Birthday Present

Hey everyone today is my birthday, what do you think is the best way to get my wife to make my wish of taking pictures and videos of her come true? She said she would , a while ago but it never seems to happen.

Hate to break it to you but she probably just agreed to it then to appease you. There's no way to trick her or convince her that isn't reprehensible so you're left with only one option. Ask her. "Remember that time you said you would let me take some photos of you? Are you still interested?"

I'm not looking to trick her, she is just self conscious Since having our little one. I tell her all the time that she is beautiful to me, and there is nothing to be self conscious about

If she's beautiful to you and she has no problem showing it to you why do you want to show her off here. I'm not saying that's ur plan it just seems like it

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Originally posted by JakeEman

I'm not looking to trick her, she is just self conscious Since having our little one. I tell her all the time that she is beautiful to me, and there is nothing to be self conscious about

i'm glad you don't want to trick her because I really don't want to see her if I have any idea that you either tricked or coerced her into posing....that being said though,,good luck friend and a happy birthday

I don't think you can ask for something like this for a birthday present...I mean, pictures last forever, marriages don't. It's sweet that you think she is still beautiful after childbirth, but if she's self conscious...in my opinion, its gonna be really difficult to get her to agree to taking nude pics. My suggestion, if you live in a big enough city is to find a photography studio that specializes in intimate but not X rated pictures...some place that will do her makeup, hair, and make look look like a star, and then take some glamour style pics....some place like this, if you're in the US http://www.glamourshots.com/ Buy this as A GIFT FOR HER, because you want her to see just how beautiful she is. Maybe...after she sees pictures like this, then she'll let you take your own...and if not, then you still have some gorgeous pics of your wife.

I'm not looking to post them up here sorry, I just wanted them for myself, unless she wanted them up then different story.

Alcohol.......Lots of alcohol.........

Trust is everything.

Alcohol! Lot's of alcohol to help relieve the tension she may be having. Maybe suggest deleting them after they're taken if that helps the situation?

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Originally posted by Sugarpie

I don't think you can ask for something like this for a birthday present...I mean, pictures last forever, marriages don't. It's sweet that you think she is still beautiful after childbirth, but if she's self conscious...in my opinion, its gonna be really difficult to get her to agree to taking nude pics. My suggestion, if you live in a big enough city is to find a photography studio that specializes in intimate but not X rated pictures...some place that will do her makeup, hair, and make look look like a star, and then take some glamour style pics....some place like this, if you're in the US[Link] Buy this as A GIFT FOR HER, because you want her to see just how beautiful she is. Maybe...after she sees pictures like this, then she'll let you take your own...and if not, then you still have some gorgeous pics of your wife.

In my opinion, Glamour Shots would be the worst thing you could do. Those are the cheesiest looking photos I've seen of a woman at their house. The fake poses, over done makeup, everything about those shots are horrible.

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In my opinion, Glamour Shots would be the worst thing you could do. Those are the cheesiest looking photos I've seen of a woman at their house. The fake poses, over done makeup, everything about those shots are horrible.

I'm talking quality pictures, taken by a professional, in a studio, after her hair, makeup, and wardrobe have been done by professionals.

Pictures like:




These are cheesy? If thats cheesy, then my advice is get extra cheese.

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Alcohol! Lot's of alcohol to help relieve the tension she may be having. Maybe suggest deleting them after they're taken if that helps the situation?

Speaking of bad advice....yeah...we've never done things we regret after drinking.

Have like a little photo session with her, open your mind... try some honey or melted chocolate.

My husband always liked my glamour shots. This was a before and after....

Anyone want see my asshole?

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My husband always liked my glamour shots. This was a before and after....

I like the brown v neck.

Thank you, actually even though he enjoyed the glam shots, he usually liked the spur of the moment candid shots like the v neck. I had just brushed my hair and turned around and he snapped it.

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Thank you, actually even though he enjoyed the glam shots, he usually liked the spur of the moment candid shots like the v neck. I had just brushed my hair and turned around and he snapped it.