Did/does she ever make you sneak in an out of her house so her kid(s) or roommate(s) wouldn’t know you spent the night?
Did/does she ever make you use a different name when you call, in case her roommate/sister/kid answered the phone?
Did/does she ever insist that you drive separately to a date so her friends wouldn’t see her arrive in your car?
Did/does she have a “girls’ night out” with her friends every week but become suspicious if you ever want to go out without her, even if it’s just to shoot pool with a friend?
Did/does she ever come over to your place for sex, but refuse to stay the night?
Did/does she ever go to family functions but not invite you?
Did/does she ever put you on a schedule for when you can call or see her at home?
Are there certain friends she won’t introduce you to?
Have you ever tried all night to call her and then gotten a lame excuse about a ‘friend in need’ the next day, but she’s really horny and needs to see you badly when you do talk to her?
When you started dating, did she almost immediately ask you to:
• Work on her car or take it to the shop for her?
• Move furniture for her or her friends/family?
• Fix things around her house?
• Work on her computer?
• Lend her money even though she has a job that pays better than yours?
• Go with her to a wedding where you knew absolutely no one but her?
These are all signs that you are in a very temporary relationship, if you’d even call it that at all. Once you have served your purpose, whatever it may be, you’re history. The ONLY thing that will make it last any longer is if you’re REALLY good in bed and she hasn’t had any for a while before hooking up with you.
It doesn’t matter if you just started dating her or if you’ve been putting up with this shit for years (I DID put up with several of these signs for nearly two years, and then got dumped on a moment’s notice.) I’ve also dated two other women who completed the list. I dumped THEM for it.
When I first dated this woman she would insist that I sneak out before 5:00am before her daughter would wake up. I couldn’t come over before 10:00pm either because her daughter was still up. For six months she insisted we meet up when going out if her friends were wherever we were going. I didn’t meet anyone in her family for eight months, and I could never call her on Wednesdays under any circumstances. After we started dating, I was in charge suddenly of getting new tires on her car, changing oil, all home improvements where she lived, and we went to a wedding the second week for some friend of hers from high school who was finally marrying the guy she had three kids with, and I spent the whole night standing right beside my new girlfriend, pretending to be interested in a dozen or more conversations with strangers.
after a year or so, she stopped wanting to go to concerts, rodeos, movies, or anywhere together. She insisted I go alone and "have a good time." I should have seen it then, but it's been several years and looking back it's pretty clear. I have a friend who's going through this same shit now so I thought I'd see who else is.
If you’ve seen other signs, or have an experience of your own, post it.
Did/does she ever make you use a different name when you call, in case her roommate/sister/kid answered the phone?
Did/does she ever insist that you drive separately to a date so her friends wouldn’t see her arrive in your car?
Did/does she have a “girls’ night out” with her friends every week but become suspicious if you ever want to go out without her, even if it’s just to shoot pool with a friend?
Did/does she ever come over to your place for sex, but refuse to stay the night?
Did/does she ever go to family functions but not invite you?
Did/does she ever put you on a schedule for when you can call or see her at home?
Are there certain friends she won’t introduce you to?
Have you ever tried all night to call her and then gotten a lame excuse about a ‘friend in need’ the next day, but she’s really horny and needs to see you badly when you do talk to her?
When you started dating, did she almost immediately ask you to:
• Work on her car or take it to the shop for her?
• Move furniture for her or her friends/family?
• Fix things around her house?
• Work on her computer?
• Lend her money even though she has a job that pays better than yours?
• Go with her to a wedding where you knew absolutely no one but her?
These are all signs that you are in a very temporary relationship, if you’d even call it that at all. Once you have served your purpose, whatever it may be, you’re history. The ONLY thing that will make it last any longer is if you’re REALLY good in bed and she hasn’t had any for a while before hooking up with you.
It doesn’t matter if you just started dating her or if you’ve been putting up with this shit for years (I DID put up with several of these signs for nearly two years, and then got dumped on a moment’s notice.) I’ve also dated two other women who completed the list. I dumped THEM for it.
When I first dated this woman she would insist that I sneak out before 5:00am before her daughter would wake up. I couldn’t come over before 10:00pm either because her daughter was still up. For six months she insisted we meet up when going out if her friends were wherever we were going. I didn’t meet anyone in her family for eight months, and I could never call her on Wednesdays under any circumstances. After we started dating, I was in charge suddenly of getting new tires on her car, changing oil, all home improvements where she lived, and we went to a wedding the second week for some friend of hers from high school who was finally marrying the guy she had three kids with, and I spent the whole night standing right beside my new girlfriend, pretending to be interested in a dozen or more conversations with strangers.
after a year or so, she stopped wanting to go to concerts, rodeos, movies, or anywhere together. She insisted I go alone and "have a good time." I should have seen it then, but it's been several years and looking back it's pretty clear. I have a friend who's going through this same shit now so I thought I'd see who else is.
If you’ve seen other signs, or have an experience of your own, post it.
