Definitions
Masturbation
It's sex-by-yourself, it's "solo-sex." Stimulating (usually rubbing) the penis to achieve orgasm and ejaculation. (slang - wanking, jerking off, jacking off, beating the meat, beating off, whacking off, spanking the monkey... and lots of others)
Semen
The fluid that comes out your penis during ejaculation. Sperm live in this fluid (slang - cum, jizz, spooge)
Ejaculation
Literally means "suddenly" and refers to semen coming out of the erect penis. (slang - cuming, shooting your wad, spooging)
Orgasm
Intense feelings and muscle contractions associated with ejaculation.
Lust
Feelings toward others of sexual: craving; eagerness; desire; passion; urges
Fantasy
Imagining sexual acts with others in order for you to achieve ejaculation
How many masturbate?
Surveys have consistently shown that more than 95% of males engage in masturbation, particularly during adolescence. (Some say the remainder are lying!) Dr Dobson of "Focus on the Family" notes that there is absolutely no controversy on these figures from any source!
Some surveys went on to say there was no difference in the rate of masturbation between boys brought up in a Christian environment compared to those brought up without Christian influence. The boys from Christian backgrounds did, however, feel more guilt over masturbation.
Boys cannot fail to know about masturbation at a young age these days since it is a regular topic in the school yard and everywhere they go. (A 1998 internet survey (3) claimed 50% of boys had masturbated by their 13th birthday and 84% by their 14th birthday)
Will others know I have been masturbating?
" I feared my friends would be able to tell. I thought I might act different or walk differently the next day after masturbating. I remember my peers accusing me of doing it, and I didn't say anything to defend myself, because I knew it was true. I tried to quit altogether a few times, although quitting never lasted more than a couple of days or a week at most. (3)"
If you clean up after masturbating, then no-one will be able to tell - including a doctor! The only clue would be if your penis was red and sore from too much masturbation!
Masturbation
It's sex-by-yourself, it's "solo-sex." Stimulating (usually rubbing) the penis to achieve orgasm and ejaculation. (slang - wanking, jerking off, jacking off, beating the meat, beating off, whacking off, spanking the monkey... and lots of others)
Semen
The fluid that comes out your penis during ejaculation. Sperm live in this fluid (slang - cum, jizz, spooge)
Ejaculation
Literally means "suddenly" and refers to semen coming out of the erect penis. (slang - cuming, shooting your wad, spooging)
Orgasm
Intense feelings and muscle contractions associated with ejaculation.
Lust
Feelings toward others of sexual: craving; eagerness; desire; passion; urges
Fantasy
Imagining sexual acts with others in order for you to achieve ejaculation
How many masturbate?
Surveys have consistently shown that more than 95% of males engage in masturbation, particularly during adolescence. (Some say the remainder are lying!) Dr Dobson of "Focus on the Family" notes that there is absolutely no controversy on these figures from any source!
Some surveys went on to say there was no difference in the rate of masturbation between boys brought up in a Christian environment compared to those brought up without Christian influence. The boys from Christian backgrounds did, however, feel more guilt over masturbation.
Boys cannot fail to know about masturbation at a young age these days since it is a regular topic in the school yard and everywhere they go. (A 1998 internet survey (3) claimed 50% of boys had masturbated by their 13th birthday and 84% by their 14th birthday)
Will others know I have been masturbating?
" I feared my friends would be able to tell. I thought I might act different or walk differently the next day after masturbating. I remember my peers accusing me of doing it, and I didn't say anything to defend myself, because I knew it was true. I tried to quit altogether a few times, although quitting never lasted more than a couple of days or a week at most. (3)"
If you clean up after masturbating, then no-one will be able to tell - including a doctor! The only clue would be if your penis was red and sore from too much masturbation!
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