Considering Adultery

dont cheat assholes and cock bags cheat it is never a good idea

dude, I am 50yo and been thru all this shit, same day different story.. but do it on your own terms, never mind revenge fuck.If you wanna fuck this chick, go ahead-but remember it will change your life forever.

do it, dont do it... but remember every action has a reaction...

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Originally posted by erichard77

She's into the pics and vids thing so stay tuned....

Well that settles it, do it.

If you really want to hop in the sac with this co-worker you can cheat (never turns out good), talk to your wife about having an open relationship (swinging works for some), or realize your an adult with kids and do whats best for your family and not your dick (which probably won't happen since your asking anyway).

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Originally posted by erichard77

She's into the pics and vids thing so stay tuned....

I am having trouble deciding which is the dumber course of action...cheating or taking pictures of the cheating.

Just don't do it if you love your wife. You will always feel guilty. I have never cheated on my wife, but I did an old GF that I was totally in love with. I still regret it.

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Originally posted by KoyDetmerIsGod

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She's into the pics and vids thing so stay tuned....

Well that settles it, do it.
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Yep - I was ambivalent about this til now, but if there's pics forthcoming then do it.

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Originally posted by jackcrowe

If you really want to help your life, why don't you try learning how to spell rather then cheating on your wife?

Before you give any spelling advice, improving your grammar would be nice.










Oh yeah, If your wife isn't putting out enough(if that's a problem), try to get her to. If she still doesn't then fuck the other chick.

Be prepared for the worst though. Think about all of the child support/alimony you'll be dishing out every month if/when you get caught and she divorces you.. The thought of that'll make most mens dick shrivel.

You set a very wonderful example for your children. You should not have married your wife if you could not forgive her, and you definitely should not have conceived 2 children. But you DID! You chose to father 2 children, and you need to step back and think about that. You are responsible for keeping a safe, loving, stable environment for those kids. Having sex with some girl who obviously shares your lack of morals, is going to help this how? It will not, of course. It will strain, if not ruin your marriage. I'm sure the kids will thank you for that, when mom explains to them in 10 years that the reason you were divorced was because you couldn't keep it zipped up.

If this is an unhappy marriage on both sides, I would say you both need counseling together.
If this is simply you struggling to keep your pants zipped up, you need to see a therapist on your own.

There is no logic in any of your posts. You simply state your lack of morals, boundaries, and respect for your family. I am not trying to insult you, rather I am stating what I see from a logical perspective. Consider this, and decide whether you both need counseling, or just yourself.

I also suggest, the next time your co-worker strikes up an inappropriate conversation, tell her that are focusing on your marriage right now, and that it is not appropriate to have any further personal conversations. Stop taking lunch with her. And do not take her personal calls. If you have to, change your phone number. If she persists, report her for sexually harassing you. You need to act like a man here.

You're thinking about doing a bitch-ass move.

All you're trying to do is justify the tightening in your pants when you eat lunch with some girl. And trying to further justify your desire to do the hot chick. Don't screw your kids like that, that's just absolutely terrible; and don't betray your wife.

You took her, even after she cheated on you, which means that you should have dealt with it when you found out and didn't. If you want "revenge" or "justification" then you shouldn't be married to her. Stop trying to act like a bitch-ass or a horny child.

Man up, accept that this woman is your wife and take care of your family.

But, if that co-worker is worth throwing your marriage away for, then divorce your wife since she apparently isn't worth more than one night worth of fun to you. At least that way your wife won't have "the other woman" and your kids wont have to deal with the rumors.

Think about the consequences player!!!

As Face said...Consider the consequences......karma, there is no escaping it.

Think with your brain not whith your dick...

mate, get your jollies from here, if need be!

THINK of your kids.

may be fun but the ramifications reach far and wide.

Cheating is never good.

Clear your mind of her(your wife's) past and begin today as a new opportunity to love, cherish and respect her as the woman that she is.

don't do it cause a bunch of perverts want to see pics (self included) cheating sounds all well and good til after its over and you are left holding the bag

With two kids and a wife at home, you ask other people for advice .......I think you'are a stupid asshole.
Think man, is an affaire risking your marriage for. My advice: don't do it or get out of your marriage first and make sure that your family is taken care of financialy. Then run after your dick and fuck what you like. Lying up front is what trash does.

The fact you asked for advice means you dont want to do this anyway.If you want revenge sex, go get a hooker. Stay away from coworkers that will just get ugly,

first of all, cheating is the best thing for a marriage... you will find yourself mowing the lawn, cleaning the house and taking the garbage out before your wife will ever say word 1 about it, the other side of this, is, cheat if you want to cheat, but not for the sake of revenge, if youre not fucking riteously then the fuck wont be worth it and youll be thinking about your wife the whole time, but if you are really into this chick and want to fuck, then by all means fuck and dont think twice, but revenge always backfires in every situation, fuck for fucksake not for revenge