SINGLE

Welp, Im officialy single. Got my walking papers, final shots, and articles I brought with me at the time of incarceration, today.

In a way, its a good thing. Someways bad. O well, I'll live.

So, now what?? Wonder what I can get into?? Wonder what I'll do?? Any suggestions??

Umm, I might sit in my bean bag chair tomorrow nite, in my underware, and play video games...I donk know.

ANY SUGGESTIONS??

so she got everything but the computer im guessing. right? any kids in the mix?

Bean-bag chairs are fun..


..You in your underwear..





Uhmm.. go out to some clubs?.. mix and mingle.. and.. uhmm.. find some interesting people?

Yes, 1 kid in the mix, young however. 3 months old today.

She got hers, I got mine. We didnt take each other's shit or fight over anything. We just split. Said she felt obligated to be with me so we called it off.

Child Support was set relatively low, which surprised me. Honestly.

Being single sucked. I dont recommend it.

Jack -- JACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SouthP@w -- Well, in that case.. Warm the milk, and feed the baby.

Yes, I agree with Jack. Im the type that likes having a girlfriend. I like having someone to love or go over to their house or see everyday or call everyday. Helps take my mind off the other one. lol

Exactly. I was single for eight months of my life after being with someone for five years. I hated every day of it.

People thought I was crazy for keeping hope and not telling her to fuck off - but now things are better than ever.

If they crash again - so be it. But for now, Im happy again.

Dont give up SP.

Well then.. find a baby-sitter.. and go for a stroll in the park.

Or rather.. take the baby with you; there's plenty of women out there that love men with babies.

Meet her in church or at a library.












Im serious.

IN church. That way, she can tell daddy she met a nice man at church. I GET IT!

Fuckin brilliant...fuckin brilliant

o wait, I can't say "fuck" when I go to church..damn.

Hey, that was in this month's issue of MAXIM..how to pick up babes at church

there you go man just take it easy leave her alone for awhile if she wants you back stuff will start needing fixed around the house more than once a week if not you got a great kid together just be friendly as possible and raise that baby

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Originally posted by SouthP@w

ANY SUGGESTIONS??

throw a house party!

Try being single with childeren

If he is paying child support then why is he going to need a baby sitter? Child support=obviously not in custody of the kid. I;d say give yourself some time to breath. You've just been released back into the wild and are not up for any partying or clubs. Take it easy, do things you enjoy, go to a cafe, maybe try some light internet dating. You were single before and survived, you're not going to spontaneously combust now that you're single again. Hell, it was thanksgiving before last when I last had a GF or got laid. At least I can say she blew me that morning and swallowed like a pro.

I agree with Jeff to a certain point, my divorce just finalized and I've been "on the market" (single and depressed) for about 6 months. I'm starting to come out of it, but I'm noticing that after being with her for 8 years, I have no idea how to talk to girls I'm attracted to now. When I was married, I knew nothing would happen, now with endless possibilities...I say the dumbest god damn thing possible. But I do say to get out there and make an ass of yourself. You're in the same boat as me, my daughter's almost 3 years old, but she won't remember how daddy was out trying to get a piece of ass anytime she wasn't around. Just my $0.02.

Thanks guys. Yes, I do pay child support. And it is hard. Listening to her tell me how she is at some dudes house but wont tell me who it is or whatever. But, it's a damn good thing we figured this out now, instead of waiting till we got married then she throwed to bomb on my ass.

Im just gonna chill, hang out with some buddies, throw back some beer and do whatever the hell i want when I want. Its my time and I'm gonna make the most of it. I appreciate the feedback and support.

Im trying not to moan and gripe over it all. But it's so damn hard. She's not sweet and innocent like she was when we first started dating. Thats lost, it's all gone. It's hard because I compare everything to her. What she smelled like, what she looked like, how she held me, how she loved me. But O freakin well.

Thanks everyone. I appreciate it alot.

Im trying not to moan and gripe over it all. But it's so damn hard. She's not sweet and innocent like she was when we first started dating. Thats lost, it's all gone. It's hard because I compare everything to her. What she smelled like, what she looked like, how she held me, how she loved me. But O freakin well.

Don't sweat over it Southpaw, my ex-wife is dating one of the biggest pieces of shit I know who used to be a friend of mine. Its her life to live, but him around my daughter definitely bothers me. I'll never be able to look at her the same way again because she is a totally different person. Just pay your child support, be a great father (because good will not work in your child's eyes), and live your life. They say one day it'll get easier and you won't compare everyone to her, I haven't gotten there yet, but I look forward to the day that I do. Until then, there's always beer, porn, and strippers. Keep your head up man, I know how you feel.

Yeah, Im trying to remain positive threw the hole ordeal. Its tuff, I give her that. Its definately tuff as hell. I had to watch our little girl tonite. So, I called her to let her know how she is doing and that I was fixing to take her back to her house and I heard a guy in the background of her cell phone, she quickly hung up on me.

That hurt, bad. But O well, I love her so much that I've got to let her go and taste the grass on the other side. Hopefullly, one day, we can work it out and be better. I doubt it tho. I dont wan't to let go, but it looks like I'm goin to have to.

Things will work out. I might meet somebody one day thats totally awesome and loves the shit out of me. Ya never know about situations like this. Ya just never know.