The thing to remember with anal sex is that firstly both partners have to be willing..
When you think you've got enough lube, add a load more just to be sure..
Play with her anus for a long time before trying to get your cock in there, tease it while giving her oral, get one then 2 fingers in slowly and gently with lots of lube, gradually her anus will stretch a little and she will relax if your going down on her at the same time..
When you are ready to enter try it with her laying on her back, legs held up, you can see her face and that will tell you a lot about how painful it is or isn't for her, she can see what your doing and will relax more, and its also easier to enter this way than from behind, save that for when shes used to it, cos when she is she'll probably start prefering it to vaginal sex...
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