Ask Me Anything

Some members have asked me to do a AMA (Ask Me Anything) thread.

For the members who don’t know me, I am the founder and owner of WBW. Some basic information about me: 38 years old male, living in the Netherlands (Europa), divorced/single and have 2 kids (boy/girl).

Just ask away!

How did you decided to open WbW?

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Originally posted by Mr.SalvadorDali

How did you decided to open WbW?

The idea of creating WBW began after a site I created for my friends to post on with party pictures and other random
stuff. They started posting pictures of girls they liked and the girls on the site didn’t like it. So I started this site. It grown very fast the first year.

Goku or Superman?

How much work is it running this site?

With out giving away details, what do you do for work?

Does having a web site like this, help you meet lots of girls?

If you could write one paragraph, from all of your life experience, what advice would you give to other men?

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Some members have asked me to do a AMA (Ask Me Anything) thread.

For the members who don’t know me, I am the founder and owner of WBW. Some basic information about me: 38 years old male, living in the Netherlands (Europa), divorced/single and have 2 kids (boy/girl).

Just ask away!

My dear sir, you have done a fantastic thing for the adult community. You must have worked hard for this, thank you so much. Keep it up, wish you all the best.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Goku or Superman?

Superman

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

How much work is it running this site? With out giving away details, what do you do for work?

It is a lot of work. Things I do for WBW:
- Software development (the site is custom build by me)
- Server maintenance
- Handeling customer support
- Bookkeeping
- Handeling reported and legal
- Moderation of content

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Does having a web site like this, help you meet lots of girls?

No, I have been single for over 4 years after my divorce. It is even harder to get as some girls consider you as a perv.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

If you could write one paragraph, from all of your life experience, what advice would you give to other men?

Take responsibility for everything you do. Work hard. Don't trust everything you hear and see, be critical and follow your own path. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, when you fall, it's not about how you fall, it's how you get up. Be someone to others who they can trust and build on.

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Originally posted by Devtej10

My dear sir, you have done a fantastic thing for the adult community. You must have worked hard for this, thank you so much. Keep it up, wish you all the best.

Thank you!

Is this your main/only job running/owning wbw?

What part of Holland are you from?

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Originally posted by Sumo999

Is this your main/only job running/owning wbw?

What part of Holland are you from?

No, I run a site called https://lordofthestrings.com too with my brother. It's a total different kind of business (strings for music instruments).

I live in "Gelderland", a city near Arnhem.

I believe you have the premier amatuer erotic photo site, bar none. Watcher's Web comes closest, but your site has more and better (moderated and selected) photos and is far easier to navigate. Member for years and no plans to quit!

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Originally posted by billybushey

I believe you have the premier amatuer erotic photo site, bar none. Watcher's Web comes closest, but your site has more and better (moderated and selected) photos and is far easier to navigate. Member for years and no plans to quit!

Thank you so much for you compliment. I work very hard to make it better every day as do a the moderators. Thankful for the people who contribute and help finance by signing up for premium.

Seems like nobody wants to know more haha.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

It is a lot of work. Things I do for WBW:
- Software development (the site is custom build by me)
- Server maintenance
- Handeling customer support
- Bookkeeping
- Handeling reported and legal
- Moderation of content

wow bro, that's a lot of work, I have a tech back ground, so I know how much work all this is, thanks for all your hard work.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

No, I have been single for over 4 years after my divorce. It is even harder to get as some girls consider you as a perv.

Sorry to hear about your divorce, I hope divorce for a man in Europe isn't as bad, as it is in the USA, here you loose your house, car, your savings, the dog, the kids, and you end up paying 18 years of child support, and stuck paying alimony for the rest of your life, people my age are staying away from marriage.

have you ever read the book - the rational male by rollo tomassi

I got some crazy out of the box ideas, to help you get laid a lot more, want to hear them?

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Take responsibility for everything you do. Work hard. Don't trust everything you hear and see, be critical and follow your own path. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, when you fall, it's not about how you fall, it's how you get up. Be someone to others who they can trust and build on.

great advice bro, thank you.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

No, I run a site called https://lordofthestrings.com too with my brother. It's a total different kind of business (strings for music instruments).

What instrument do you play?

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

wow bro, that's a lot of work, I have a tech back ground, so I know how much work all this is, thanks for all your hard work.

Haha if I only had more money I could hire people to help with coding.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Sorry to hear about your divorce, I hope divorce for a man in Europe isn't as bad, as it is in the USA, here you loose your house, car, your savings, the dog, the kids, and you end up paying 18 years of child support, and stuck paying alimony for the rest of your life, people my age are staying away from marriage.

Just as bad mate. I barely get around because of it. Luckily I have my house, car, the dog, the kids (50% of the time) and a big debt.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

have you ever read the book - the rational male by rollo tomassi

No, haven't read the book. I read the description of the book on Amazon, it looks like a good book. Liked the "red pill ideology" in the description a lot. Facts are worth more than feelings in my opinion.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

I got some crazy out of the box ideas, to help you get laid a lot more, want to hear them?

Do tell, but I have to tell you getting laid is not the issue. Finding a stable relationship with a good foundation seems almost impossible these days because of post-modernism, progressive left and marxists indoctrination. Core family values and nuclear family has been destroyed.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

What instrument do you play?

I am not really playing an instrument, but love to write music in my free time. For this I use Logic Pro (Yeah I am a apple fanboy, sorry not sorry) and Synthesizers.

I'm back, sorry for the late reply back, I got the coronavirus and it just wore me out physical and mental for like a month, no energy or sex drive, which is crazy because I'm super health and young.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

if I only had more money I could hire people to help with coding.

Well if you need help, let me know, I used to do click work and make websites back in the day, I'm a bit rusty at coding though, and I got a tech background, and I love porn lol.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Just as bad mate. I barely get around because of it. Luckily I have my house, car, the dog, the kids (50% of the time) and a big debt.

If you got all those things, you guys have it a little easier in Europe, here in America there are 4 kinds of common alimony, of which "life time alimony is the most awarded to the woman" and if the man gets sick or looses his job and cant pay, he goes to jail, you don't stop paying till your dead, one of the main reasons male suicide is 500% more then female in the USA.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

No, haven't read the book. I read the description of the book on Amazon, it looks like a good book. Liked the "red pill ideology" in the description a lot. Facts are worth more than feelings in my opinion.

Its a great book, I agree with about 90% of it, read it before you get married again.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

I am not really playing an instrument, but love to write music in my free time. For this I use Logic Pro (Yeah I am a apple fanboy, sorry not sorry) and Synthesizers.

I play the guitar, keyboard and write music too, another great tool to get women, one of the main reasons I do it.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Do tell, but I have to tell you getting laid is not the issue. Finding a stable relationship with a good foundation seems almost impossible these days because of post-modernism, progressive left and marxists indoctrination. Core family values and nuclear family has been destroyed.

Sounds to me like you might want to learn game, it very useful in getting and keeping quality woman, just a warning 95% of the PUA world is bull5h!t, its sales and marketing, and people lying to sound cool, but 5% is legit and very useful.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

post-modernism, progressive left and marxists indoctrination. Core family values and nuclear family has been destroyed.

things will keep getting worse in this area not better, trick is to always come out winning, there's always a way to win, just have to find it.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Do tell, but I have to tell you getting laid is not the issue.

So here's my idea on how you can get laid a lot more, what did you create here, a community where guys can share pictures and videos of there woman, with each other, what is the next natural step from this, a group where guys can share there woman with each other, you should start a swingers group, "whatswingerswant" lol, or just add a swingers feature to this website, guys have already been doing it on this site any way, they just use private pm to arrange this kind of stuff on this site, start a swingers group for you local area, take you woman in and bang 5 others, for the price of one lol.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Just ask away!

Were you Gasolin?

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Originally posted by Honda_X

Were you Gasolin?

No, I have my alt accounts, but these are mostly for testing features on free vs premium vs crew.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

I'm back, sorry for the late reply back, I got the coronavirus and it just wore me out physical and mental for like a month, no energy or sex drive, which is crazy because I'm super health and young.

Good to have you back mate. I saw it in the news that you had Covid yes

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Well if you need help, let me know, I used to do click work and make websites back in the day, I'm a bit rusty at coding though, and I got a tech background, and I love porn lol.

Thanks for the offer mate, mostly these days is getting traffic back again and people active on WBW. The coding is getting under control, I only have to somehow get my A.D.D. mind structured haha.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

If you got all those things, you guys have it a little easier in Europe, here in America there are 4 kinds of common alimony, of which "life time alimony is the most awarded to the woman" and if the man gets sick or looses his job and cant pay, he goes to jail, you don't stop paying till your dead, one of the main reasons male suicide is 500% more then female in the USA.

Equality is very important, it's just funny that those feminists don't want real equality, they want everything but the responsibilities. This is a post-modernism mind set, "I want everything but I don't want to work hard for it, and don't want to take responsibility for my actions.". Life is hard, deal with it and get better at life. I have enough health and mental problems, but I don't blame the world for it.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Its a great book, I agree with about 90% of it, read it before you get married again.

I have downloaded the book, and will be reading it when I find the time. It's still sitting on my desktop haha. (Screenshot in attachment)

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

I play the guitar, keyboard and write music too, another great tool to get women, one of the main reasons I do it.

I have always done it mainly to get lost with all those electronics and creating something I can put my feelings into (Maybe EDM isn't the best kind of music to put "feelings" in haha). I started a youtube with my latest two songs, I can use the subs: ( https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWqajarEPXSmIryxv827U5Q ). Music can help you with a lot of stuff in life.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Sounds to me like you might want to learn game, it very useful in getting and keeping quality woman, just a warning 95% of the PUA world is bull5h!t, its sales and marketing, and people lying to sound cool, but 5% is legit and very useful.

In the past I have read a lot of PUA stuff. Yeah, it's a whole industry getting money from males (like porn haha). The only thing is to find confidence in yourself and don't let anybody walk over you, take your energy and put it in positivity.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

things will keep getting worse in this area not better, trick is to always come out winning, there's always a way to win, just have to find it.

Well a fighter will always win when his mindset is correct, no matter what is stacked against you. I always take personal responsibility for everything I do and learn from the past mistakes I made. I will defend everyones freedom to speak, "Those who fall asleep in a democracy might wake up in a dictatorship.". People are being brainwashed into crazy stuff these days, taking a lot of things without evidence as the truth. Sometimes a simple google search disproving what they are being told. It amazes me how ignorant people are.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

So here's my idea on how you can get laid a lot more, what did you create here, a community where guys can share pictures and videos of there woman, with each other, what is the next natural step from this, a group where guys can share there woman with each other, you should start a swingers group, "whatswingerswant" lol, or just add a swingers feature to this website, guys have already been doing it on this site any way, they just use private pm to arrange this kind of stuff on this site, start a swingers group for you local area, take you woman in and bang 5 others, for the price of one lol.

To be honest, have had a lot of ladies in my bed, I have changed my mindset about having random sex. One thing I realized is what I wasn't getting any happier about it, I felt more and more alone and empty inside. I just want an stable life partner to build a future with, somebody who I can share my life with and experience the world.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Good to have you back mate. I saw it in the news that you had Covid yes

lol Thank you.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Thanks for the offer mate, mostly these days is getting traffic back again and people active on WBW. The coding is getting under control, I only have to somehow get my A.D.D. mind structured haha.

Your welcome. Marketing is a great, easy, and cheap way to get more people, ever heard of the book "The New Rules of Marketing and PR - by david scott" read the description, if you like it, remember to get the latest version. Having a famous porn website is a double edge sword though, a lot of people in the world, working hard to take down all the porn sites.

A.D.D. mind? is it a procrastinating thing, if so check out, (eat that frog by brain tracy), if its a will power thing ( The Willpower Instinct by kelly mcgonigal -"books a little boring" ) or a discipline thing then (No Excuses by brian tracy).

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Equality is very important, it's just funny that those feminists don't want real equality, they want everything but the responsibilities. This is a post-modernism mind set, "I want everything but I don't want to work hard for it, and don't want to take responsibility for my actions.". Life is hard, deal with it and get better at life. I have enough health and mental problems, but I don't blame the world for it.

Not only a post modernism thing, It's also a evolution thing, the male gender is expendable, so we always had it harder, its always been like that, think about the last 10,000 years of history, who fought in wars and died (around 99% of combat deaths), who eats last in a family when there is a famine, who gets the life boats last when the ship is sinking.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

I have downloaded the book, and will be reading it when I find the time. It's still sitting on my desktop haha. (Screenshot in attachment)

Ya I think the book will really speak to you.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

I have always done it mainly to get lost with all those electronics and creating something I can put my feelings into (Maybe EDM isn't the best kind of music to put "feelings" in haha). I started a youtube with my latest two songs, I can use the subs: ( ). Music can help you with a lot of stuff in life.

You just need to learn some marketing to get more subs and views, your music's good, but 95% of music is everything but music, the girl has a nice voice too.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

In the past I have read a lot of PUA stuff. Yeah, it's a whole industry getting money from males (like porn haha). The only thing is to find confidence in yourself and don't let anybody walk over you, take your energy and put it in positivity.

Best advice to give a young man, work out and get muscles, make lots of money, and have high social value.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

Well a fighter will always win when his mindset is correct, no matter what is stacked against you. I always take personal responsibility for everything I do and learn from the past mistakes I made. I will defend everyones freedom to speak, "Those who fall asleep in a democracy might wake up in a dictatorship.". People are being brainwashed into crazy stuff these days, taking a lot of things without evidence as the truth. Sometimes a simple google search disproving what they are being told. It amazes me how ignorant people are.

In America you would be called a libertarian.

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Originally posted by Diz-X

To be honest, have had a lot of ladies in my bed, I have changed my mindset about having random sex. One thing I realized is what I wasn't getting any happier about it, I felt more and more alone and empty inside. I just want an stable life partner to build a future with, somebody who I can share my life with and experience the world.

Good luck on your journey of finding a life partner.
Merry Christmas!!! Diz

I just got my 13 year badge (albeit with several years inactive) given you're the founder you've been here longer than all, so what's the best avatar you've seen? And have you even seen a woman that just made you go wow and still sticks in the memory being posted on here?

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Your welcome. Marketing is a great, easy, and cheap way to get more people, ever heard of the book "The New Rules of Marketing and PR - by david scott" read the description, if you like it, remember to get the latest version. Having a famous porn website is a double edge sword though, a lot of people in the world, working hard to take down all the porn sites.

I have never been real good in marketing, WBW was just luck I think and being one of the first of it's kind. I would even pay for somebody to do good marketing, problem is I have been multiple times scammed by people who said they could increase revenue.

The "takedown" on porn sites is not really thing, it has been the same when I started WBW. What big sites are doing is dropping the amateur stuff because they can't earn a lot of money on it. They lose advertisers the moment some controversial happens, the lose a lot of money on that. It's the same reason why YouTube is purging creators, they want to be more of a netflix. They can control more what is on and don't have to worry about advertisers pulling ads.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

A.D.D. mind? is it a procrastinating thing, if so check out, (eat that frog by brain tracy), if its a will power thing ( The Willpower Instinct by kelly mcgonigal -"books a little boring" ) or a discipline thing then (No Excuses by brian tracy).

Yep, I have A.D.D. (ADHD). It has benefits, but sometimes I wish I could control it. Most problems I have in my daily life is: Structure, heavy atypical panic disorder, memory issues, constant muscle tension, sleeping problems, difficulties keeping social contacts, always tired.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Not only a post modernism thing, It's also a evolution thing, the male gender is expendable, so we always had it harder, its always been like that, think about the last 10,000 years of history, who fought in wars and died (around 99% of combat deaths), who eats last in a family when there is a famine, who gets the life boats last when the ship is sinking.

Yep, and that is sometimes a really hard realization. My divorce is 4 years ago, I have been blamed for a lot. Lost almost everything in the process. Luckily me and my ex wife are on good terms for over a year now. Still I have never been so alone and disconnected from the world in my life. I have learned to coop with it, as I don't see my situation changing very soon. Dating is a nightmare. For a lot of girls you are only good enough if you got a lot of money and provide everything they want. Evolution at it's best

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

You just need to learn some marketing to get more subs and views, your music's good, but 95% of music is everything but music, the girl has a nice voice too.

Thank you for your compliment, it means a lot to me. The music is just for fun, not going to seriously invest the time in it. One of my main problems is that I can get really depressed if a song doesn't sound the way I wanted it too or have difficulties with inspiration. Reason I stopped back in the day when I had a music career as a Product/DJ, mostly Trance/Techno/Hardstyle.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Best advice to give a young man, work out and get muscles, make lots of money, and have high social value.

All of that, and: have integrity, have norms and values, become most stable/calm person everybody can rely on, be honest and righteous.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

In America you would be called a libertarian.

I am a libertarian, center right mostly.

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Originally posted by ElonMusk

Good luck on your journey of finding a life partner.

As stated above, I don't think in the foreseeable future it is going to change. I have accepted the lonely journey on the path of life. My new nickname: Lone Wolf.