Up the ass

A few random thoughts come to mind based on the input so far....and some really well considered comments from all of you. Well, first of all....the ass never lies. The pussy is a notorious liar...........

I think more ( straight and gay) men and women are into anal sex than they would even admit to, even if it is just playing with their lover's ass hole.

I like Jen's thoughts on domination. I think that giving yourself fully in love is important. Most of the hetero chicks that I know really don't prefer fellatio or swallowing, but they love the fact that they are sacrificing comfort for their lover's pleasure, and I think that the same thinking is behind ( pardon the pun) most anal sex as well. Do men understand that ? I don't think so,but I think all women do.

Also, on domination, I like a lover that likes to jump right in and get things done ! But they must also learn to follow as well as lead.....variety is important, as are requests to granted without delay. ( No kiddies, we're not talking about whips and such. It's the attitude that is important.

Personally I don't like toys in my butt. But I do like a lot of touching and kissing ( observe all the hygiene protocols please !!!!! ) in that nerve rich area.

Anyway....just a few random thoughts to share.

F1098. Is there a LIKE button on that page?

Of course Mr. Latex. And you have just pushed it. Thanks for the compliment.

I think most men and women carry all their relationship issues to bed with them,and the lost opportunities are enormous.

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Originally posted by latexthree

F1098. Is there a LIKE button on that page?

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Originally posted by F1098

I think most men and women carry all their relationship issues to bed with them,and the lost opportunities are enormous.


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Not being into men, I can't comment about "most", but if they are like me, sex and "issues" do not go hand in hand. Ready anytime is more like it. Now my little lady...... uh huh.

This thread gets better and better every day! Thanks for the input F1098. Your insight is very keen. I agree that many people bring issues to bed and that does indeed limit the fun/opportunities that can be had.
My sexual tastes are what I what I would describe as "unique". I am attarcted to women only and am never turned on by the appearence of men but I desire gay sex (thus far only as the receiver) and being penetrated by women with toys. So I definitely understand both sides of anal sex as I have also been the giver to a few women anally.
As I said earlier, the mind has to be willing for anal sex to be truly be pleasurable as the receiver.

The photo tells it all. Fortunately for you, the control panel of a woman is far more complicated. Gets ya involved, ya know ?

As the engineer that I am, I think of it this way. Each of those knobs controls a particular hormonal response and your task is to help with the (infinite) adjustment of them. Then, and only then can you/should you actuate that toggle switch on the top panel when the moment is correct.

You are the co-pilot in these matters.

Cheers, F. !

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Not being into men, I can't comment about "most", but if they are like me, sex and "issues" do not go hand in hand. Ready anytime is more like it. Now my little lady...... uh huh.

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Originally posted by F1098

The photo tells it all. Fortunately for you, the control panel of a woman is far more complicated. Gets ya involved, ya know ?

As the engineer that I am, I think of it this way. Each of those knobs controls a particular hormonal response and your task is to help with the (infinite) adjustment of them. Then, and only then can you/should you actuate that toggle switch on the top panel when the moment is correct.

You are the co-pilot in these matters.

Cheers, F. !



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It wouldn't be so bad if all dials had instructions, for just as we neanderthals think we have about perfected the dial-cocktail, we make a minute adjustment on a dial we thought hardly mattered, and the meters go haywire.

We are truly hardwired and analog by nature. Your natural diagnostic skills are what is important here as one of you threw the instruction book into the fire eons ago. Men read ? Hah ! That's why I like women.

All the best, F.

P.S. I have a T shirt with a lovely graphic and the name "Vagina Whisperer". Made by a woman, for women...you get the picture, yes ?

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It wouldn't be so bad if all dials had instructions, for just as we neanderthals think we have about perfected the dial-cocktail, we make a minute adjustment on a dial we thought hardly mattered, and the meters go haywire.

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idk...to me guys that are a "sweetheart" is just a major turnoff... sorry, i can be a bitch sometimes, i need a guy who can put me in my place, not kiss my ass and buy me chocolates and creepy stuff like that. white guys especially seem to cant figure that shit out. i dont want mr. nice little boy, i want a fkin man.

Where have you been the last 20 years while political correctness has be trying to chickify the men here in America, white guys especially. You say white guys can't figure it out but the majority of society has been drumming the caring and feeling stuff into our heads for 20 to 30 years to make us more like women. The kind of man your talking about is a rare thing now a days.

There's something really special in a woman accepting to do anal sex

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Where have you been the last 20 years while political correctness has be trying to chickify the men here in America, white guys especially. You say white guys can't figure it out but the majority of society has been drumming the caring and feeling stuff into our heads for 20 to 30 years to make us more like women. The kind of man your talking about is a rare thing now a days.

o i agree society is much to blame... though ive managed to waaaaay more satisfaction with black men...it doesnt seem to be as much a problem for them. white boys, are just becomming wimpy.