Cheating

A while back a topic was made about cheating on your significant other and many people had many thoughts on this.
I was involved w/ a married woman for 6 years...for 1.5 of that I too was married.It was the first time in my life that I had ever been involved in a full blown affair like that.
HBO could never have scripted this any better.
Originally when this started we had made a pact that we would never meet one anothers families but that went by the wayside w/in about 2 months.
In the 6 years we have known one another we have met pretty much every person in our families....her daughter loves me and I have been in thier home while the husband is there and have been requested by the daughter to tuck her in and the Husband has said nothing.I was on my way out one night when my phone rang and it was my GF asking me to come by because her daughter has asked that I tuck her in before I go out.
This past Friday night we all went to a party for a mutual friend...at the end of the party my GF,her Husband,daughter and her Mom were having a family hug to which the daughter came over and had me be a part of it.
I know that this sounds like a big soap opera and many may not believe what I have posted here but I know that its 100% true.
So.........as many affairs go south because someone gets caught some actually become something that is so large that it begins to take on a life of its own and it swallows up everyone in the way.
For anyone involved in an affair....be careful because it may very well become something you may never be able to walk away from.

As someone who has been cheated on, I can only say that I could never cause the kind of pain that cheating causes. I took a vow the day I got married, and one thing I will never do is go back on my word.

If your thinking of having an affair, think of the people you will be hurting first, and weigh that against the fun/thrill/adventure of it all.












... that being said... back to the porn!

Was very seriously involve with a married woman for about 2 years. I was single at the time.

I cheated before. It sucked, i told my g/f she forgave me... later i dumped her again.. now i want her back and she's making me wait... ill be back with her in two weeks (Hopefully)

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Originally posted by *PiRo*

I cheated before. It sucked, i told my g/f she forgave me... later i dumped her again.. now i want her back and she's making me wait... ill be back with her in two weeks (Hopefully)

I wish you the best in that, bud!! I've was on the other end of a situation like that for a while, so I pretty much know how you feel.

Thanks RD. Yeah it sucks but its all my fault, thats why im sat up at 0400hrs now thinking about her, i'm going to go over to her workplace tomorrow with flowers (i sent flowers yesterday too) and try an sort things. She pretty much said she still loves me and wants me and if iv changed we will be back together soon!

Flowers at work is a nice touch, for sure!!

Yeah dude cheating is bad aye think about the feelings of your partner aye you made a commitment to her so time to man up.
I've cheated before and been cheated on its not the greatest feeling knowing that you have done something that bad to someone that you care about... but hey nobody is perfect.

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Originally posted by rainbowdemon

Flowers at work is a nice touch, for sure!!

Yeah bit of luck i'll have sorted this problem within a few weeks. Worst case scenario ill have to get over it and move on.

And we're missing the obvious here. When you do get this back together, we want pictures!!

DON'T BE A DICK! Cheating is fucked up! I've been cheated on-- it is a bad deal-- we are now separated-- probably- most likely getting a divorce. I didn't ask for this-- she is pretty evil in my eyes!

Don't be that guy who breaks up a marriage!

OMg Dude, you are in some serious shit. I have cheated on almost every women I have ever been with, but when I married my wife I never cheated on her. I did when we where dating, but that is completly different.

I have kissed other women and messed around with them, even in front of my now wife, while we wheer married And in front of her parents and mine, and a whole audience. <-- See the catch.

The only time it is cool to mess around on your wife is when it is acting, and she is cool with it.

And on that note, that play was one of the best projects I have ever been in, and we got rave reviews. I am going to do a last performance of it on july 30th, (as a result of it selling out twice and have 6 very succesful performance) Not to toot my own horn.

I Love Theatre, get to mess around with hot women in front of your wife and see em naked backstage.

Don't cheat . Swing .

I've never cheated on a girlfriend, but I have been the dude that girls cheat on their boyfriends/husbands with several times before. I'm not proud of it, but in my defense I have never made the first move. Also the married one didn't tell me she was married beforehand.

The weirdest thing is when a girl mentions her boyfriend over and over right before pouncing on you. It's some kind of defense mechanism I guess.

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Originally posted by AbrahamLincoln

The weirdest thing is when a girl mentions her boyfriend over and over right before pouncing on you. It's some kind of defense mechanism I guess.

They do that just so you know that you are around just for fun.

these things always end badly, and when kids are involved, it just gets worse. too many people get hurt and kids come to depend on you to be around. when you leave, you screw them up too.

cheaters never prosper.....except in professional sports

Cheating is for losers. Having your wife come along and sleep with other people is the ONLY way to go.

Then, instead of admitting that you were cheating, you admit that it was you that passed gas that you denied the whole night. : )

Karma is going to come back and kick you so fucking hard you'll crawl into a ball and weep yourself dehydrated.

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Originally posted by Kanzen

Karma is going to come back and kick you so fucking hard you'll crawl into a ball and weep yourself dehydrated.

Dear Lord! Wow, that is a bit harsh, but funny.