So like last night my girlfriend wanted to make me cum...she gave me a blow job and a hand job for a nice 15min...I did not cum...so I had to help her out.
Now, why is it that when I cum by myself it takes me literally 5min...but for my girlfriend with my help...15+ min?
IS there a better solution? this is really getting to me...
nostradamosgr 16 years ago
whats your age??
:P
first think something
you prefer to do it to you for 5 minutes or for 15?
isnt it better for longer?
now about your question for the time and the result...
its normal. she dont feel as like u when u do it.or she must find other ways to make u to feel more orgasm or just try and u ( with ur mind- to feel it better )
about the time i prefer 15 minutes than to do it to me for 5
:P
i dont usually reply but i like ur question
maybe u are young. i dont know. but because its a strange history teh feelings i feel to reply
its terrible when sexy things. anything. video pictures is normal and pretty for people. for the other side.
out of law and bad.
its so strange this so thin line between naturality and not good of all this
for me sometimes is art :P
not something about sex but the human body.
njoy life
and make ur self and your g.f happy
best wishes for ur life.
dont worrie for anything.
i have often wondered the same thing when my wife is giving me a blowjob. i wanna cum soooo bad, but it seems i just can't i always end up finishing the job myself (not blowing myself, assholes,) all over her. i just figure its cause i want it so bad and it feel so good. oh yeah, and it happens so rarely. lol. just enjoy it when you get it.
Thanks for your wiseass remark RunDum. And thanks Nostra. I will try it.
I'm 23 btw. Finding girls here in Boston sucking dick is like finding a needle in a hay stack.
I just asked the question of how we we're different on making me cum...I felt bad for her cause shes like, "Im ur gF and I wanna make you cum soo bad" and she tryed all her might..but could not succeed without alittle help.
When you jack off your doing it to relieve stress or whatever and thats all you want and you know better than anyone what to do.I'm the same way.5 mins jerking off but alot longer for a BJ.(who would want a 5 min BJ anyway?I would prefer it lasted a lil while and enjoy it lol)
Also can just be inexperience.I was the first my gf gave head to and 1st time she was a soldier.Took a good 40 minutes.Now that she knows me better she can usually pull it off in 10-20.
Here's a thought...post a vid and we'll try and give her some pointers lol. J/P
Practice, practice, practice! She'll eventually work out what works quick and what doesn't (and talk while she's doing it - same as girls do when you're going down on them). I've known girls that can knock me off in a minute and some that, like Gamebred's experience, take +/- 40 minutes (no matter how long it takes, as long as top teeth don't meet up with bottom teeth, there's no such thing as a bad blowjob - sit back and enjoy). Also, try going at this in a 69 position.
Another thing to help things along. Don't have sex of any sort for at least a week. Try to get past 10 days if you can. Don't masturbate. Nothing. Unless you're taking a piss, your hand doesn't go near your dick and even then just for some brief seconds. The only thing that would be allowed is some teasing by your girlfreind - and only she is allowed to touch, and even then for no more than a minute. After that week has been and gone (try for 10 days), let her go nuts (or tease for again for some mintues first - we kid ourselves, but guys do need some foreplay as well). She should have you blowing all over her, porn style, in a just a few minutes.
as she is blowing you tell her what feels right and what dont belive it or not she will listen good luck
**note to self im not the worst speller on wbw**
Be sure to tell us how it all works out. We're all there with you (check the closet).
KIDS!Just enjoy and who cares!
The short answer is your girlfriend sucks at giving head if she can't make you cum.
The other possibility is that you're a nervous mess and fucking yourself up mentally by forcing the issue. If you're sitting there the whole time trying to induce yourself to cum because you want her to think she's doing good then you could be causing yourself to do the exact opposite and not cum at all. If this is the problem get drunk, being drunk will allow you to stop being so uptight and possibly enjoy yourself.
If you aren't over thinking this and you are just sitting back and enjoying yourself and she still can't make you cum then either get a good blowjob porno and tell her to study or find a new girlfriend with more natural talent.
