While making hot, passionate, steamy monkey luvin'.... what has been the thing(s) to completely destroy the mood for you in the past??

You see, I've felt that it has been like my birthday for like 3 weeks... mainly because I went to Mardi Gras in New Orleans, LA for 5 days, got drunk/majorly buzzed like every day, drank all I could including a 5-times Distilled King Cake Flavored Vodka imported from France, went to the Abita Brewry and had like 4 free drinks with all beers that I had at 8% alcohol, ate everything I could including King Cake, and went on Bourbon Street and saw all kinds o' craziness n' nekid titties. I come back and my friends take me out drinking here at home continually for like another 2 weeks because my birthday was just 01 March and (to me) my birthday doesn't officially end until tonight after a female friend and I come back from a showing of Cirque Du Soleil. So yeah, good times indeed!

So I come back from Mardi Gras and tell all my female friend/friend-with-really-damn-good-benefits about it and she comes onto me because she obviously wants me and I feel that she couldn't get enough of me being so suave in the weeks before I left. So after I usually get off work at 10 pm I almost always go to see her house afterwards for some alone time. We've been going inside and slapping skin, day after day, week after week.... until yesterday! Yesterday is when it happened!

I had gone down on her for like an hour, resulting in her cumming twice and I still hadn't been given head or anything because my pants and belt were still on (due to me strongly believing in pleasuring the woman 1st, then I get taken care of). So after my pants finally come off, we go at it on her bed. With a little over an hour into it she's already came a second time and I've still yet to climax. For a moment, while inside her, I feel that she's wet and getting soaked more than usual. All of a sudden, she gets off and says.... "Oh damn, you know what...? I think I just had my period right now, which is why I'm so wet?!"

So yeah, that totally killed it for me! I got an anti-climax, there was a small amount of blood on my thighs (cause she had just started to flow), and I was momentarily shocked. After we clean up she tells me that it wasn't supposed to happen due to her being on the pill and still currently having an IUD inside her since October (which is when we started talking more and getting more personally closer) to keep her from having it. And yes, I still had on a rubber hat leading up to and during the flow. She told me she was sooo sorry and that she felt horrible for bleeding all over me but I said that it was really no big deal because it's supposed to happen to women at some point and it's just natural, so it was (kinda) ok with me.

Once the mood was killed and we were cleaned up, the mood interestingly becomes flipped. We start telling funny stories, cracking jokes, and just cuddle with each other until I went back home. I mean I'm never gonna tell anyone, not even my best friend about this whole incident because I was intending to bring this to my grave but I don't know how to feel after this incident??
I guess my question is.... Have you ever been bled-on during anal, vaginal, or when giving oral sex?!?
I feel so alone....

that is so gross.

omfgp

Only a kid would think this is the worst thing in the world. Shit happens dude. It might not be the ideal thing you want to happen during sex, but girls bleed. It's how they roll. And if you want to roll with a girl on a daily or even weekly basis, accept the fact that there might be a little blood from time to time. Even if it bothers her to the point that she wants to avoid sex during her period, there are going to be times when sex (at least iffin your dick's big enough to cause it) is going to stimulate the start of flow. That last damn thing you want to do is make her feel like you are somehow grossed out by it. Be a man, make her comfortable. Get on with life.

But you did good with the cuddlin' thing. Carry on.

uhm i'm a girl and if i started bleeding in the middle of sex i wouldnt get butt hurt because he's grossed out. i'd be more turned off if he didnt care.

and being a "kid" has nothing to do with it.

Being a kid does have a bit to do with it. Until you're no longer a kid though, you won't believe me. That's not a slam in any way. It's just what it is. Age brings temperance and perspective to many things.

I'd want my girl to have enough confidence in herself to not be bothered, and enough faith in me to handle her womanhood without a display.

Well said bM ! And what the poster doesn't seem to appreciate is that this small event brought them closer.

He just needs to grow up a bit.

how rude, lol.

Gotta agree with bust on this too, it's really nothing to get embarrassed about, I mean it's a little bit of blood, who hasn't cut themselves and said oh shit I got blood everywhere, but you never get grossed out...

Some women are even more sensitive while on their period, and I know a few that absolutely love having the sex at that time.

But it looks like the both of you got through it, and don't think to much into it dude, cuz truly, you will have things worse then that happen in your life

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Well said bM ! And what the poster doesn't seem to appreciate is that this small event brought them closer.

He just needs to grow up a bit.

Yo', Girlfriend...

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Gotta agree with bust on this too, it's really nothing to get embarrassed about, I mean it's a little bit of blood, who hasn't cut themselves and said oh shit I got blood everywhere, but you never get grossed out...

Some women are even more sensitive while on their period, and I know a few that absolutely love having the sex at that time.

But it looks like the both of you got through it, and don't think to much into it dude, cuz truly, you will have things worse then that happen in your life

!!!!!

hell Honda got shit on!

Fuck, everyone gets shit on occasionally.

You play with fire, you get burned. I tend to find things out of the ordinary during sex super fun, because sex gets kinda tedious after awhile. So yeah, it's really not a big deal, most sexytimes blunders are easily remedied by a shower and some laundry.

Jesus, queefing is the worst though...the I always lol. Having a chick get her period isn't that big of a deal imo. It's nasty and I wouldn't enjoy it, but it's not a big deal.

I was going to go into a buncha stuff, but meh. Getting puked on is probably worse.

A group of friends busted into the room one day whilst I was in the midst of a passionate love making session, kind of killed it a bit for a short time but after I kicked them out we continued with aplomb.

Well folks, it happened again today... the bleeding thing. Seems to be that I get her so relaxed during foreplay that when we have sex she bleeds but she also thinks I'm a bit too big for her because she's on the petite side in her physique. Every time we have sex I end up hitting her cervix numerous times because soon after I can feel the pressure change and flow of when she starts to bleed. Again, I wasn't grossed out nor really phased by it any more but it's just one of those things that I guess I never really expected to happen even though in the back of my mind I always had a feeling that sometime in my life it probably would happen. When she bled again she was still embarrassed like hell, so to get her mind off her own embarrassment I made her get back close to me and I cuddled with her because I could sense clear-as-day that she didn't want to be touched. I ended up giving her a full upper body massage, I caressed her chest, I caressed the rest of her upper body, and caressed her face all so well that she came twice.

I would agree that age has everything to do with it though, because I know I would've looked at the outcome in a very different and worse way than I did the first time. But yes we both had the "Oh shit there's blood" reaction, yet neither of us were grossed out by it... just embarrassed. I made sure to still make her feel fully relaxed, comfortable, and to not worry any more because it's really okay. I just think that she's on the sensitive side but I've taken good care of the outcome and it's all good! And we have gotten closer because of this experience for sure!
So thanks everyone for the "words of wisdom," and sharing of your experiences.

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Well folks, it happened again today... the bleeding thing. Seems to be that I get her so relaxed during foreplay that when we have sex she bleeds but she also thinks I'm a bit too big for her because she's on the petite side in her physique. Every time we have sex I end up hitting her cervix numerous times because soon after I can feel the pressure change and flow of when she starts to bleed. Again, I wasn't grossed out nor really phased by it any more but it's just one of those things that I guess I never really expected to happen even though in the back of my mind I always had a feeling that sometime in my life it probably would happen. When she bled again she was still embarrassed like hell, so to get her mind off her own embarrassment I made her get back close to me and I cuddled with her because I could sense clear-as-day that she didn't want to be touched. I ended up giving her a full upper body massage, I caressed her chest, I caressed the rest of her upper body, and caressed her face all so well that she came twice.

I would agree that age has everything to do with it though, because I know I would've looked at the outcome in a very different and worse way than I did the first time. But yes we both had the "Oh shit there's blood" reaction, yet neither of us were grossed out by it... just embarrassed. I made sure to still make her feel fully relaxed, comfortable, and to not worry any more because it's really okay. I just think that she's on the sensitive side but I've taken good care of the outcome and it's all good! And we have gotten closer because of this experience for sure!
So thanks everyone for the "words of wisdom," and sharing of your experiences.

So how did you manage, what measures have you taken?

Well done Crabbie.

Usually when a woman has her period it bleeds for a few days. Might want to wait till next week before another roll in the hay. Anybody who says this has never happened to them is either a liar or a virgin.

Well as handling the whole outcome I managed by just reassuring her with my actions (rather than words only) that it's ok. I grabbed her and made her come to me when she wanted to stay away after feeling embarrassed so I caressed her, and kissed all over her chest, neck and lips for about an hour until she came twice.

But as for rolling in the hay next time, I said that I would try not to go as deep nor as hard and we'll see how that plays out. Also we've planned on waiting until St. Patty's Day (17 March to those of you, including myself, who forgot what day SP'sD is) to get back in the saddle.

Oh, and she loved her first experience of Cirque Du Soleil cuz she was the one I took to see it and THAT put her right in the mood after it was over!

Grossed out by it blood? Nah. My wife is even hornier when "aunt flo" comes to visit. No big deal. If I were you, I'd be glad she didn't start bleeding when you were going down on her for that hour.