A taste of B&D

Thanks Jade

My wife's got a real kinky side and likes to be tied up etc. Problem is I'm not really into it.

Swiss, u can learn to luv it. Combine it with something you like, maybe role play, exhibitionism, whatever. I used to go out with a gal who was into exhibitionism and B&D so i took her leashed or cuffed when i went clubbing. made her really hot. Anyway those were new York days and i was a hell of alot younger.

Yeah I don't know I just feel like a rapist or somethin fuckin a girl who's all bound and can't move. I don't enjoy it at all. My compromise is I pull her hair and treat her like a hooker once in awhile when we're fuckin. She just likes it rough.

I don't think she's into some stuff like the titty ties that cut off circulation or the ball gags and things like that. Although the porn she chooses to watch when I'm not around is pretty violent lesbian gang rapes and stuff. Never anything with guys in it. She's a really girly girl so I think something about this total alternative lifestyle attracts her because it's so opposite of who she is.

You can act out anything,Swiss, doesn't have to hurt. Understand and explore her fantasies and why she has them, get into her head. A woman with a rape fantasy has a rape FANTASY. Fantasy is the operative word here. it doesn't mean she wants to get raped really, she just wants to get "raped" by you. Find her limits and use safe words. Its theater in bed!

Oops sorry about the repeat

I hear ya. I'm just really not comfortable playin the rapist. I don't have that dark side to me that has any interest in that stuff. I like my girls willing and able to participate fully. I need to just find some chick who's into it or somethin It's obviously girls she really wants to experiment in that category with anyway since that's mostly what she watches.

She watches a lot of these cheerleader getting gang raped by a bunch of biker/rocker chicks type stuff. Where they have some sweet innocent looking girl getting held down jammed full of strap ons from all directions and shit. It's wild stuff.

Well we are into what we are into Swiss. I can always learn from my partner and find new interests. You get kinkier as you get older too. I,m 64, take meds that fuck with my dick, so I've got to be inventive. I have an understanding G/f, thank God to play with. Sex, good sex anyway, is a 2 way street, two partners two people to satisfy. In the old days when all i cared about was scoring, I never developed the closeness and trust required for this kind of stuff. I've turned down some, who didn't understand their own sexuality and had no limits. I'm not into hurting people only pleasure. Of course,like everything, the definition varies. If you love your girl and want to make her satisfied you two should discuss these fetishes and find a way for BOTH of you to enjoy

Fetishs, the uninformed will call them hangups, usually start in childhood and your teens. For instance my High school years were the early 60's. The only girls who were "sexual" were few and far between and viewed as sluts, they always showed a little cleavage, so today I'm still into downblouse, accidental exposure etc. I cut my sexual teeth in the fleshpots of Asia(Vietnam,Bangkok, Hong Kong, Okinawa) with bar whores, so, visually thats still my ideal. The B&D came later as i got older. I noticed, Swiss that you are under 30, these things may develop

Probably good advice but she won't talk about it. I've tried. It definitely makes her feel dirty which is the appeal I think. She was raised very Catholic, she was a cheerleader, she hung out with the preppie crowd in high school and all that so I think part of her really doesn't want to be into this stuff and is a little embarrassed that she is into it.

Well anyway, nice work with the thread. Keep it goin.

BTW,I'd love to get "raped" by a gang of biker chicks