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Originally posted by Sugarpie
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Lastly...there is NOTHING, and I mean nothing convenient about an abortion, and you suggesting so makes me so furious that I had to take 10 minutes to calm down to reply to you. It is a horrible, awful experience...one which even pro choice people avoid talking to you about because its so emotion. You often have to wade through protesters yelling at you and calling you a baby killer, and when its finally over and you need some support, there is often no one there for you. And a personal goal?? Do you honestly think that getting an abortion is some sort of badge of honour? Seriously...go back to the rock that you crawled out from and stop talking about something that you obvious know nothing about.
WOW. Civil conversation with you is certainly a challenge.
You yourself stated earlier that you hoped you never had to make such an agonizing decision, but if you knew you could not properly care for a child, then abortion would be the right choice for you.
Separating emotion from it, that is a choice of convenience. Maybe you'd like a different word?
By "goal", I'm talking about career goals. A baby would get in the way of those goals.
I know that the "20's" is also the most sexually active and adventerous demographic, and that contributes to the rate as well, but it doesn't change the fact that many women in their 20's choose an abortion over delivery because of it's impact on her career, and/or her perceived ability to find a mate. You think I'm just making that up? C'mon. If so, it's not me hiding under the rock. The cold hard facts of this issue are very unpleasant, from many different viewpoints.
I wonder what the baby in the video I posted was experiencing as the forceps crushed it's skull? I guess the only consolation is that it's suffering didn't last a lifetime, it just snuffed a lifetime out.
While I might not know anything about what it's like to experience an abortion from personal experience, I have certainly listened to many that have. What I do have experience with is the agonizing 7 month long wait, hoping your wife lives, after the doctors told her at 8 weeks, "We need to abort this baby". I loved my wife more than that baby. My wife would not consider it.
Oh what a beautiful young woman that baby is turning out to be.
There's one difference I have with the staunchest of the anti crowd. I could never tell a woman who has been told "For your own survival, we need to abort", that she could not do it. I could not force her to give up her own life, for the potential life of her baby. My wife is different. She is a no abortion for any reason person. All i can say is she practiced what she preaches and was willing to accept the consequences. It was a hard 7 months for me.
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