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Jeff post - girl issue

Starter: mal Posted: 18 years ago Views: 5.3K
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#2313891
Lvl 17
Background: male - 30's female 20's - met her at restaurant w her tits falling out. perky b/c's. Her body is a+ her face is a c. Most of the time shes pretty cool and reminds me very very much of butch's (bruce willis) gf in pulp fiction.

I have pretty thick skin. I firmly believe in positive people rule and negative people suck.

Incident 1: singing

So I take her to a karoke bar. (My last gf said I sung so well that she wanted to hear me instead of the digital song on the comp. Many others have said same. IM not bragging just giving you background) This was like our fourth date and we already had carnal knowledge. So I sing. I get off she says Oh im sorry "I didnt even see you i was talking to some people". (strangers) Ok fine no big deal.
We leave drunk. On the way home I say yea i think i sang prety good..she says "no you had your hands on the mike the whole time so you couldnt hear you" ..Obviously I was "surprised" cuz she said she didnt even see me. We get in tiff no big deal. She goes home i go back to karoke where some girl hangs on me cuz "i have a great voice". I go home alone. Not mad next day carry on w girl like no big deal.

Incident 2: eating

Different night we go out to eat. I have an extra 25 pounds. I got a beer gut. Im not bad looking but i got a beer gut. She knows I wanna lose it. We sit down to eat. I order. We have some drinks. Food gets there. Just as im taking a bite she says "i thought you were trying to lose weight" I go off on her for very poor timing. Maybe before I ordered, before we went to eat was a good time to remind me. Not when its in my fucking hands. shes surprised I lose my appetite. No big deal I get over it.

Incident 3: dancing

We go get sushi. We have fun. We talk and drink and have general good times. We leave she wants to go home instead of my house - I say ok im going out..NO she wants to go now. Ok fine lets go. We go to bar. We start dancing. Good song. she stops and is looking at the guys behind me and then looking at me and laughing. I see but I dont care cuz im having fun. She continues to do this. I even turn around and look at the guys behind me and they look away.
A few nights before we had gone out. We danced and some techno song came on. I start going to town dancing and I tell her "omg my gay side came out" b/c Im rocking to some techno music. She laughs and I laugh.
Back to the night in question. While standing there giggling, I think at me, but im not sure, she says I guess your gay side came out again. I laugh and say yea I guess so and continue to dance. Few moments pass and she says it again. I nod and continue to dance. few more moments and she says it again. So I stop and ask "are you trying to ruin my time?" when Im expressing displeasure then she suddenly is all over me when im angry. So im like "you want me angry? before when I wasnt you acted like you didnt know me now your all over me." Whatever lets go.

I call her an asshole and we bicker on the public street.

She messages me this morning like nothing happened.

So if you have real input would love to hear it. Lame comments just for the sake of commenting can be saved till later. thanks.
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#2313892
Lvl 29
Sounds like the girl has some mental problems. I'd forget about her and move on. Life's too short to fuck around with shit like that.
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#2313893
Lvl 12
The first two instances sound like she either has no internal censor that keeps her from saying stupid/hurtful/annoying shit or she's plain old nuckin futs. The last one sounds almost like she would rather join a group of strange dudes that we're making fun of you so they could try and bang her, rather than show some loyalty and/or spine. I'd move on, but as the wise man once said "Don't quit one job until you've found another."
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#2313894
Lvl 17
Quote:
Originally posted by hank213

The first two instances sound like she either has no internal censor that keeps her from saying stupid/hurtful/annoying shit or she's plain old nuckin futs. The last one sounds almost like she would rather join a group of strange dudes that we're making fun of you so they could try and bang her, rather than show some loyalty and/or spine. I'd move on, but as the wise man once said "Don't quit one job until you've found another."


!! well said. I think you hit the nail on the head. Glad im reading the situation as yall have. yes I think i will bow to the greater head and continue to "hang" with her just to hit it. She did tell me last night before we got in a fight that shes never had a boyfriend. after the fight I said I see why now.

Ill try to limit my public interaction with her. Dinner - my house. movies - my house. drinks at my house - my house. lol
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#2313895
Lvl 11
Get her in the sack, you might as well seeing as you've had to put up with her crap for this long and then leave her. If thats not happening its not worth the effort man.
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#2313896
Lvl 19
Quote:
Originally posted by rainbowdemon

Sounds like the girl has some mental problems. I'd forget about her and move on. Life's too short to fuck around with shit like that.


yeah, this is a wise advice
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#2313897
Lvl 22
Quote:
Originally posted by hank213

The first two instances sound like she either has no internal censor that keeps her from saying stupid/hurtful/annoying shit or she's plain old nuckin futs. The last one sounds almost like she would rather join a group of strange dudes that we're making fun of you so they could try and bang her, rather than show some loyalty and/or spine. I'd move on, but as the wise man once said "Don't quit one job until you've found another."


i second that.

happy birthday hank (beer)
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#2313898
Lvl 51
Dump her!!!





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#2313899
Lvl 17
Pics?
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#2313900
Lvl 17
some on my phone is not on my comp yet. when i upload em to my comp ill put em here
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#2313901
Lvl 6
dude you gotta run away from that chick I know girls like that and they dont change you can do romantic things until a blue moon shows up but she will never really like you and she will treat you like shit but the second you bring some drama she is all over you and never remembers her down falls but always shouts about yours i am telling you run
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#2313902
Lvl 14
Quote:
met her at restaurant w her tits falling out


Quote:
Ill try to limit my public interaction with her. Dinner - my house. movies - my house. drinks at my house - my house. lol


I don't think she has mental problems, she's just not refined. As you said, you met her and her tits were falling out. Before you even first spoke to her were you expecting that she was a debutante? I think you already have the approach down correct. Have fun with her but don't be mean to her. You get sex out of it and she learns how to interact with a boyfriend.

Make sure it's over within a month, though.
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#2313903
Lvl 16
1) Get some good fucking in!
2) Take some nude pics and most here.
3) Get rid of her (unless you want to train her... but good luck with that one)

Nice tits!
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#2313904
Lvl 28
she sounds like an asshole...a crazy bitch who plays with people..she'll push..and push..and push some more..and when you finally snap and tell her to fuck off....she'll be on the phone with her friend going "he freaked out over nothing, i dunno what the fuck happened" because shes so self involved she cant take her fucking head out of her ass (or she has some mental disorder)..i cant tell the difference..and thats saying something..when you hear something that rude..and you cant tell if the person who did it is just an asshole..or insane...its a bad sign...like arch009 said..get ur fuckin done then leave..chicks messed up
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#2313905
Lvl 16
Sound like quite the trick you have on your hands . Also sounds like the average girl though . They like to test you , to see how far they can get away with shit until you snap . Then they are all over you after when they know your pissed off so they can win you back with sex . Almost a self gratifying game they play because they think they can control you .
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#2313906
Lvl 14
Okay well regardless of what you think of me or my own inability to get laid in even a morgue, I have to point out that I have gotten at least two people on this site laid as a direct result of them following my advice, so since my name came up in this one, I'm going to chime in...

People let their bad side out when they're drunk. That's no big deal if they don't drink a lot. But with this chick, you need to assess how much you'll be dealing with that side of her when she's hammered. Plus what she says when she's drunk is just stuff she's thinking when she's sober, keep that in mind. Obviously she's; into the drama. You have to assess how much of that you want too. Only you can answer that for yourself. Obviously it turns her on when you get mad at her so why not just get her pissed and then be nice to her, then act like she did something wrong, then be nice to her for no reason. Ignore her sporadically and flirt with other women in front of her. Of course then she'll do the same thing, but YOU just act like you don't give a shit. Just stop talking to her for about half an hour at time when you're out. Keep that up and sooner or laster she won't know whether to shit or go blind, she'll throw herself at you and you can fuck her all you want.

My advice: Play her until you no longer feel like it, but don't get serious. She sounds like a psycho. Just get your lay in soon, that way if and when it ends, you walk away saying you got some. Do not let her control anything, your emotions included. He who cares less controls the relationship. If you can't be the one to care less, then you do not have the nerves of steel required to be in this game.
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#2313907
Lvl 6
quit wasting your time and move on
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#2313908
Lvl 23
Quote:
Originally posted by morgoth03

quit wasting your time and move on


morgoth's right...

It’s clear to me, while reading this post This girl is very immature.

Your in your 30s, she is in her 20s. If you wanna fuck her, do it fast.

Personally-If it was me, I’d find a woman more my age group.

**** ™
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#2313909
Lvl 22
(offtopic)

i love that jeff is such a personality here that his name is thrown in on long posts!


anyway, get rid of the manic-depressive chick...nothing but pain. also, jeff himself gave you some good advice
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#2313910
Lvl 9
Tie her up in your basement and use her a personal sex slave.
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