I desperately need help! Plz help

Hey, i know i dont post much but i love the hell out of this website and you guys are the only ones i can turn to right now. I am currently 6months into a 12 month deployment in iraq and im going home on leave soon. The problem i am having is i havent had anything other then a hard time these last 6 months and when i get home i really want to have a 3 way. How do i go about it? How do i even bring the subject up? I am married to the worlds greats gal and love her very much, but i really would like this, does that make me a poor husband and a pig? The problem is i get really bored over here at times and i keep thinking about this, what should i do? My wife also has a rather large breasted friend who seems she might be into it.

this is something that if you really wanna try, youre going to have to work her up to it and feel her out. If you just get home and say what you want, youll be single real quick, at least in my opinion.

Just get a couple hookers and hide it from your wife

This sounds bogus to me.

If it is real, then despite your honorable service to country, you are an idiot. If you are married and she is "...the worlds[sic] greats[sic] gal" and you love her, then you stay faithful. End of story.

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Originally posted by hiproof

This sounds bogus to me.

If it is real, then despite your honorable service to country, you are an idiot. If you are married and she is "...the worlds[sic] greats[sic] gal" and you love her, then you stay faithful. End of story.

Bogus? I dunno, it seemed pretty legit to me, just a man asking for an opinion on a subject.

I would try to see how your wife feels about it subtly. Asking a question never hurt anyone, you should try not to name names though, don't be like "your large breasted friend seems cool"...if she is into it she should probably pick the girl. Also, if she's not down with it, don't pressure her....pressuring someone into something they don't want to do will only lead to an argument.

You are a fuckin idiot

First you must keep the bond that you had with your wife before deployment. This is going to take some work on both of you.
It will not be all roses when you get home. For a few days, a week maybe. But then the reality will set in, you were on tour for a year and she was without you for a year. Neither of you will be the same as when you deployed.There will be the initial lust and then you both will have to work on your marriage.

To suggest to her that you want a three way implies at this point that she is not adequate for you.|If you love her you will not even bring this up for a couple of years.

Now grow up, come home and work on your marriage.

once my older brother said:

"Better regret something you did, than regret you didn't"

I hope you understand what I mean...

get them drunk then go for it

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Originally posted by waywardson

get them drunk then go for it

Such a romantic...

Determine what is most important to you in life. Act accordingly.

Thank you for your service.

Best, most surefire way to get it done is to take some of that hazard pay and blow it on a couple of escorts.

Because you're obviously not smooth enough to get that shit to happen on its own.

Your wife has been home alone waiting for you. Do you think you are being fair to her?

if you really love your wife, remember that most 3 somes end in a break up....also remember that you were not the only one alone for all that time...

Thanks for the advice guys, it offered a different light. I had only been married for four months when i left and i guess im still not in the married mind set yet, so i really need to work on that.

If you get with her large breasted friend be sure to take a vid or atleast some pictures and post them on here

Good Luck with your dream

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Originally posted by HarleyDude

Your wife has been home alone waiting for you. Do you think you are being fair to her?

how can u be so sure?

I would go ask Dan Savage. This sounds like a question he has answered many times over (though the iraq part is new). If nothing else, look through his archives and you'll find some good advice from people in very similar situations...

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=1133478
or
http://www.avclub.com/features/savage-love/

I'm surprised you can connect to WBW from iraq, I feel like it's one the army would have blocked pretty quickly to...avoid exhausting the troops...