Would u get mad if your girl.....

Well, since you asked. Cheating is cheating. Your breaking a trust. Your naive to think that just because you don't have a piece of paper saying your married that your not if your in a commited relationship. And you didn't say anything about what if he started doing one of his female friends or your friends behind your back and how you'd feel. Plus, what happened to your sig? It use to say "I love my man, I just can't resist a hot girl". Don't love your man anymore? If you can't keep to a commitment, then you don't need to be married. Your also naive to think its "just sex". The news is full of people who hurt and kill over "just sex".

i cannot belive some people here accept, because its with a girl! its just as bad as if it wasent


Would you acccept if it was a boy? NO!

Behind the back? Its still cheating. Just as Dag said, its broken trust.

Now if the girl came up and asked, I'd be more disappointed if I wasn't invited in for the fun.

no way hosay.......... It is not tolerated for a woman to have extra marital relationships. It is fine for a male tho, as they are superior. JOKE!

Something done behind someones back is done that way for a reason. It means that you are to be excluded. It is a selfish act performed by a selfish person. To be excluded from something as intimate as sex while in a relationship is a betrayal of trust. A relationship that is not based in trust is doomed. Ther are no exceptions where trust is concerned.
Don't be so busy listening to your little head that you don't think with the big one.

i'd be a lil mad.

and also a lil betrayed.

and its not "every mans fantasy"

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Originally posted by Linchpin

Lesbos are not our friends, they are trying to steal our sexy women! (sure we like the girl on girl videos but they dont like men, they hate us!)

No, we don't try, we suceed !
By the way, we don't need to hate men till we got their girls

Cheating is Cheating

I must agree, its a matter of trust... If a girl is interested in "experimenting" with another girl while she's in a relationship with a man, at least come out and ask him what HIS feelings are on the matter, instead of doing things behind his back.

my girl asked me I said fine with a shit eatin grin hoping to someday join knowing this would never happen there's always this insecurity level though especially since I know about some divorced couples because the woman decided they didn't want any men anymore it's tough but why behind the back I mean if it just happened and than you come clean that's cool but to keep it from them that breaks down the trust barrier...

Reminds me a bit of the movie Old School with Will Farrell when they got to see the marriage counselor if anyone saw it you'll know what I mean if you didn't rent it it's a great flick

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Originally posted by Linchpin

yes very wrong indeed, cheating is not tolerated... i would never cheat on a girl. Its a betrail of the relationship and trust. If someone has done that to you leave the whore asap!

settle down junior!

i would sit her down and make you tell her every grafic detail Hell just play it by ear you might end up with a great threesome. you never know

Well I am not the one i was talking about so, i agree in this totally i just wanted to see how guys viewed it. I agree that cheating is cheating, and I myself do't believe a piece of paper makes the relationship stronger. I am pretty pleased how most of the guys replied.

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Originally posted by Dagnabbit

Plus, what happened to your sig? It use to say "I love my man, I just can't resist a hot girl". Don't love your man anymore?

Actully i thought i erased the whole thing, and yes i do love my man, i have been with him for 6 yrs.

I would be hurt for like 0.0001 seconds, then I'd suggest they continue in front of my back.

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Originally posted by liickme

Actully i thought i erased the whole thing, and yes i do love my man, i have been with him for 6 yrs.

Good for you! Seriously, a lot of people can't make it a couple of years.
(your intro thread was just yesterday, easy to remember your first sig)

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Originally posted by Davallia

i cannot belive some people here accept, because its with a girl! its just as bad as if it wasent


Would you acccept if it was a boy? NO!

i agree..

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Originally posted by Davallia

i cannot belive some people here accept, because its with a girl! its just as bad as if it wasent


Would you acccept if it was a boy? NO!

That's what you get with the " its just sex" attitude.

Well a couple ppl have asked me, if it wasnt me who it was and how my "female female"sex life is then. The ans is simple i feelit is wrong, to do it without the other person knwing, ie boyfriend. If the bf does knw and is ok with it. I have a friend who doesnt feel the same way as i do, she feels its no big deal, i think if u plan on marrying some1 shoud be able to "explore" with them knwing. i think that sums it al up

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Originally posted by HighGuy

Doing it behind the guys back is wrong. It's cheating.

Letting him join in on the fun, a wonderful shared experience for all involved.

Word!