Chemistry, BULLSHIT! Or is it?

I've heard it a hundred times from a hundred women, there has to be a certain "chemistry" with a mate before they'll fuck em or date them or whatever. Even worse, "There's just no chemistry between us." I thought it was always some female bullshit. The only thing I need to know about a woman is that she has a vagina. I've never felt chemistry, untill today that is. I was at a book store sitting down going over the firtst couple of pages of a novel. This girl past by and this wave of energy came over me and BAM instant 13yo boy erection. I looked up and she was looking at me smiled and looked away. She was kinda cute, conservativly dressed, definetly not instant boner material but still very doable. I chased after her but she left with a couple of guys she came in with. So this ever happen to any of you guys? Is this what you women consider chemistry? If so, does this mean I am turning into a woman?

dude, the same thing happened to me, and im datin' her now, and because of that chemistry shit, or whatever the ladies call it, i couldn't be happier.

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dude, the same thing happened to me, and im datin' her now, and because of that chemistry shit, or whatever the ladies call it, i couldn't be happier.

That sucks for me. I don't think I'll ever see her again.

Well i dont think that is the chemistry that us girl's are talking about. That's moe of a damn i want that feeling. And the chemisty is more then that, its alot of diffrent feelings hard to explain, alot has to do with attraction, trust, and feeling comfortable with the person.

dont give me that chemistry shit..........

its either ..ooooh shes fucking hot...

or ....

ooooh hes fucking hot.

they call it chemistry i call it...bullshit

it could be like that a couple of times for girls that is, but not to actlly have a realtionship and and sex life with a person.

Sounds sort of right. I always called it a spark. If I didn't feel a spark between me and some woman then I always stopped the chase pretty quick. Got alot of grief from the guys over passing up some really hot women but I chased a few without feeling the spark and didn't get anything out of it whatsoever (even the kissing was stale).

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Originally posted by Nasty_One

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dude, the same thing happened to me, and im datin' her now, and because of that chemistry shit, or whatever the ladies call it, i couldn't be happier.

That sucks for me. I don't think I'll ever see her again.

I wouldn't worry. their should be plenty of women out there. I've felt a good spark, vibe, chemistry, with quite a few wonderful women. You just need to be aware of it and follow thru on it.

there's 2 kinds of attraction.

teh chemistry - when you're attracted to a woman for reasons other than her body.

teh instant chemistry - when you're attracted to a woman just so you can park the beef bus in tuna town and handle some melons. if you know what i mean.

I think chemistry is something that develope, it isnt instant. Attraction is totally differemt, it just means u wanna fuck her!

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I think chemistry is something that develope, it isnt instant. Attraction is totally differemt, it just means u wanna fuck her!

The thing is I didn't even see her untill after she gave me a boner. Thank god she wasn't a 300lb mama.

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Originally posted by Scott2

there's 2 kinds of attraction.

teh chemistry - when you're attracted to a woman for reasons other than her body.

teh instant chemistry - when you're attracted to a woman just so you can park the beef bus in tuna town and handle some melons. if you know what i mean.

spot on there my trusty sidekick

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park the beef bus in tuna town and handle some melons

ROFL, that term really lightened up my morning .

There is such thing as chemistry, however where I live the women arent great, have had no such mutual connection yet .

Mal

Chemistry is somethin they teach u in high school, what ur rederrin to is lust!

U smelt fish and ur peepee went north!

Hey guys... remember me? I'm back!!!

and about the chemistry.... well actually, I agree with Adman... lust and chemistry... all the same....

That chemistry thing happened to me! So yes it does exist, and your not turning into a woman!

About two and a half years ago, a very beautiful girl was drinking with one of her buddies in the wine bar in which I was working... when she came to the bar to get a drink we spoke for some time and I bought her drinks for her. She returned to her table and I started showing off, as you do, being a bit of a prick. My colleague and I decided to play baseball in the bar using a pool cue and a lemon (being full of nervous energy) I hit the lemon we were using like a howitzer right across the room into the wall behind her and her mate showering the poor girl with juice!!… Immediately ducking from view behind the bar and hoping they would believe the kamikaze lemon had miraculously appeared from nowhere committing ritual suicide on aforementioned wall! After whoops of laughter and cheers from my friends I appeared from my cunning hiding place and bought a drink for the beautiful girl and not the juiced up friend.

The following weekend I saw her again… same bar. She came to the bar stood next to me and we chatted or she did anyway, I had lost the ability to speak, I could not form a sentence, I meant to say "would you like to come out with me and have a meal, perhaps catch a show? what I actually said was "do you eat?" smooth huh?! But she saw pity on this bumbling idiot and we did exchange numbers. We are still together… which is great! She is Awesome! WOW! I am one lucky SOB!

Chemistry is bullshit!

Women take a look at you. They size you up. And SIZE is what matters. If they decide it's not going to be big enough to satisfy them for a night - never mind the rest of their lives, forget it, it ain't gonna happen. If you don't believe me, try padding it out and see what happens... Women just love a big fat one...










You know I'm talking about wallets, right???

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Originally posted by Nasty_One

The thing is I didn't even see her untill after she gave me a boner. Thank god she wasn't a 300lb mama.

If she gave you a boner before you even saw her... that's pheremones.

FROM WHAT I UNDERSTAND "chemistry" is something that happens when two people actually know eachother. It was my impression that "chemistry" has more to do with being able to have a conversation, it's mental rather than physical. A woman can be sexually attracted to a man but feel no chemistry with him. On the other hand, a woman can feel "chemistry" even before she feels attracted to a man, and that chemistry will probably end up as attraction eventually.

Of course, like all women's ideas, it's all kind of soft and fuzzy around the edges, and probably will never be put in definite enough terms for a guy.