[Deleted] 11 years ago
Not to be rude...ok, yeah...this is gonna be a little rude.
Why the fuck do you think you're not "bisexual or gay enough" to enjoy anal sex? Do you seriously think that there is something gay about a man having anal sex with a woman? Let me say this again...Is there something gay about a MAN having SEX WITH a WOMAN? Now, I totally get not enjoying something after you've tried it, and I completely respect your choice in the fact that you don't like it...god knows I don't want anything going into my ass. However, to insinuate that guys that do enjoy it are somehow gay, is simply retarded. If enjoying anal sex is gay, why aren't blowjobs? Perhaps you didn't enjoy it because you're caught up on your own personal hangups?
Also...its Fuss.
Fafoin, your entire post reeks of a condescending attitude. You've clearly made up your mind on the subject, and have come to the conclusion that anyone who doesn't agree with your opinion is wrong or abnormal. Using the quotes to insinuate that people that have that particular preference that they are secretly or possible subconsciously gay or have such tendencies is absolutely juvenile. Guess what, a lot of completely heterosexual couples have anal sex and have a preference for it. So I guess just because you had a mediocre experience with your inexperience that means it's wrong. I guess that would mean since you prefer a particular band that anyone who enjoys another band must be deranged. Because that is how it seems to work in your mind. Hey that guy likes 7-Up, but you prefer Sprite. He must be a deviant.
Why do some people prefer anal? Because you don't have to worry about birth control. You can bust a nut in a chick and not worry. You can go deeper and not have to worry about bruising their cervix. It's tighter. It's more animalistic if you find the right girl.
If you want to generalize people's preferences, does that mean since you don't like filling all of a chick's available holes you'd be asexual. The concept of this thread is asinine, you're just trying to assert your opinion while posing as if the thread is accepting other people's preference.
I've never tried anal, would like to try sometime to see what all the fuzz is about. But I think you're mostly just a raging homophob.
SP and Kanzen pretty much summed up all I wanted to say.
It reminds me of a thread where someone was saying men who tried anal on themselves or with their gf were gay...
I agree, he could have asked the question without all the judgement and homophobia!
I went with meh, I've never had anal, I guess I'd like to try it sometime but admittedly I have a preconceived notion that the other two more commonly used orifices are more pleasurable. Also, a lot of women have an exit only policy.
I think this thread makes it pretty clear that Kanzen likes to put his ween in buttholes.
A raging homophobe? It couldn't be further from the truth. I know sexuality is fluid. It is not just black&white. Sexuality comes in all shades of grey. Most people are afraid to be seen as bisexual and take that as an insult. See how most people here are going nuts about putting "" around straight men. Get over yourselves. 100% straight men is a tiny minority. I am not saying most guys would sleep with another man if they had the chance but most guys can be turned on by what society sees as 'masculine traits'. Just look at the popularity of the shemale porn. Most viewers do label themselves as straight men. From now on, I will try to put aside the biologist in me and drop the labels since so many people are afraid of them.
Now, let's go back on the topic.
The only hint of answers I got was from Kanzen with his "Why do some people prefer anal? Because you don't have to worry about birth control. You can bust a nut in a chick and not worry. You can go deeper and not have to worry about bruising their cervix. It's tighter. It's more animalistic if you find the right girl." This was the answers I wanted to read. Not all the name-calling, blame game answers I got.
I'd be interesting to read the same thread on a forum with more women to know what is their take on the subject. I know it isn't universal but from what I've seen and what I heard around me, most women have, as RiffRaff said, an 'exit only policy'. From the girls willing to do anal, most seem to only accept it to please their men and not really for their own pleasure.
It's not a question of being afraid of bisexuality. It's just that you assume that a practice makes a sexual orientation which is false.
If you are attracted to females only, you are straight. You can like being fucked in the ass by a girl, that still makes you straight as long as you don't want that to happen with a man. Basically, you're confusing sexual practices with sexual orientation.
The shemale thing is discussable indeed as it depends whether you consider a shemale a man or a woman or both.
On topic, I haven't tried yet but would like to, at some point. I won't be the guy forcing someone to do something which is sad, disrespectful and also not fun. From what I heard on the female side, the sensation would be close to the clitoris stimulation but I guess it's really personnal as there isn't really a sexual stimulation point here for women (unlike men who have the prostate).
I only want anal with a women if she does not. Lots of Love.
[Deleted] 11 years ago
^^ Yeah, I wasn't going to dignify his reply with a reply of my own. I mean...part of me wants to but we all know how it would go.
Me: You're a sick fucking individual who should be castrated and locked up for the rest of you life and get forcibly raped in jail so you know what it feels like.
Him: I was joking.
Me: You think rape is fucking funny? How funny is it that nearly 20% of women will be raped in their life time? How funny would it be if it was your mother, your daughter, your sister, or your wife? Because statistically speaking, there is a good chance that one of them was or may be raped. Still funny?
Him: Relax, it was just a joke, and I'd never actually do that.
Me: By joking about rape you diminish the seriousness of the crime, you make it something to laugh about. Is it funny that over 50% of rape victims are under the age of 18? Is that funny? Why don't you make up some funny pedifilia rape jokes now.
And then this would go on and on and on. Bottom line...Stop fucking making jokes about something that is a serious crime and serious problem in our society.
Anal sex is definitely "meh" for me. When I was a teenager and I finally had a girlfriend that would do the sex with me, I would kind of push the issue. After trying it...."meh". I've even had girlfriends who were into that sort of thing and I gave it the old college try because I like pleasing the wimins but honestly, it's just not my cup of tea. I prefer the other orifices. You know, ears and such. Anywhoo. Doing any kinds of sex with a member of the opposite sex makes you straight. The only sex that's gay is when you're doing it with a member of the same sex. I typed sex a lot there.
jerryseagrahm 11 years ago
wow just to add my two cents worth dude you do you and I will do any girl who wants me to do anal with her I don't believe it makes me or any other guy gay just freaker than you are but remember sometimes if someone is so judgemental about something that means there is a skeleton in the closet with them
