Up the ass

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Originally posted by jen2412

the last pic on post 55 is amazing id love to be her.

Damn that's got to be the hottest shit I've heard in ages! Thanks for that!

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Originally posted by jen2412

ive slipped myself the finger before... idk if i like it or not... just felt...kinda wierd i guess. guess u never know until you try the real deal though.

. The key is to be ver y close to cumming, then start the butt play. Once you get in there, no one wants you to take all day...

To go from this

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Originally posted by jen2412

ive slipped myself the finger before... idk if i like it or not... just felt...kinda wierd i guess. guess u never know until you try the real deal though.

to this

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Originally posted by jen2412

the last pic on post 55 is amazing id love to be her.

in just two posts
Is one helluva journey

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Originally posted by bustMall

To go from this

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to this

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in just two posts
Is one helluva journey

That is soooo true!

just awesome

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Originally posted by jen2412

i dont get the obsession with the buthole... ive never used it and dont think i ever would...just grosses me out. dont get me wrong, i love a nice shapely butt... but anal play...no thanks.

I agree with jen, one time in my life was more than enough, it left me feeling violated and hurt. If this is what turns ppl on then good for them, I am sorry but I cannot participate. I do not want to dominate, or be dominated. I wish all of those who enjoy this the very best, and I hope you achieve every fantasy your heart desires.

luv all of you
Lia.

ehhh i dont know the more i think about it id probably be willing to try it...given 1 thing: i was totally clean and so was he and my stomache was empty... if i could get around the fact that the butts usually an exit, id imagine id probably enjoy using it as an entrance... and personally, i love to be dominated. ive played around a bit and if i could get around the grossness factor, id imagine it would feel pretty good. just something id have to ease my way into.

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just something id have to ease my way into.

And that IS the key.

You have got to relax. Sometimes a little alcohol helps. That's a muscle that was designed to close tight, stay tight, and not get tired. Relaxing it takes work. In time, you may get to the point where you can relax it almost at will, but until then, anal is going to hurt if it's rushed into.

It's got nothing to do with domination really. Maybe for some. Not me. I'm not a dominator. I treat my woman with tenderness, unless she asks for more. Rough sex does not turn me on. I'm a love'er not a bang'er. But there is that taboo about anal, and curiosity that I think peaks everyone's interest to some degree. I can see a rushed and rough first time experience would probably turn anyone off.

Seems to be a large concensus, and it's certainly true in our case, that done right, there's nothing that polishes off a big "O" quite like it.

And from my perspective, it's not something I'd want a lot. A warm wet vag is superior in most regards, but every once in a while...... yeah baby. She kind of treats it like a special occassion thing for me too, which is cool. I can sort of look forward to a valentine or holiday experience with a little anticipation, and a little anticipation towards a sex experience is always good, eh.

Bustmall has pretty much said it all here. Again, I have an extremely unique perspective here on the subject but I can pretty much guarantee that if the mind is willing, anal penetration can be wonderful for anyone. But getting the mind right is key.

ohhh i soooooo disagree for me its all about domination... im a small girl and theres something about a bigger guy that can take control of me and toss me around a bit that makes me feel safe... to me being controlled is being loved... i mean dont get me wrong at times i like tenderness (especially if im with another female) but most the time, especially if im really into a guy, i want him to saddle me up and just show me what he can do to my little self. as much as i have the grossness barrier to get over when it comes to anal, i feel like if i could get over that, it would be like the ultimate way to show my man he runs me. except for maybe multiple men. thats another thing on the bucket list.

i used to date tender nice guys... and i never was satisfied with them... which led me to a brief lesbian phase (and this site lol)... then i had the epiphany that i was just finding the wrong guys. pretty nice and tender isnt for me. Tall, dark and in control, YES PLEASEEEE

Makes me wonder if we define "dom" in the same way. I define it as a slave and pain thing. I am not into hurting girls. Nope.

But this, which is sort of what I think you're describing, is just flat out hot sex. Starting out with my favorite... http://www.timekiller-erotic.com/Video/265/young_russian_couple_sex.html

Being able to hold a small girl in the air and just go to town, well, it just don't get any better than that... and that's one helluva grand anal position, but only for the more advanced. For beginners its important that the girl be able to control the penetration if it becomes to painful.

well to me being dominated means a guy just taking control of me, bending me over, doing whatever he wants to me... and pretty much running my life. i dont mean dominated in the kinky sense... i dont like being tied up or being a slave or anything wierd or painful like that. i just like a guy that reminds me every minute that he is the one who wears the pants. to me nothin would show that more than me being bent over a bed or something with him behind me in my butt. its like the ultimate way of him sayin "your mine". if thats makes any sense...

idk...to me guys that are a "sweetheart" is just a major turnoff... sorry, i can be a bitch sometimes, i need a guy who can put me in my place, not kiss my ass and buy me chocolates and creepy stuff like that. white guys especially seem to cant figure that shit out. i dont want mr. nice little boy, i want a fkin man.

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i want a fkin man.

'atta girl !!!

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