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Originally posted by EricLindros
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Not to get too into it, but a family member of mine committed suicide after returning from service in Iraq. The statistics with regard to the mental health of returning soldiers are quite alarming. I understand it's a war zone and the permanent nature of the situation, and I think it is exactly because of the gravity of the situation and circumstances that silly (my word) rules like this should be thrown the hell out the window. Or if not thrown out the window, at least turned a blind eye to infractions. If I've been placed in an active combat zone I find it a bit ridiculous that I'm banned from having a beer or looking at a pair of tits in a magazine before I lay down to sleep. Same goes with a dog.
If a person is being shot at, mortared, and targeted on a daily basis, is it really THAT harmful to allow them to befriend a puppy? I understand the arguments against it, I just vehemently disagree with them.
Truly sorry for your family member.
Go ahead an disagree with them. Here is some more background information. The biggest reason for the alcohol and porn ban is because of the religious objections of the Islamic faith. We are respecting their objections to this type of material, even though satellite TV is widely available and has porn on it. Any Iraqi can get alcohol if they want it, but the official Islamic policy is no to both.
The military has recognized the value of dogs to soldiers that are visiting mental health providers, and they have a program for military working dogs to be used by the mental health clinics.
Every soldier knows that they can be extended, or "stop lossed" when they sign their initial contract, and every reenlistment contract. If they say they don't know this they are lying, or simply didn't read their contract. Did you know that every person who enlists in the military signs a contract for eight years? They may only sign up for three years active duty, but the remaining time is subject to call up in the Individual Ready Reserve. Even soldiers who "retire" after 20 years are subject to call up at any time. We don't get retirement pay per se, but draw a retention pay for this.
Service members agree to give up certain liberties when we serve our country. It is something we choose to do. You may not agree with it, some of the soldiers find out that they don't agree with this and get out after their contract is up. Those of us serving for 20+ years understand that this is for a much greater cause than self and feel privelidged to have the opportunity to continue to serve so ALL of our countrymen many live free.
Get out there and vote. I don't care who for, although I have my personal choice even though neither one are my first choice. Just get out and exercise the privilege that so many soldiers have given their lives for.