Marriage/Single..Are You Happy, Or Waiting To Die?

I was married at one time and very unhappy! Now Im engaged and very happy. Its just that now I have a good woman thats normal not a psycho like my ex!

Married for 12 1/2 years and happy. We married young (21) and had our daughter at 23, so in the beginning I wasn't sure how I felt, kinda scary buying a house and worrying about a new wife and baby, now though couldn't love her more. The longer we are together the more fun we have. Not always roses though, usually argue around her time of the month(go figure!!!) but otherwise we are each others best friends.

Married. Together for 7 years. Cause of her and the kids I've worked to be what i always wanted to be. A happy father/husband.

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Originally posted by EricLindros

Im single, because few women can live up to my awesome standards. And that's cool, but, I suppose it'd be nice to not be a monk or whatever from time to time. I just can't bring myself to bang less than perfect chicks.

Lol, no shortage of ego here. Doomed to a long life of singlehood.

Married for 30 years now. Been some tough times. Always will be, but something to be said about always having someone to be there for you. Can't imagine being single. Was more exciting back then, but that thrill wears off when you're closing on 30. Even Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt will tell you that.

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Originally posted by notech

single,married,single,married,single,married,single....lost track....Eh,nevermind,forgot what I was goona say..

Try this. When you wake up in the morning, look next to you. If there's a woman there, and she looks familiar, then you're probably married. If there's nobody there, then you're most likely single. If there's a d00d there, then you're gay!!

I'm married...Can't really tell you if I'm "happy" or not. When I figure it out I'll let you know. I have the grass is greener syndrome. I know you shouldn't compare two people, but I can't seem to quit doing that. My ex b/f and my husband...Both have they great attributes and my ex sure has his DOWNFALLS with faithfullness. We did the affair thing and my concious got the better of me, but my husband stuck it out and wants to make it work, whereas for the ex I'm pretty sure it was just all about sex. Sorry to ramble on ...I don't even make sense to myself!

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Originally posted by starchicka69

I'm married...Can't really tell you if I'm "happy" or not. When I figure it out I'll let you know. I have the grass is greener syndrome. I know you shouldn't compare two people, but I can't seem to quit doing that. My ex b/f and my husband...Both have they great attributes and my ex sure has his DOWNFALLS with faithfullness. We did the affair thing and my concious got the better of me, but my husband stuck it out and wants to make it work, whereas for the ex I'm pretty sure it was just all about sex. Sorry to ramble on ...I don't even make sense to myself!

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Originally posted by starchicka69

I'm married...Can't really tell you if I'm "happy" or not. When I figure it out I'll let you know. I have the grass is greener syndrome. I know you shouldn't compare two people, but I can't seem to quit doing that. My ex b/f and my husband...Both have they great attributes and my ex sure has his DOWNFALLS with faithfullness. We did the affair thing and my concious got the better of me, but my husband stuck it out and wants to make it work, whereas for the ex I'm pretty sure it was just all about sex. Sorry to ramble on ...I don't even make sense to myself!

We're pretty much used to ramblings around here

But I've done that myself, the cheating and grass is greener thing, and, damn am I glad I finally got a woman that I have no desire to cheat on

im in a long-term relationship(8years)and more than happy! believe it or not, things actually (can) get better the longer a relationship lasts...btw:interesting thread, good question!

Married at 19, that was 14 years ago. She was also 19 at the time. Have two children, her and the boys are on holidays with me renovating, but missing her badly!!!!!

Engaged - happy