As for the posting without her knowing, it happens constantly and nobody had all that advice until after we'd seen everything, nobody recommended that he stop posting in the middle...
I'd suggest to the poster that he make some harmless photos and ask her if he can post them "somewhere in the net" and post them elsewhere and show her, she'll be proud of course. Then gradually get her into the idea that she's being shown, and include heavier stuff slowly. That was how I started, I didn't want anything that was hardcore to be shown, but I got used to the idea and love it in the meantime...
Sandra
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