Advice needed.... please help

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Originally posted by f4t3

If her parents don't like you... you can end up having to be registered as a sex offender!!!!

not in the UK since she is of legal age over there

When she gets to college, she will find out that there are other fish in the sea. Until then, enjoy it all you can. Been there done that. I was 28, she was 18. When she started college, we lasted about 1 semester.

Fuck her!!

dude watch it with teens their heads turn around alot
dont get in trouble, and you know better your 28 not 18

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Originally posted by cyberus

A known fact "girls mature faster than boys"

That known fact is nothing but a bunch of bullshit. People repeat it verbatim as if it was actually grounded on any concrete evidence.

Age really is a number...when your old. You have to realize that at this point in her life, you have lived more then half of hers more then she has. Think of the expierences you've been through, essential life choices and moves you've made. With you, she won't be able to do the same things with the right frame of mind. Now, if you were both 20 ywars older, everything would be different, but shes still in a very maluble state in her life, shes still maturing and growing as a person and who she is will change, and you shouldn't hinder that.

I say stay away, be her friend, help her when she needs help. And if, when shes standing on firmer ground so to speak, and you both feel the same way, go for it.

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Originally posted by Diode

With an 11 year age difference, my only advice is walk away. The sex may be good but it's going to turn south soon when she starts looking at guys in college.

Sounds about accurate...there are plenty of amazing british women, you shouldn't have too much trouble finding another one!

Dude, we don't know what this girl is like, some girls at 17 are much more mature than women of 25 or 27. I try to treat each personal individually. I think you need to make your own mind up. If you were sure about this girl, you wouldn't be asking.

The age gap shouldn't be a problem if you like each other.

Your relationship might work or not work for a number of reasons, don't let the age issue be a problem.

Either way, shag her, then at least you have got your rocks off whilst you're deciding