How soon to start giving head?

2nd date if you like the guy -- unless there's no stopping the attraction. You'll know the difference, believe me. Um...also, some of these guys have been watching porn too long. Don't walk into any new relationship like it's anything goes at first. Keep the man wanting a little more each time until you know it's what you want. He'll respect you more in the long run and you'll know he gives a damn or be rid of him before you get in to something embarrassing. I mean, just look around this site.

If you post some examples of your cock sucking talent we would be better able to evaluate your predicament.

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Originally posted by katie_r

In the meantime any nice guy I like will get frequent handjobs and a pushy guy nothing at all.

Oh, well in that case, you'll be just fine whatever you decide.

whatever you're comfortable with is acceptable!! Men who expect are assholes!!

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Originally posted by ricky_baby100

A few yrs ago a kid told me that some cheerleaders were blowing guys on the football team, while on the bus, because they won a game.
Not even dating! Oh Canada !!!!!

Most of us Brits don't understand American football. So we'd be more surprised if we heard about cheerleaders who weren't blowing their team after the match!

I thought the reason for having cheerleaders was to provide the team with plenty of no-strings sex on demand and that giving head it in front of the team and the other cheerleaders adds to a girl's rep. And why would a teenage girl be willing to become a cheerleader and prance around in public in a weird dress unless it was for the chance to suck and fuck as many as possible of her school's sports stars?

But perhaps we Brits are appallingly ignorant of the sporting significance and wholesome role of the cheerleader - or just jealous of the guys on the bus!

Katie_r, to get back to your original question.

I agree with many of the above posters. Only do what you're comfortable with, move at you own speed, have nothing to do with guys who want head but don't give you what you are looking for in the relationship - both sex and the rest.

Happy dating.

girl just wait, or don't if you don't want to. The gal isn't worth it if he depends on this. Probably a lot of girls don't even like it, so if you're only doing it for him, be sure he's worth it! Otherwise he's a jerk. True, i wouldn't mind either if you would do it on the first date, but what about respect? Be sure to respect and be respected, as some (most) guys think with their little head!
cheers and don't forget to post some more

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Originally posted by Roboduck

The women's usually faint when they see the size of my phallus.

I only have to wait long enough for them to regain consciousness and distend there jaws

I never expected anything on the first date, but a blow job leaves an impression. In one case, I slept in another room on our first night together. The following week, we went out again. She asked me how I felt about oral. She said she didn't want to sleep together the first time because she was on her period. I just thought she wanted to wait a while. Anyway, the sex, oral and otherwise was great on the second date.

I say giving a guy a blow job is like giving a little kid candy. He wants it right away, but if you make him wait, it's not like he's going to say, just forget it. He'll be happy when you finally give it to him.

Some people consider oral to be more intimate than regular sex. Others consider it less intimate. So the real question isn't how far into the relationship. The real question is, before or after you start having sex? That's something for you to figure out.

But if you want my personal opinion, I'd suggest that whenever in the relationship you start having sex, oral (both for him, and for you) should be just part of the mix.

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Originally posted by katie_r

Thanks for all the posts and advice. Was offline all last week so sorry slow replying.

No surprise that some guys want oral as soon as they get alone with a girl for the first time!

Have decided to follow the advice to keep the oral until I'm good and ready. In the meantime any nice guy I like will get frequent handjobs and a pushy guy nothing at all.

Hey Katie, who gets fucked.

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Originally posted by WindyM

...Hey Katie, who gets fucked.

Well, WindyM, I reckon that unless she takes care, it is always the woman who gets fucked!

Fucked physically, emotionally, spiritually and in every other way - like getting posted naked on WBW for everyone to comment on her boobs and how she looks with cum on her face. Not to mention the possibility of STDs and unwanted pregnancy.

So the clever woman would have nothing to do with a man. But I'm not a clever woman so I'm doing the next best thing and not giving any guy too much of me (heart as well as head) until I feel I can trust him.

x

You've got us sussed Katie, you don't really need advice! It's been interesting reading though.

How about just opening the door on your knees, is that soon enough....(whine)

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Originally posted by ricky_baby100

A few yrs ago a kid told me that some cheerleaders were blowing guys on the football team, while on the bus, because they won a game.
Not even dating! Oh Canada !!!!!

This is true....and well, lets just say, I would know..





































I was briefly a cheerleader.