(Or any older lesbians than myself feel free to post)
I was just wondering if say, 40 to 60 year old men find 40 to 60 year old women "hot", or if by that point it's pretty much all down to mostly emotional attraction?
I'm only 19, 20 in about a month, and so obviously I find girls my own age to be the most attractive, but I VERY rarely find myself thinking "she's hot" to anyone over around 30 at oldest. =S
Discuss?
yeah i don't know, im 19 and find girls between 17 and 22 or so to be most attractive for me, and while i can definitely call others girls good looking or pretty or something, what i'd define as "hot" is very rare for me to call someone over maybe 26, and about never over 30 RARELY.
that, actually, was really good answer. the whole bit about "take the hottest girl they think they'd actually have a chance with and give her a 10 then basically grade all other girls on a curve based on that" kind of makes sense.
Attractive in what sense?
I don't like matronly figures. Grandmother bodies don't appeal to me.
Though older women are more fun to talk to.
But if I want sex, she would be in her late twenties.
Hugh Hefner once said the ideal age for a woman was 27.
Seryano - attractive as in, if you were only rating the girls/womans body from 1-10, would you still give say 30-40 or 40 -60 women high marks?
Now though I ask you Jenn how do you feel about older men? Cause I find women to think almost opposite of men. Meaning they seem to like guys a little older then they are and a little more "distinguished" or whatever you want o call it. Now that I'm 27 I get hit on a lot by 18-21 year olds, way more then I did when I was 21 myself. When I was 21 I had to chase them, now it seems that they want to chase me. Nothings changed really I've always been in shape and still am the only thing is in the face I look more grown and more mature I guess. I realize 27 isn't "older" exactly but it's older then 21.
edit: I think you told me once you're only into chicks so if so what do your friends seem to think about older guys?
Difficult to say to be honest because im a lesbian so i don't really spend much time ever looking at guys looks much, i care a LOT more about their personalities. though obviously i can still tell a good looking guy. i find guys between about 20 and 24 best looking to me personally. girls often chase guys 6 to 8 years their senior if they are good looking in hopes they will also be more mature, settled, and well off financially enough to support them. (which has nothing to do with the LOOKS part of my post, just replying in regard to your last couple sentances)
30 plus is best! way better then young women. They have more smarts about them. Oh! and they are much better in bed!
@wastintime: Yeah but we're not talkin smarts we're talkin strictly appearance.
Yeah Jenn, I knew you were a lesbian just slipped my mind when I wrote it. I added an edit to it probably while you were writing your reply.
Honestly though I think the proof is out in the world if you just open your eyes. Who do all the 60-80 year old billionaires marry? The 20 somethings. They could have a nice well balanced fairly attractive older lady too but they don't want that. That goes right back to my previous statement though of people basing hot on who they can or can't get.
If you ever see the corny ass show "Millionaire Matchmaker" you'll see all these older guys just picking through crops of 20 somethings. SOmetimes they'll even say "I want a mature woman who I can settle down with" but the second they're ina room with all the girls they always go for the hot 20 something instead.
*waits for honda to notice my gif, and it's relation to my last comment*
