My wife and I have been active in a local swingers club for the past year. We also had a live in girlfriend for 3 years. Threesomes are great as long as your relationship is strong enough and there is a high degree of trust. I love my wife and she loves me and anything that happens outside of that is bonus attention. Our current tally is 18 women shared in threesomes, 4 males (MFM)threesomes and we have had 11 swaps with other couples.
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Honda_X 17 years ago
Wow...I'll never understand the dudes who feel the need to double stuff their wives...if I went all rotisserie on my wife..(god willing I'll never have one)...I'd lose all kinds of respect for her.
My_Star_Shine 17 years ago
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Originally posted by Honda_X
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That's pretty dishonest of you...perhaps your relationship has deeper issues.
Does he look at you while you make love?
We have a great relationship. Yes he looks at me when we make love....
I have been with my husband since age 14 so I never really explored my sexuality. This whole being into girls thing is something I'm just starting to accept.
I love my husband I don't want to be with anyone one but him so its not like I'm sleeping around. I was joking about the friend thing.
I guess I just don't know how to bring it up. What am I supposed to say? By the way honey hot chicks turn me on too. Its just a weird conversation to have.
And by the way, I think a threesome would be a bad idea if your in a serious relationship.
OmegaRED 17 years ago
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Originally posted by jandmredclouds
My wife and I have been active in a local swingers club for the past year. We also had a live in girlfriend for 3 years. Threesomes are great as long as your relationship is strong enough and there is a high degree of trust. I love my wife and she loves me and anything that happens outside of that is bonus attention. Our current tally is 18 women shared in threesomes, 4 males (MFM)threesomes and we have had 11 swaps with other couples.
good for you mate, looks like you have a pretty strong bond with your wifey.. how did you feel when you first had your MFM thresome? me and my girl haven't had any thresomes.. when i joke with her about a FMF thresome, she jokes back asking for a MFM but i cant seem to get shake off that weird feeling of seeing another dude bang my girl.. i dont think i'll like it..
deathbyboredom 17 years ago
damn! 14, thats aweful early in life. i hope this is not to foward and you don't have to answer,Quote:
Originally posted by My_Star_Shine
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We have a great relationship. Yes he looks at me when we make love....
I have been with my husband since age 14 so I never really explored my sexuality. This whole being into girls thing is something I'm just starting to accept.
I love my husband I don't want to be with anyone one but him so its not like I'm sleeping around. I was joking about the friend thing.
I guess I just don't know how to bring it up. What am I supposed to say? By the way honey hot chicks turn me on too. Its just a weird conversation to have.
And by the way, I think a threesome would be a bad idea if your in a serious relationship.
what state do you live in that allows marriage at that age? just wondering?
My_Star_Shine 17 years ago
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Originally posted by deathbyboredom
...damn! 14, thats aweful early in life. i hope this is not to foward and you don't have to answer,
what state do you live in that allows marriage at that age? just wondering?
Lol, we have been together since 14 got married at 19.
deathbyboredom 17 years ago
sorry, its the alabama education i have. sometimes it kicks in and i can't even read my own name.
funjohn 17 years ago
My wife is bi. She had a few go-rounds with a roommate in college which I only learned about a few years ago. The idea of seeing her with another woman is very hot for me and she's starting to warm up to it again. I think she's a little nervous since she looks different than she did 15 years ago, but I keep telling her that everybody looks different than they did 15 years ago.
Since it's been so long, I think another possibility is that she not bi now, she was just a bit drunk back then.
Oh well, a man can hope.
Since it's been so long, I think another possibility is that she not bi now, she was just a bit drunk back then.
Oh well, a man can hope.
the_kevin1 17 years ago
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Originally posted by funjohn
My wife is bi. She had a few go-rounds with a roommate in college which I only learned about a few years ago. The idea of seeing her with another woman is very hot for me and she's starting to warm up to it again. I think she's a little nervous since she looks different than she did 15 years ago, but I keep telling her that everybody looks different than they did 15 years ago.
Since it's been so long, I think another possibility is that she not bi now, she was just a bit drunk back then.
Oh well, a man can hope.
college experimentation is where most of it seems to happen, and alcohol plays a huge role in that
jandmredclouds 17 years ago
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Originally posted by OmegaRED
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good for you mate, looks like you have a pretty strong bond with your wifey.. how did you feel when you first had your MFM thresome? me and my girl haven't had any thresomes.. when i joke with her about a FMF thresome, she jokes back asking for a MFM but i cant seem to get shake off that weird feeling of seeing another dude bang my girl.. i dont think i'll like it..
Me seeing her with another guy is really the same as her watching me with another woman. She plays with guys and girls because she is bisexual and if I were bi I would be able to play with both as well. As far as watching her with another guy goes it is very interesting to watch because I know how what she is doing feels and its a different take on things. Plus we fuck like rabbits for a week straight after we swap.
Efferus 17 years ago
There's no fuckin way i'd let another guy touch my girl. I'm a very jealous guy and I don't want to share her. Seeing her with another girl would be amazingly hot, but at the same time, I think the jealousy would kick in... not to mention the fact that she's jealous too (goes all green-eyed whenever a strange girl is even nice to me) and would probably have a major problem dealing with another girl touching me. I know a lot of people will think that we're insecure and our relationship is in danger because we're both jealous, but some people are just that way and it can't be helped. Fortunately for me, both of us are like that.
jandmredclouds 17 years ago
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There's no fuckin way i'd let another guy touch my girl. I'm a very jealous guy and I don't want to share her. Seeing her with another girl would be amazingly hot, but at the same time, I think the jealousy would kick in... not to mention the fact that she's jealous too (goes all green-eyed whenever a strange girl is even nice to me) and would probably have a major problem dealing with another girl touching me. I know a lot of people will think that we're insecure and our relationship is in danger because we're both jealous, but some people are just that way and it can't be helped. Fortunately for me, both of us are like that.
Swinging, swapping, and group sex is not for every couple. From what you have said I would not call your relationship insecure at all. I would say its over secure if anything(Not that that is a bad thing). We have met lots of couples that try to swing and bad things happen. As for the wife and I we have been married for 12 almost 13 years and 4 years of that was a multiple partner relationship. We still have sex with eachother 4-6 times a week, do not fight or argue, and both live to make the other as happy as we can. The level of trust we share is off the charts. Things like this is what it takes to get the most out of swinging.
cirsis7896 17 years ago
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I'm bi but my husband has no clue. He's so jealous I think if he knew I wouldn't be allowed to have any friends.
Mr Cirsis knows I am curious and he is just fine with it!
cirsis7896 17 years ago
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Originally posted by jandmredclouds
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Swinging, swapping, and group sex is not for every couple. From what you have said I would not call your relationship insecure at all. I would say its over secure if anything(Not that that is a bad thing). We have met lots of couples that try to swing and bad things happen. As for the wife and I we have been married for 12 almost 13 years and 4 years of that was a multiple partner relationship. We still have sex with eachother 4-6 times a week, do not fight or argue, and both live to make the other as happy as we can. The level of trust we share is off the charts. Things like this is what it takes to get the most out of swinging.
We agree. Our marriage is sound and our trust is full of integrity.
kewlbreeze 17 years ago
I dated a girl that was Bi. Hands down, the best sex I ever had. There was no emotional attachment for her with girls, just physical which was great.
beckstom 17 years ago
My g/f is bi.She had a relationship last year for approx 12 months with a girl she met when out in town partying.I didn't mind at all cos we have been together 11 years now.In fact she has had sex with more women than men being I am the only guy she has had sex with!!!She just loves the touch, feel, and taste of women and I wont argue with that 
CamelKnight 17 years ago
I guess it all depends on how much trust there is in your relationship before you can have a threesome. Never had any, and my guess that's completely cus of lack of trust. Not that we didn't trust each other at all, just not enough to commit to such a thing.
I'm currently not seeing anyone but if I would and we'd be talking about threesomes, I would do MFM aswell if she asked me to. Give a little, take a little. If you want something, you gotta give aswell.
I don't think women being more bi-sexual these days is a trend. My feeling is that people in general are more open about their sexuality. Sex is no longer a taboo, or at least not in the manner it used to be. I think women 50 years ago had the same feelings but those feelings were either surpressed, ridiculled or ignored. All by themselves. Society said Female-Female sex is bad, like Male-Male sex was bad in those days.
Today however, women know men find it, in most cases, a turn on if they tell em they're bi-sexual. It enhances those feelings and makes them want to explore it.
I sincerely doubt though that even 15% of the women claiming to be bi-sexual really are bi-sexual. Most of them lack any experience in the matter or have only kissed women or had sex with women while drunk or while experimenting in (high) school. I doubt you can call that bi-sexual. Show me a woman who is actually still into women, has a relationship with a woman and sex with them on a regular basis. Then I'll tell you you have a bi-sexual woman.
Provided she's also doing men
I just feel most women are bi-curious, not bi-sexual. There's a huge difference but women like to share it under bi-sexual cus it's more of a turn on for us
Just my 2 eurocents.
CK
I'm currently not seeing anyone but if I would and we'd be talking about threesomes, I would do MFM aswell if she asked me to. Give a little, take a little. If you want something, you gotta give aswell.
I don't think women being more bi-sexual these days is a trend. My feeling is that people in general are more open about their sexuality. Sex is no longer a taboo, or at least not in the manner it used to be. I think women 50 years ago had the same feelings but those feelings were either surpressed, ridiculled or ignored. All by themselves. Society said Female-Female sex is bad, like Male-Male sex was bad in those days.
Today however, women know men find it, in most cases, a turn on if they tell em they're bi-sexual. It enhances those feelings and makes them want to explore it.
I sincerely doubt though that even 15% of the women claiming to be bi-sexual really are bi-sexual. Most of them lack any experience in the matter or have only kissed women or had sex with women while drunk or while experimenting in (high) school. I doubt you can call that bi-sexual. Show me a woman who is actually still into women, has a relationship with a woman and sex with them on a regular basis. Then I'll tell you you have a bi-sexual woman.
Provided she's also doing men
I just feel most women are bi-curious, not bi-sexual. There's a huge difference but women like to share it under bi-sexual cus it's more of a turn on for us
Just my 2 eurocents.
CK
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