Being cheated on.?

That happens all the time. I often get voice mails when I haven't received a call.

Also, I've never cheated or been cheated on. I have been with girls that were cheating on their boyfriends, but I've never pursued that. It's always been a situation where they have made the first move or I didn't know they were in a relationship to begin with. I do usually feel bad afterwards, but not during.

Regarding whether you need a cell phone or not depends on what you do. You pretty much can't work in my industry without a cell phone.

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Regarding whether you need a cell phone or not depends on what you do. You pretty much can't work in my industry without a cell phone.

How then was it possible to work in your industry prior to their existence? Granted, cell phones can be real convienient, but to call them a necessity is a bit much.

Smoke signals and carrier pigeons.

Most of u naysayers just haven't found out they cheated on you, I was once a fool also

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Originally posted by Jujubeez

was cheated on once, best thing that ever happened to me, was stuck in that relationship for 6 years.

Thanks Cathy

Have to agree with this one, not only did my wife cheat on me, she found it perfectly acceptable to suggest her boyfriend (10 yrs my junior ) move in with us, I got away fast & not too long later met my partner of some 15 years, boy did the ex do me a favour

Well... None of us know this girl ur talking about, and it is my experience that nobody can judge anybody, they don't know in a situation like that! My advice would be to listen to your intuition. Anyway it ain't worth anything living in a relationship like you do now.
Been cheated on = yes
Cheated = several times (can´t help it, i'm a dick and i know it)

Been cheated on - yes
Cheated - yes

The reason I've cheated is because I get really drunk and I'm a flirt. Guys end up taking me home and I don't seem to be able to help myself. Never cheated sober and have always regretted it in the morning

Give your g/f a chance - she may well be telling the truth. If your gut feeling is that she's cheating, that may be the case, but don't base it all on one occasion. Good luck.

I've got to say that if I called my wife and she didn't answer, but did respond to a text message, I would not automatically assume she was cheating. There has to be something else there for you to think she was cheating. Maybe some other instances of evasive behavior, or maybe you feel guilty about something, so accuse her. The only way you can know for sure if she is cheating, is if you catch her in the act, like sucking on a dick, fucking another guy, kissing another guy, etc.

You never know, you could get lucky and she could be cheating, WITH ANOTHER GIRL! SCORE! Have a threesome a few times them dump her and find a more secure girlfriend.

this is just too personal. next question please...

been both the cheater and the cheated-on. Neither one was a good place to be

Ive only been cheated on last year, i had a girlfriend blow another guy and at least fuck someone else (possibly fucked two others behind my back) this all happened in a month...yep 1 month possibly 4 guys in one month cool huh. You also may ask how i didn’t know and ill tell you how i had mono that month and was in and out of the hospital with internal organ problems...sooo yeah she was a blacklisted four little word...you know the one for cheating on me when I was in the hospital . But honestly I do believe in some form of karma because right now im in a relationship with a much hotter girl who it looks like im going to marry. So my advice trust your girlfriend if she cheats it sucks but life can and will get better, don’t be that jealous person because of a cell phone its not worth the aggravation. If I turned into a jealous person after what happened to me which I had every right to I may not have trusted my current girlfriend and probably would have driven her away.

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Ive only been cheated on last year, i had a girlfriend blow another guy and at least fuck someone else (possibly fucked two others behind my back) this all happened in a month...yep 1 month possibly 4 guys in one month cool huh. You also may ask how i didn’t know and ill tell you how i had mono that month and was in and out of the hospital with internal organ problems...sooo yeah she was a blacklisted four little word...you know the one for cheating on me when I was in the hospital . But honestly I do believe in some form of karma because right now im in a relationship with a much hotter girl who it looks like im going to marry. So my advice trust your girlfriend if she cheats it sucks but life can and will get better, don’t be that jealous person because of a cell phone its not worth the aggravation. If I turned into a jealous person after what happened to me which I had every right to I may not have trusted my current girlfriend and probably would have driven her away.

Cool advice. Go with it

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Originally posted by killacafe

Have you ever cheated, and if so did you tell your partner? And what was your reason for cheating?

I feel that I'm beating cheated on, not sure though. Like tonight I called, it went to voicemail after a couple rings. So I wait and hour and txt message, she replies within minutes. Then I send a message asking why she didnt pick up when I called. She said that her phone didnt ring when I called, and i'm the second person today that has told her that they called and it didnt ring.

...well, it sounds suspicious, a strange fact, but no evidence so far, so keep the gun down! you may want to test her cell tomorrow, just say her you want to see if you can fix it and check then the registry on the cell...

...and from my experience, have been dating a girl who did just that because she knew that i'm reacting fucking jealously at such behavior and she loved to tease me, her receipt for great sex to calm me down, for me 5 or 6 of the worst weeks of my life, glad now that i dumped her

I think everyone has gone through this or felt as if they were being cheated on. THe on thing I can tell you, I was cheated on twice in high school...yeah everyone wanted to get laid then, but you develop self-esteem issues from it. Even now, I have been married for 6 years, and at time I think my wife is screwing around on me...but we all go through that feeling once in awhile...you just don't want it to become you.

I have never cheated and never been cheated on. I have never even had any suspicions that I could be cheated on. In fact, ther would be no fucking way I could ever have cheated or been cheated on.

I have been involved when someone else has been cheated on, though.

BTW. Telephones do weird things. My phone doesn't always show incoming call, but gives the calller the busy signal (or in fact, a friendly voice telling "The number you are calling is busy...". My old phone used to fail to play the ring tone at times, still showing the call on the screen. And sometimes my car phone doesn't show incoming call, even though my regular phone is ringing in my pocket (and it's illegal in Finland to answer that while driving).

Yes and Yes and I'd do it again...I seemed to have misplaced my conscience because I have no guilt! BTW if a cell phone is in use it will generally go directly to voice mail.

Cheated on, Yes
Cheated, Yes....For us guys it's not that hard to do...get yourself into a situation where your little head does the thinking...and it's all over. I don't regret cheating on any of my ex's....I have been married once, for 5 yrs...didn't marry til I was 31...I just got divorced in Sept. I NEVER wanted to get married, but she kept bugging me saying she was tired of "playing house"...so like an idiot, I got married..we lived together for 4 yrs BEFORE we got married and got along a shitload better before we got married than after. I will never marry again in my lifetime...living together is fine by me, but you talk about the big M and I'm outta here...so, in conclusion...Cheating is inevitable, in my opinion...how can you go thru life wanting only one person of the opposite sex?...Just don't see it happening

Cell phone isn't proof enough to call her a cheater.
If I had cheated she'd never find out.
If I had been cheated on, they'd never see the light of day.

If you think she's cheating, it;s not just the phone, is it? Ask your self why you think that.
If you just don't trust her don't be with her, find someone you do trust.

Parinoia will destroy ya!!