Are You Happy In Relationships?

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Originally posted by 888SPO

You guys that choose to go it alone have picked the most boring path ! I am wondering if the computer recluses among you have subsituted a high res flat screen for a human face ? Maybe log off and interact face to face with the same frequency.

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Originally posted by sillygoose123

when i was younger and found out boys like me, and was naive, i ended up being with a lot of guys...

Hrm.

By a lot, what are we talking here? 3? 10? 54? 13981e³

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Originally posted by Honda_X

...or they end up in a trailer park married to a man that wears flannel and drives an old pickup truck while trying to remember the names of their eighteen children.

Hey, watch it Bud!

I have a new PU truck, flannel's too hot so I wear wife-beaters and me and the Queen of my double wide only have fourteen children.

Six of them look like me which is a purty high raysheo.

Well i haven't been in a long term seriously relationship but some of the short ones i have been in, never lasted. i always felt like the girl wasn't that into me (or vice versa) or maybe its because they were always flirty with other guys, witch makes me jealous and that ain't cool in my book! maybe im self conscious/paranoid who knows? but id prefer to be in a relationship... one that actually went well... i think.

Being single, the chicks (the nice ones) just don't like ya man.

I am single now and i am quite happy.. I am not seeking any relationship.. i can do what i want when i want.. and nobody isn´t gonna try to change my way to do things..

I`ve been thinking this alot: why does women try to change men in a relationship? When two people start to be together both should accept other like they are.. if you know the answer to that question then you are way smarter than me..

It's very true that when you're in a relationship or married that girls are noticeably more attracted to you.

At the times in my life when I've been single I've had to make all the first moves. Since I've been married women just throw themselves at me. Not like I'm Brad Pitt or somethin but I mean it's definitely a noticeable increase in the amount of women who want you to know they're interested. I guess they figure you're not gonna make the first move since you're married so they have to take the initiative. I don't know why they like you more I guess they figure if some other chick thought you were good enough to marry you must be something special but you would think logic would tell them you're not that great of a guy if you're married and still open to new women.

Haha Honda. Your approach was kind of funny, but I understand where it comes from. I'm also like that, I find things about the girl that could be better. There will always be more attractive girls out there so (I know, icky sticky cliché the personality is probably the most important, with the looks coming on a close second of course.

The word love is kind of thrown around allot in the American language, but the Norwegian word is really hard to use. I have not used it once to a girl, maybe because I don't believe in what I call the Hollywood love. I believe that friendship is the best kind of love, so when a girlfriend is your best friend it might be love. That's my two cents on love.

Me and my ex-gf broke up a couple of weeks ago after almost 3 years together, and I noticed what a relief it was. She is great and I miss her but there were some things we just couldn't agree on. Now being out of the relationship I see at the end we stayed together mostly because it was convenient. I've always been afraid of ending up alone, but that is not good enough reason to stay in a relationship.

I believe that even though I meet the perfect girl I will always find flaws because of my own insecurity. So my plan is to stay single and try to get to know myself better. Some people go in to a relationship for all the wrong reasons, and maybe I have too. I don't regret any of them, and with each one I have learned something new about myself.

I think for the first time I'm single and happy, wish that had happened in my early twenties and not in the middle twenties :P But hey, I'm young and have good friends, a place to live, a nice job and all the stuff I need. Love will come when the time is right. In the meantime I'll surfe WBW and wish that each of the smoking hot girls here where my girlfriend :P