZERO to do with it.

I see your point SP, no one likes labels... but that being said, sorry, ass play on guys is totally gay...

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Trailblazing.

In the darkest night...I can always find my way, due to the blinding light of trails SP has blazed.



On topic. I got into a pretty srs discussion with my ex about it, what with her not minding anal much, and that we should try it and maybe it would be fun.

I just..I couldn't. I couldn't get over the idea if she pulled out her finger and it was poopy.

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I see your point SP, no one likes labels... but that being said, sorry, ass play on guys is totally gay...

Ass play with another mans penis is gay. Ass play with a woman you love...or just fucking is sex.

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I just..I couldn't. I couldn't get over the idea if she pulled out her finger and it was poopy.

i mean it doesnt really work like that.

i would assume that would only happen if you actually had to poop before you started


ive heard a lot of guys really like the business though, i think the main thing would be getting over the mental stigma that surrounds it.

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Ass play with another mans penis is gay. Ass play with a woman you love is gay butt sex.

Agreed!

If you like it or are curious, just do it.
If you are worried about being gay, then you have other hurdles to leap first.

with me it was never a homosexual thing, for me, if its a woman then it's not gay.

Just to clear this up. I don't actually give rat's ass what you put in yourself or someone else to get u off. To each his/her own...

FamilyGuy, you must be the type of guy who thinks men can only pee standing and if they sit they have lost their manhood. Same goes for anal sex. If you think it's gay, it's just you're not self confident enough to consider it like pleasure only, without it hurting your manhood.

Don't blame others for being gay (witch have nothing to do with sex habits), blame yourself for not being open minded enough

On topic, I haven't tried it with my gf. Tried once or twice while masturbating and I think it can get good once you get used to it (must be the same as anal for girls except we have the prostate to give it an extra feeling).

I give up... please resume ass didling to your heart's content...

Man, giving up so easily is gay.

If you are over forty and the doctor puts on a pair of gloves and tells you to bend over...