You get a proposal...what do you do?

What would you do?... I would do it.
do you have that arrangement already?... no
would you consider it before giving an answer?... no
or would you answer it straight off?... yes
and why? ...I was married for six years and passed up alot of chances for bliss, because of a misguided sense of duty to honor a vow. I have been divorced for a year now and I pass up nothing. I have never regretted anything that I have done only things that I have not done.

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Originally posted by Latino

These are my questions for you

What would you do? I would wonder who my girl has met, and whether or not they have had sex yet, they obviously want to and make her feel better by "letting" you do the same. I would say no way.
do you have that arrangement already? No
would you consider it before giving an answer? No, not at all I'd answer straight off, and ask what the fuck brought this idea on.
or would you answer it straight off?
and why? Because it would only be for her benefit. If I had shown no interest in being with anyone else, and then get offered this proposal, the only thing I'd wonder is who she wants to have sex with, and if they have already done so.


and no, this isnt about me.....im just bored with the shit in the lounge, thought we might need to post in something different

What would you do? NO
do you have that arrangement already? NO
would you consider it before giving an answer? NO
or would you answer it straight off?YES
and why? If I were married and asked this question or presented this situation, I would consider our relationship was based on love and love has no room for one night stands. The oppurtunity for jealous and envious feelings are there. The possibility of them finding someone better than me and leaving me for them. The guilt I would feel for even having the desire for someone else.
I would want my partner to say the same, just by bringing this topic up I would wonder if I was pleaseing them, do they need someone esle to be happy. There would be so many questions and feelings of inadaqucey.

But as you all know its all just a hypothetical situation and I am just a silly school girl so what do I know.

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Originally posted by Latino

Ok, so imagine youre married...and have been for some time
you have no kids...and dont suspect/think theres anything wrong.

you have a conversation with your partner..and they decide to ask you something..

they mention that they would allow you to have a one night stand. With whomever
and not hold it against you, not ask with who, when it was done and ask if it was good
as long as you used condoms for protection..

But they were allowed to do the same.

These are my questions for you

What would you do?
do you have that arrangement already?
would you consider it before giving an answer?
or would you answer it straight off?
and why?


and no, this isnt about me.....im just bored with the shit in the lounge, thought we might need to post in something different

wow, i'd be offended immediately and assume he's been putting his one eyed trouser snake in places that it didn't belong. when a guy reveals that sort of thing to you, and you stick with him, that is like begging to peel back the layers of the embarassment onion.

wow, yeah i wouldn't have sex with that guy anymore. married or not, if the guy was with me, he'd already know that is a proposition you just do not make.

Me personally-if this scenario arose in my relationship...I'd be out the fucking door so fast!

It could/would never work out, not on my watch!

***** ™

sorry dude,

but she is looking for a way to CHEAT on you!!!!!
she just does not want to have the guilt. Hire a P.I. and have her followed for couple of weeks before you agree. Then you will know for sure.

Also you can change the rules, and you pick the dude, and she can pick the bitch for you. This way she does not have the opportunity to fuck someone she is horny about. Of course this can backfire and she can pick an ugly one for you.!!

I'd thought there's something fucked up in my marriage. Especially if she's into stranger cocks all the time.

people...please
remember


this is NOT about anything in my life!

i was bored and just made a question to ask here for posting...
if my wife said that to me id deport her or something..

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Originally posted by Latino

if my wife said that to me id deport her or something..

I hear that!

If your wife says that to you she has already planned on doing another guy, wich means that she'll do him no matter what you say.

What would you do?
do you have that arrangement already?
would you consider it before giving an answer?
or would you answer it straight off?
and why?

I would hope I would never get a proposal like this. Something like this means either she's already cheated on me, or the whole relationship is coming to an end. No woman wants to share her man. No woman who is married wants to share her man. They would control every fucking minute of your married life if you let them...isn't that what most men who are married fight about? (poker night, bowling night, softball, bar hopping after work...stuff like that) No, I'd be royally pissed if my wife ever said something like this to me. It would just put that shadow of doubt in my mind that is not there and should never be there with my wife.

A question out of the blue like that i would be very Leary of.

Although me and my girl already talk about similar scenarios, except that we would both have to be involved

In other words, 3somes would be the only acceptable way to go, no one on one sex with other partners period

And that is exactly how i feel.

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Originally posted by Latino

What would you do?
do you have that arrangement already?
would you consider it before giving an answer?
or would you answer it straight off?
and why?

I wouldnt do anything. Not only does it seem like a trap, but I'd never want another dude sleeping with my girlfriend/wife. I don't have that arrangement already, unless there is another girl involved that we both find attractive. Then it might happen.

I wouldnt consider it, unless it was the stated three way I mentioned above. Even then I'd feel it was a trap. So I'd probably answer right away.

Say hell no.
I have no arrangement
Nope!!!
No
Would'nt want "my girl" fuckin someone else..

That's what id do!

obviously it is a trap and that the other has been cheating already!

wake up \wake up!

Well I am glad this "isn't about you", Latino. I especially liked the part where you added in the fact that this "hypothetical man" has no kids.

This was actually a pretty funny episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm.

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Originally posted by Latino

Ok, so imagine youre married...and have been for some time
you have no kids...and dont suspect/think theres anything wrong.

you have a conversation with your partner..and they decide to ask you something..

they mention that they would allow you to have a one night stand. With whomever
and not hold it against you, not ask with who, when it was done and ask if it was good
as long as you used condoms for protection..

But they were allowed to do the same.

These are my questions for you

What would you do?
do you have that arrangement already?
would you consider it before giving an answer?
or would you answer it straight off?
and why?


and no, this isnt about me.....im just bored with the shit in the lounge, thought we might need to post in something different

What would you do? do you have that arrangement already?
would you consider it before giving an answer?
or would you answer it straight off?
and why?


If I had a girl in mind, that I have wanted to fuck. I would ask a follow-up question of her, to see if she has someone in mind. Maybe we could have an ORGY, of course I would be the only male at that party.

These are my questions for you

What would you do? something that resembles then i'd say ok.
do you have that arrangement already? No
would you consider it before giving an answer? No
or would you answer it straight off? Yes
and why? i'd say yes to this arrangement b/c as someone stated before, if she came to me with this...she has either already f*cked someone else, or wants to. If this is the case, the relationship is heading for the shitter. so i'd say yes, go f*ck some girl we both know to try and hurt her. then i'd give it to her one last time and treat her like the dirty whore she is , then break it off. afterwards posting all the pictures that resulted from said relationship for your enjoyment.

What would you do?
I would do it, no problem.

do you have that arrangement already?
Yes. Those of us in the "lifestyle" refer to this arrangement as a "hall pass."

would you consider it before giving an answer?
or would you answer it straight off?
and why?

I would consider it for a moment, but in all likelihood we would know them already anyway.