I really consider the two to go slightly hand in hand. To be in love to me is a special title, but I know not everyone feels that way.
Love does indeed make people blind, but I think it's more of a case of infatuation?
Or perhaps lust?
My last gf was sprung from a similar beginning, we did everything but sex the first night we met and sex from then on out...and the first night there were people in the room haha.
We dated for about 3 months or so, but I never had any respect for her because respect has to be earned. Her combination of stupidity and my disrespect from her led to me dumping her, but on friendly terms. We fucked for many months after, all because instead of being a bastard, I sat her down with a talk. Win-Win for me.
The point being is that she never should have been my "girlfriend" even if I didn't give the term much credence in regards to her. From what I can tell about your story, this girl should have never been associated with the word girlfriend either, just judging by her beginnings with you.
As my friend always says: "You can't turn a ho into a housewife"
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