getting back with your ex.

Yea, I have no problem with the 1st step-admitting I have a problem..


It's actually kicking my ass into gear to get into the 2nd step where I have the problem!

never an option w/ me...

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Originally posted by Síkon.

Yea, I have no problem with the 1st step-admitting I have a problem..


It's actually kicking my ass into gear to get into the 2nd step where I have the problem!

so the sex is that good, eh

Well I split up with a girl, then after a year apart we got back together got married had a kid now after 11 years we have both changed grown apart, I have the house she has a new apartment and my kid, I have a new girlf friend now and my wife gets to spend her days finding new inventive ways to screw more money out of me and make it is hard as possible as she can for me to see my kid.

You never know how things will turn out you just gotta take a shot at it, and if I could go back and not get back with her would I? Honestly.... I would not change a thing I have a beautiful daughter and lots of good memories.

Well after being divorced twice and just being at work goofing around outside.... A guy i dated when i was 15ish came back into my life. Hell neither one of us remenber why we broke up in the first place We started kind of seeing each other again... hanging out... going out to dinner together... talking on the phone after work... introduced him to my girls and we are just ya know taking it slow we will never be gf/bf like we were when we were young.. but ya know it feels good to have someone actually give a shit about ya again

I broke up with my girlfriend loads of times, for different reasons all the times.
This is normally how it goes down:
1. Everythings Fine
2. She finds somethign to bitch about
3. We row and split up
4. we eventually start talking
5. I fuind myself in bed with her, again.
6. Everythings Fine
7. Repeat step 2-6 in about 6 months



Messed up, but it works.

ive never done it but i do however think it can work. it depends on the reasons why u split up in the 1st place. sometimes people do make mistakes, sometimes they make stupid or wrong decisions (eg. fucking others or leaving your gf/bf for that one and only person only to realise that they are not the one at all...)ive seen it happening with my mates a million times and to be perfectly honest in 9 outta 10 cases it wont work...mind u, there is an exeptions to every rule though

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Originally posted by Red-X

No I've never done it, It's a waste of time. And if you do hook up it'll be short lived unless the reason is good. But I suggest just being Friends with benefits with an ex. A relationship is doomed to failure.

Agreed, I have, not worth the time. U broke up for a reason,,won't go away.

i've been doing it for the past 3 years.. i allways call it off for some dumb reason. e.g i feal im gettin too close. so i cause stupid arguments... we start to hate bieng together so we break up.. realise we cant leave each other alone i break up with whoever im with at that time and get back with her. Because of this she finds it hard to trust me, So if im on the phone or texin or out she always thinks its some other girl. thats why we broke up recently but now i feal were gettin close again. will it never end??? Im a firm believer in marridge and i think no matter what if you marry someone u have to make it work... Theres no u turn. Because of this i have to be sure. If i did get married to my x i dnt belive she would be julous... thats not ennough to make me propose tho.. (im not an idiot) tho reading this back to me i do think i am a little messed up

oh and yes the sex is GREAT!! OH MY GOD!! GREAT!! shes just as nasty an peverted as me oh the things we do

From my personal perspective, I wish all of my ex's pictures were on the back of a milk carton. So my answer would be don't do it.

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Originally posted by EricLindros

Almost all my exes want to get back with me after a while. I get stale, I suppose, but then they realize they have trouble doing much better.

Or at least that's what I tell myself.

whatever you have to tell yourself to get up in the morning i guess

I went back with my ex and if I hadn't I wouldn't have my son now. We did split up 2 years later though. Generally speaking, I'd say don't go back with your ex. It's kinda like they have a safety net and they know precisely how much shit they can get away with, and they will push you to that limit. It's like they have a ready-made boyfriend already tailored to suit their needs, which means they won't put as much effort in. I'm sure this works the other way too. You won't put as much effort in as you would do in a fresh relationship.

Look at it this way - it's like betting on a horse that keeps losing.

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Originally posted by _Prowl_

Look at it this way - it's like betting on a horse that keeps losing.